Overweight and Working in Healthcare

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  • lausa22
    lausa22 Posts: 467 Member
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    I'm overweight. Currently training as a nurse, working as a healthcare assistant and after my training im applying to do medicine to become a doctor.
    Never has a day in work gone by where I haven't given 110% in my job and I never want that day to come. I love caring for people and helping them, my own weight has nothing to do with the care I provide. Although I will agree that if a healthcare professional is too big that they struggle for breath and are unable to carry out daily tasks then yes that is a problem. However that is EXTREMELY rare.
    I've had patients tell me I look fine the way I am, I've had the older generation comment on that I look 'full figured' whether that's an compliment or not ill never found out. Then again if I weighed 100lbs the larger patients wouldn't listen to me because they would assume I didn't know what they were going through. I also got angry at my contraceptive nurse when she told me I needed to lose weight, I had just lost a stone and she still told me to lose weight because 'she lost weight and lost 7 stone in 6 months last year' whoop-de-do, good for you, your weight loss has nothing to do with mine I thought.

    People are always going to pick holes in the healthcare service. Next it will be we aren't allowed to drink on the weekends because alcohol is bad for you, even though we only drink when we're not working. Then it'll be healthcare professionals eat too much fast food or what not. As long as what they are doing doesn't effect the care they give, it shouldn't matter.
  • runningjen74
    runningjen74 Posts: 312 Member
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    I work in health care, but am not patient interfacing.

    Looking at patients coming in is part of my motivation for losing weight. I can't do anything about my genetics, and some people have rotten luck and get some c"$py diseases....but others are caused by their lifestyle. I figure I should make the best out of the body I was given - end of. No more ifs ands buts, could have, should have, would have, ....Just do it. This isn't about me judging others and their lifestyle choices but trying to ensure that mine get the best out of me.

    I've noticed my GP has put on weight over the last few years. But he's just a bit over weight. I would struggle a bit more with someone that was very obese. But they're human too, work long hours, often shift work, mine isn't to judge, but to focus on me and myself.
  • Athena53
    Athena53 Posts: 717 Member
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    I also have a hard time listening to weight loss advice from someone who weighs 110 lbs and has never been fat a day in her life. Most of them don't get it. I left one doctor who suddenly got really rude about it on one visit and spoke to me in a highly inappropriate way when the scale showed I gained a few pounds since the last visit. This was a woman who wore her skinny jeans home after giving birth. While I realize doctors can't know what it's like to have every medical issue for their patients, I've always had a hard time listening to those who are thin/slender and don't have a clue on something that's this emotional/physical/mental.

    I can get that. I'm normal weight and have to work at it, but when I read stories here from people with bingeing and stress eating problems, I'm incredulous because I just don't have that tendency. I can see that it would be a lot easier for a doctor who's never had those problems to preach the good old "eat less, move more" without realizing that underlying issues make it more complicated than that. But, one of my big complaints about the health care system in this country is that it's heavily slanted towards quick fixes when sometimes 6 months to a year of counseling would solve the problem.

    I do like to have a doctor who's oriented towards healthy living and prevention rather than a pill for everything, and typically they're thinner.
  • louloulou
    louloulou Posts: 64 Member
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    I have been an RN for a decade now. I have always had a normal BMI. I have worked with ALOT of very overweight nurses, it seems like weight issues are more predominant in nursing (would be interesting if someone did some research on that!). I don't judge a nurse on her weight, I judge them on their performance. Your just as lightly to meet a hopeless skinny nurse as you are a heavy one.
  • Missyb322
    Missyb322 Posts: 145 Member
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    I have been a nurse for 25 yrs and up until 5 yrs ago was overweight. I weighed 245# and worked 2 full time nursing jobs. I had such a bad complex about my wt and what people would think that I over did everything. I refused to have people think that I was fat and couldn't do my job. I went non-stop and did more than anyone else I worked with. I bent, lifted, pushed, squatted, transferred, etc. To be overweight with a BMI of 42 I was extremely active, worked 12 hr shifts 70-80 hrs a week. So basically you can not judge a book by its cover. I did more work than nurses half my size. Was I healthy? I'm sure I wasn't. Unfortunately it doesn't matter what you do for a living...if you are overweight, you will be judged.
  • kss1231
    kss1231 Posts: 167 Member
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    I do feel there is a bit of double standard. Unless I am dying I will not go to the doctor. The first thing out of his mouth is "you need to lose weight", I am very aware that I need to lose but it is not as easy as putting it on. Just once I would like the Dr. to comment on the few I have lost.
  • THICKandFIT
    THICKandFIT Posts: 63 Member
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    During undergraduate school I worked as a research assistant. The program was all about providing nutritional and physical education to older adults with Type II Diabetes. The researcher's were all women in their 40s/50s and they were all in incredible shape. Even the study participants (at least most of them) where thinner than I was/am.

    Although no one ever mentioned my weight I did feel very self-conscious especially as I put on a few more pounds during the time I worked there. Perhaps the most sobering/frightening/uncomfortable thing was when I would file and sort participant's medical records. The action of moving a participant's file to a drawer reserved for those who had passed away during the duration of the story was a huge wake-up call for me. It was clear by looking at numerous patient's medical charts that those who remained obese and sedentary had many more health problems and were more likely to die early (50s-60s). I definitely didn't want that for myself.

    So, to answer your question I did feel slightly judged. However, I'm happy I felt uncomfortable around women twice my age and half my weight. I am happy I could see, first hand, what the effects of poor nutrition and I am happy I decided to make a change.

    I wish you the best of luck with the rest of school (go you) and your weight loss!

    Cheers to long life and prosperity! :drinker:
  • lkcuts
    lkcuts Posts: 224
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    :smile: Only if the are over weight and preach to me about losing it myself.. I work with a gal who is over weight and going to graduate from nursing school this fall. she has realized that she would promote bad health practices and is currently working on exersise and eating healthier. She has lost quite a bit so far and I respect her for it. She is a walking inspiration to me as she does hair 2 days a week, goes to school and has 2 kids. Being a single mom she also has to take her kids to sports practices etc. I figure as busy as she is and can still fit in exersise I have no excuse.
  • runlilyrun
    runlilyrun Posts: 140
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    Just to chip in - the thing about people always having been skinny - they know what it is to eat healthy and move and so on. They don't, however, know what it is to have to make a change.
  • jeansuza
    jeansuza Posts: 148 Member
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    Obesity has many causes. Advertisements, cultural background, environmental issues, hereditary traits and social expectations, among others, are putting equal pressure on both medical staff and population. Maybe even more so if I judge by most of the comments I read here.

    Doctors and nurses may know what to do (and so do I, don't you?) to be healthy but it doesn't mean it is any less difficult for them than it is for you and me. If an obese doctor or nurse would tell me to lose weight, it would at least mean that they understand first hand what my problem is and that they can relate with me. It doesn't mean in the least that they are any less good or competent! Not at all!!! Come on! We don't judge a book by its cover!
  • info_nrs
    info_nrs Posts: 102 Member
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    I'm going to go a little in the opposite direction. I'm a nurse and I'm overweight, my BMI puts me in the obese category. I work in a delivery room, it can be very physical. Yes, it affects me in that I sometimes crawl out of there after a hectic shift, but so do the younger and thinner nurses. I've been doing this for 27 years. And while I may be tired and my back hurts, the seriousness of the job makes sure I don't get lazy, if there's an emergency, I'm there.

    Now, as a patient, I've had many family practice doctors over the years. I've gotten the weight loss lecture more times than I can count. I know that medical school training doesn't spend much time on nutrition/weight loss etc.I also have a hard time listening to weight loss advice from someone who weighs 110 lbs and has never been fat a day in her life. Most of them don't get it. I left one doctor who suddenly got really rude about it on one visit and spoke to me in a highly inappropriate way when the scale showed I gained a few pounds since the last visit. This was a woman who wore her skinny jeans home after giving birth. While I realize doctors can't know what it's like to have every medical issue for their patients, I've always had a hard time listening to those who are thin/slender and don't have a clue on something that's this emotional/physical/mental.

    I'm also a nurse and I've recently started having trouble with my weight. One of my docs said the greatest thing to me (we were discussing exercise and weightloss, etc.), now in my eyes, she was very tiny and she said "the easiest way to lose weight is. .. don't get fat!" Her reasoning was that, once you gain, it is just horribly difficult to lose it---she said she gets it because it has happened to her. So she wasn't being negative, she was telling through experience.
  • momzeeee
    momzeeee Posts: 475 Member
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    My sister has struggled with her weight her whole life and has always been overweight-she had no problem getting a job as an RN, but she works at a nursing home so I don't know if that makes a difference?

    My doctor is a normal weight and the nurses are either normal weight or just slightly overweight. My husband's doctor is a big guy-but he's really tall so he carries the extra weight well. There are a couple really overweight/obese nurses at that office, but it doesn't bother my husband at all so I don't think it's a big deal. Now, if I was seeing a specialist in the nutrition field and he/she was overweight, then that would be a different story. But otherwise it's not on my radar.
  • quicklabs
    quicklabs Posts: 254 Member
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    As a healthcare provider with a heavy patient load and responsibility for teaching medical residents. I usually worked 12 hour days. During my last year, I worked 14 hours a day. I ate lunch at my desk in under 5 minutes. There was never a break. I grabbed junk food just to get quick jolts of energy. When I came home, I'd be so stressed out, I drank several glasses of wine just to settle down and ate a lot of frozen, processed foods and carb heavy meals. I slept poorly. I never exercised or took care of myself in any way. I packed on 30 lbs in just a year and a half, adding to the weight that had already accumulated. With each passing week, I was getting more and more unhealthy and unhappy. After more than 30 years in practice, I quit heathcare entirely last year for the express purpose of saving my own life. It was the best decision I ever made. I have less money, to be sure, but I am convinced that I will live longer and healthier. I greatly admire those who can balance a healthy lifestyle and working an unrelentingly stressful job with long hours. I couldn't do it. I don't judge my colleagues or other providers who are similarly overweight simply because I know that caring for oneself is of necessity sadly overlooked in our business.
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
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    I worked in the Veterinary field a few years ago, 3 to 11 shift at an Emergency 24 hour animal hospital.
    There were 2 of us on a shift with 1 assistant and maybe one person in kennel to treat a book of 75 to 140ish patients on a any given day.
    We ate like hell, drank like crazy and smoked like chimneys (obviously not during our shift but certainly after almost every shift).

    At this particular hospital, the doctors saw the patients, and sent back pets along with medical charts full of diagnostics that we were expected to do as well as treat the hospitalized patients. This may include radiographs, workups with full labs, pneumocystograms, unblocking urinary cats, barium studies, phlebotomy of exotics (reptiles, snakes, turtles, birds etc) installing IV catheters, starting meds & calculating dosages/drip rates etc. stabilizing traumatic injuries, casts etc.

    Working this type of stressful job (the management) not to mention the actual job itself as I and many others, did multiple double shifts. As the years went on, I became more and more Insulin resistant, probably a combination of genetics & work. During that time, I'd watched my middle gradually widen.

    I remember going to a doctor for routine medical check up & I also had what I believed was a nail fungus on my right hand. Not unusual, given my job and the fact that I had my nails done from time to time.

    I asked this skinny, frizzy gray haired hippy type lady (who was my doctor) about the fact that I went to the gym 5 days a week & took classes as well as weight training 3x weekly and I still can't seem to lose any weight.

    She did a complete medical exam, looked at everything, even made me take my socks off to look at my toes etc. She told me to get a book called Food for Life or Eating to Live or some such bull$hit...I remember being shocked that all she had to say on the subject was go get and read this book.

    Of course I dismissed her as a quack. Whatever, I got the Rx for my fingernail fungus & I was ok with that.
    A couple of days later, she called me & said my fasting blood glucose was a little high, 109 (this was 2007 or so) and she wanted me to come in to do a glucose tolerance test.

    I said I'd come in but thought, piffle.

    So what? She never explained what the indications may be and why I needed to do the test. I didn't give it a second thought because when I tried to talk to her about my inability to lose weight, she dismissed me with the dumb hippy book that I did purchase, if I remember correctly but it was a vegetarian diet and had some kind of weird cult-like philosophy (at least in my 30something view at the time).

    Here I am some 6 years later, T2 Diabetic. Diagnosis was an incidental finding when I went to see a doctor for abdominal pain. Mine is a cautionary tale. I did numerous BG curves on cats, regulated hundreds of dogs, and treated a multitude of pets with T1 Diabetes. If this health care professional had only explained to me that she wanted to rule out/in Insulin Resistance, I wouldn't be where I am today.
  • Shellyyy7928
    Shellyyy7928 Posts: 78 Member
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    I'm a CHHA/CNA and work as a resident care aid at an assisted living facility (though in the past couple of months it's begun to feel like a nursing home >.<). Two out of three of my nurses are very overweight. And my fellow aids - the younger girls my age are all skinny/healthy except for me and one other girl and the older women have a good mix but most are no more than 20 pounds overweight.
    Working with the elderly I feel like we are not judged as harshly? I've only ever heard one bad thing said about my coworkers from one of the residents and its because she is almost 300lbs and the residents call her the big one. I've even had one of my residents ask if I wear bikinis because I have the body for it haha (gotta love Creepy old men with alz lol)
  • miss_melissa_
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    Thank you to everyone who has shared their views. I am loving the open dialogue. Let's continue.
  • Mads1997
    Mads1997 Posts: 1,494 Member
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    Hi Everyone,

    I am a second year graduate student pursing a Master of Health Administration. As a student who will be applying for jobs next year, I feel an urgency to have my body reflect the health I promote. I also believe I am judge negatively for wanting to work in healthcare, but being overweight. I know some healthcare organizations outlaw employees smoking because of its negative health outcomes. Yet, hospitals don't regulate obesity in the same fashion.

    I was wondering if anyone on MFP works in healthcare? If so, do you feel as if you are judged due to your weight?

    As for people who do not work in healthcare, do you frown upon overweight healthcare providers (doctors, nurses, therapist, etc.)?

    For me that is a big yes. If you are going to be giving out advice or a healthier life you had better practice what you are preaching
  • Buddhasmiracle
    Buddhasmiracle Posts: 925 Member
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    I have been an RN for a decade now. I have always had a normal BMI. I have worked with ALOT of very overweight nurses, it seems like weight issues are more predominant in nursing (would be interesting if someone did some research on that!). I don't judge a nurse on her weight, I judge them on their performance. Your just as lightly to meet a hopeless skinny nurse as you are a heavy one.

    I agree. As a patient, I see it this way. I've been fortunate to have excellent medical care for a rare genetic cardiomyopathy. I imagine that has "distracted" me from judging the size of the health care providers.
  • pippywillow
    pippywillow Posts: 253 Member
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    I do feel there is a bit of double standard. Unless I am dying I will not go to the doctor. The first thing out of his mouth is "you need to lose weight", I am very aware that I need to lose but it is not as easy as putting it on. Just once I would like the Dr. to comment on the few I have lost.

    It sounds like you either need a new doctor or you need to see yours more consistantly. If you don't go often enough they don't know that you've made progress. My doctor is very supportive of my attempts to lose weight and congratulates me on the progress I've made so far.
  • servilia
    servilia Posts: 3,452 Member
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    As a patient I don't think twice about providers who are overweight. Never really noticed really..