Sister is jealous of my weight loss!?

You can lead the horse but you cant make em drink ....Shes got to want it for herself. Just do what your doing and when shes ready she will come to you or do it how she wants to. She might be shunning the info now but maybe after she gets that you feel better and have more energy She will come around. Just don't push her , I know growing up that's the one thing I hated and made me fight harder to not be the norm . Hard head people just have to get it on their own.

I just want to try motivate her to loose some weight too! What do I do?

Use MFP to brag and talk about weight loss.

Don't bug your real life friends with it.

Jealousy is an ugly *****! My sis-in-law hasn't seen me in months and I've dropped 20 pounds since seeing her last but she won't say anything nice about it. In fact, she made a bad comment about my skin (while everyone looked at her like she was crazy). Well, that's ok as I know that's her way of making herself feel better about herself. Sucks to be her! LOL!

Nothing you can do except continue to set an example. Maybe she'll come around but maybe she won't. Unfortunately, forcing the issue or making an issue of it at all might just make her dig her heals in further. Just keep doing what you're doing; you look great!

I have one foot in that boat right now. my sister has been going thru her weight loss journey for 3 months now and she looks amazing! however is seems like shes rubbing it in my face everytime she posts a fitness photo of herself on facebook... everyday... what does she want a cookie?! I know she doesn't mean to, its just how it feels. sibling rivalry you know especially since I used to be the smaller sister haha. our circumstances are different tho. her weight came from eating bad and drinking a lot. mine came from eating bad and having 2 kids. my sister is shrinking as the days pass by and im still struggling to get rid of the baby pooch ive had for 4+ years... that's where my jealousy stems from.

keep doing what you are doing. don't let your sister deter you from your path. she will eventually come around and realize "if he/she can get up off his/her lazy butt I can too!". don't just ask your sister to go to the gym with you. sensitive people hear that as "youre too fat, you need to exercise". ask her to be your workout buddy instead. tell her you need someone keep you company and to kick your butt when you start slacking off. take cues from her if she says things like "I wish I could... I cant do that... etc" shes looking for some kind of reassurance and possibly help from you. motivation comes about in the strangest of ways for some people.

she has to want this for herself. Do not push her. Her being jealous is the first step which means she wants to loose. Just keep doing your routine and do not compare yourself to her anymore and let her get up the courage to want to do it too.

keep doing what you are doing. don't let your sister deter you from your path. she will eventually come around and realize "if he/she can get up off his/her lazy butt I can too!". don't just ask your sister to go to the gym with you. sensitive people hear that as "youre too fat, you need to exercise". ask her to be your workout buddy instead. tell her you need someone keep you company and to kick your butt when you start slacking off. take cues from her if she says things like "I wish I could... I cant do that... etc" shes looking for some kind of reassurance and possibly help from you. motivation comes about in the strangest of ways for some people.

This is exactly what I was going to say. She may also be afraid to believe that you are doing it without totally starving yourself. I was afraid for a long time that there was no hope for me short of surgery of some sort. I never believed that I could exercise longer than 5 minutes (it hurt), and I thought people would laugh at gyms etc... then I was motivated by a family member who I hadn't seen in years. She used to be about 100 lbs heavier than me at my heaviest and she is looking so awesome, she now plays softball and exercises all the time, yet works full time and still has time for her kids and time for relaxation. Sometimes it's just perspective and organizing everything as real in your mind.

I have lost 4 stone since I left school. Recently, both my best friend and I were at home. I used to spend all week at her house so I saw her parents a lot. I saw her mum this time and apparently after I left her Mum said I must have become annorexic to achieve it. I'm still fat though! I was very big before and I'm still flabby so it's not even like I look really thin. It's 3 years since we went our separate ways by the way, not 3 weeks or something crazy!