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At what point do you stop trying, and move on?
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When you feel the need to ask that question?
Seriously it all depends on the situation, what's not working and if you think the issues are fixable or they will always be a road block.0 -
When you are no longer happy would be my answer.
Life is too short.0 -
i need more answers people. LOL0
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When we've had more than two serious conversations about whatever the issue is and still nothing has changed. At that point, it's never gonna.
People stay in relationships that make them unhappy because they fear change. Life is too short for that, it really is.0 -
when the amount of X you invest in fixing it becomes more than Y is worth to you..
(x= time, effort, emotions, money, etc)
(y= person, relationship, car, house, etc)
e.g - I'm not spending 100$ to fix a $50 vcr, unless that vcr is worth alot more than that TO ME (or you)0 -
When I realized there wasn't any more I could do. It takes two so if you both don't try it won't work no matter how much you want it to. In my opinion anyway.0
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The point when you start wondering.0
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All my relationships lasted longer than they should have so you must not do like me because it's a waste of time and energy.0
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When you are no longer happy would be my answer.
Life is too short.
This answered your question, though.
If you spend more time unhappy (worried, stressed, upset, misunderstood, whatever) than happy, and no one is seriously & with full commitment working on their individual issues, it's time to walk away.0 -
When you are done and ready for it. Asking that question might indicate you are.0
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-When you feel like youre putting too much effort into trying for a relationship and they give nothing back.
-When you have to work too hard for the other persons attention.
-When youre putting in more effort than youre getting.
-When the butterfly's fade.
-When you catch yourself NOT thinking about that person and youre thinking about life away from them.
These are reasons why Ive broken up with people. Sometimes you dont have that spark anymore and its time to let go.0 -
When you make a post on a public forum asking when it's the right time to end a relationship.0
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I've been wondering the same thing :-(0
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-When you feel like youre putting too much effort into trying for a relationship and they give nothing back.
-When youre putting in more effort than youre getting.
This. Always the case with me.0 -
-When you feel like youre putting too much effort into trying for a relationship and they give nothing back.
-When youre putting in more effort than youre getting.
This. Always the case with me.
same here. When im trying to get involved in a relationship with someone I always give 100% and its so disheartening when I dont get that 100% back. Maybe I should give 50% and then I wont be disappointed... then again I wont be giving my all and not much can come of that, so 100% it is!0 -
At what point do you stop trying, and move on?
1st or 2nd date?0 -
Usually when the question is so vague that I have no idea where the person is coming from.
I could ask for elaboration, but meh.0 -
When I was married....my best friend at the time told me:
When you are sick and tired of being sick and tired...you will leave!
I was in an abusive relationship. I remember all these women getting killed here by their men. I still remember my wake up moment. He had hit me and I was lying on the floor. We were in the process of packing and moving. I looked up and saw a bed rail. Thought OMG if he would hit me with that I would be dead.
At that moment I said this SOB is NOT killing me. So I took my baby and I left. NEVER LOOKED BACK!0 -
After the first week.0
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I think you should just continue to do what makes you happy like hanging out with friends or any hobbies that you enjoy. Gradually you will move on when you realize how much happier you are with or without them. Its not as simple as waking up one day and saying your going to move on because your going to put all your focus on that other person , so instead of focusing on them focus on yourself.
Time heals everything0
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