why guys say what they say.......

Maryaly40
Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
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This is for anybody who has any thoughts.

So, I think I take things the wrong way that come out of the mouths of men. So, I love Adam Levine (everyone has a celebrity crush:blushing: ) anyway, one of my guy friends starts saying to me "when you post things about Adam you're really talking about me" and then " when you think about Adam, you're thinking about me". Now, this guy is in fact good looking, but was he really being that arrogant/cocky or was he messing with me? I don't know........I got a little mad about what he said and turned on some sarcasm. He's my friend, but is he incinuating that I want him or something? He knows I'm married. What do you think?
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  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    I'll bring it up at the next 'Men meeting' and get back to you . . .
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    He's got a crush on yah...
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    He is hinting....he wants to do you.....
  • EmilyOfTheSun
    EmilyOfTheSun Posts: 1,548 Member
    If you're thinking that much into a little comment like that....you probably have a crush on him too. Admit it.
  • PoopieMonster
    PoopieMonster Posts: 295 Member
    He is joking that he's on the same hot level as Adam Levine.
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    He likes you.
  • Lynds7128
    Lynds7128 Posts: 132
    He's got a crush on yah...

    This^^^

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  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    This is for anybody who has any thoughts.

    What do you think?

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  • LuckyFur
    LuckyFur Posts: 96
    It could be him flirting with you. It could be him joking with you. It could be him saying that he knows you're attracted to him.

    Let's cut to the chase . . . there's chemistry between you two isn't there?

    He knows it. You know it. Time for a decision. Are you going to stay with the man who's been there and loyal but that you feel no passion for or are you going to go after this hot and passionate Adam Levine wannabe?
  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
    It's called flirting.

    He doesn't literally think this is true, so arrogant is wrong.
    It's very unlikely he is messing with you, unless you killed his dog or something.

    Just enjoy it for what it is, and don't respond. Or do.
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
    I was really hoping he didn't like me that way. I'm still in denial about it really. He's young and attractive, why the hell is he attracted to an older, married woman? lol How does that work fellas? lol
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  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    I don't know. I do not understand the flirting thing. I flirt all day long, but totally miss it when someone flirts with me. I'm a little slow.

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  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
    He's flirting. He doesn't necessarily mean ANYTHING by it. Don't read into it too much and definitely don't get upset. I flirt a lot and the vast majority of my flirting is meant to just be harmless fun. Feel good about yourself that the guy thinks you're cool enough and attractive enough that he wants to flirt with you!!
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
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    Congratulations some guy actually flirted w/you ...and Surprise he's "married"
  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
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    Congratulations some guy actually flirted w/you ...and Surprise he's "married"

    Actually, she never said that. She said SHE is married, not him.
  • xtinakay84
    xtinakay84 Posts: 22
    Flirting 101
  • aNewYear123
    aNewYear123 Posts: 279 Member
    You are older, you are married, it is 'safe' for him to flirt with you.
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    He is hinting....he wants to do you.....

    Cliff always has the best answers! I agree. :bigsmile: Just blow him off. Man, it's hard to keep it SFW!!!
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    what he is saying is that he wants to plow you.... \m/

    in summary, he is trying to plant the seed in your head....you think of a good looking guy, he relates you to him....fairly elementary, no detective work required \m/
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    seems to me he wants confirmation that he is in fact Adam Levine hot.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I must consult with the Intergalactic Male Hive Mind.
  • jrutledge01
    jrutledge01 Posts: 213 Member
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8kpYm-6nuE
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    just break up
  • Penny427
    Penny427 Posts: 166 Member
    Dont ya wish they would just say what they mean? LOL
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
    He's flirting. He doesn't necessarily mean ANYTHING by it. Don't read into it too much and definitely don't get upset. I flirt a lot and the vast majority of my flirting is meant to just be harmless fun. Feel good about yourself that the guy thinks you're cool enough and attractive enough that he wants to flirt with you!!

    I really liked your answer. I'm not going to take it so seriously, and believe me, I AM flattered that he thinks im cool and attractive.

    Thanks! :flowerforyou:
  • bloominheck
    bloominheck Posts: 869 Member
    I'll bring it up at the next 'Men meeting' and get back to you . . .

    Love this...:bigsmile:
  • celtbell3
    celtbell3 Posts: 738 Member
    Adam is the hottest entertainer out there. When he wears glasses on the voice, I have to stop from drooling. Seriously.
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    I suppose now I should find out who the heck Adam Levine is. Singer, athlete, fitness guru, whatever. ??

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