Newbie

Hi I'm new at this and never ever thought I would be writting about my weight on a blog! I'm 34 & have been married for almost 3 years now. I have a son that is 15 and a daughter that is 10 and although I gained some weight after I had my kids it wasn't much and I still felt and looked good. After I got married I got comfortable and gained over 40 lbs! I hate the way I feel and look... My husband gets upset because I complain about my weight all the time due to the fact that I have done nothing to change to my eating habbits or do I exercise... just like to complain I don't eat much but I'm eating all the wrong things... I just entered my breakfast & lunch in the food calculator and about died when I saw I was already over my limit on caleries for the day. I'm hoping that this will be a good tool for me that I can learn to utilize to get me back to feeling healthy and comfortable with myself again. Looking forward to a good support system as well.