Runners! Needing encouragement :(

SO I have a few questions all you runners out there!

First off I JUST finished C25k Week 4 day 1 and I have to say WTH? it was quite a big surprise how far it jumped up. My cousin who runs tons of Marathons tells me it is all a mind game, but I was SOOO not mentally prepared for that! Anyways I look at this now as something that will only get harder and I ask myself will I actually be able to do this?

Anyways for those of you that have made it to that 5k mark and beyond did you feel like you would never get there!?

My goal is to run a 5k on my birthday and i have to sign up by July 12th for Color Me Rad to get the early bird fee.. and I keep second guessing myself. What if I'm not ready by then? what if I can't run it? what if I completely embarrass myself?

Did anyone else feel this way when starting out?
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  • jenndymond
    jenndymond Posts: 117 Member
    Im not sure how many times I stopped and started the c25k or repeated days until one day I just ran, the program told me I could walk but I felt good and strong so I kept running it just happend, out of the blue. Before I knew it I was running 5k. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other, and keep breathing!

    You will get there!

    For me on my first 5k i was to afraid of failing to let myself stop!!
  • toothpastechica
    toothpastechica Posts: 250 Member
    Sign up! You don't need to be able to run without stopping to do the Color Me Rad..it good motivation ESPECIALLY if you not quite there yet.....to get you to push to be there, or at least close! I'm doing the color run in September and JUST got back into running this month, meaning I am still walking a good chunk of 5k...but hoping to be back into running the whole distance by the time the run comes up. (I might sign up for a sooner one too if I can find one!)
  • bornofthorns
    bornofthorns Posts: 143 Member
    I am on Week 7 (2.5 straight run). It sucks so good! Let me boost your spirits here. I have never ran. I personally think of it as a flight or fight thing, but I decided to try c25k. At 282, I just did 2.5 at 4.6mph. It is not fast, but I did it. I will run my 5k sometime this fall. I am starting to get excited, and really taking a good luck at what I need to do in order to reach my goal for it. If I can do it, you can do it!
  • DesDawn24
    DesDawn24 Posts: 147 Member
    Im not sure how many times I stopped and started the c25k or repeated days until one day I just ran, the program told me I could walk but I felt good and strong so I kept running it just happend, out of the blue. Before I knew it I was running 5k. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other, and keep breathing!

    You will get there!

    For me on my first 5k i was to afraid of failing to let myself stop!!


    This!! I've been trying to do my own thing, similar to C25K. I've been slowly increasing, and feeling like I was still going nowhere. So tonight when I got on the treadmill I just said screw it, and kept going! I didn't run nearly 5 k, but I ran farther and longer than I ever have before and it's a HUGE confidence booster. Just sign up, work as hard as you can and if you have to walk a little, so what! At least you're out there trying, which is more than a lot of people can say. Good luck!
  • grimendale
    grimendale Posts: 2,153 Member
    It really is a mental game. I signed up for a 5k the same week I started the couch to 5k program. Knowing that I had already committed helped push me passed the "there's no earthly way I can possibly run that far" when the run distance bumped up each week.
  • alfiedn
    alfiedn Posts: 425 Member
    I signed up for color me rad in August! I'm so excited to be a part of that and I've been really dedicated to working out since. My brother contacted me today (I'm going to visit him on Tuesday) and he wants to run a 10k race on July 4th, so guess who signed up for the 5k? I'm lucky because I've been training at altitude and he lives at sea level, so I should be able to do it. My main goal is his to be able to run the whole thing. If I can, that will be a major accomplishment for me! Sign up, let it fuel your workouts!
  • You can do it! It's all "Wow I will never be able to do this" until all of a sudden it's "Holy crap, I just did that!"

    Also sign up for the race. Especially with a fun run like that, there will be lots of walkers and if you need to take walking breaks you will be able to without embarrassing yourself. It's good to have it as a goal but don't stress out over it. This is supposed to be fun.
  • astronomicals
    astronomicals Posts: 1,537 Member
    Running is conditioning. Four weeks isn't that long. You'll look back in 3 months and think running a 5k is a breeze. It really gets a whole lot easier. Just take it easy and run at a comfortable pace. Developing stamina and endurance takes leaving a lot of sweat in your path. Once you have it its nowhere near as hard to maintain as it was to acquire.
  • MandyBFit
    MandyBFit Posts: 5
    Sometimes you need to repeat a week! Maybe repeat week 3 once more to prepare for week 4? I had to repeat week 3 for about 3 weeks :/ now I can run 3 miles without having to walk, but it really is a mind thing. You'll get there and I'd say just sign up for the 5k.
  • BeTheFire
    BeTheFire Posts: 102 Member
    What does "C25K" mean? As far as an acronym goes.....?
  • Dernbach235
    Dernbach235 Posts: 16 Member
    I ran my first 5k last December without much training. After that I was hooked. My second run was in March, which I trained for, I shaved off 4 minutes. Sign up for it!! You can do it and you will be hooked. I'm currently training for a 1/2 marathon at the end of September. I never thought that I would be a "runner." Now I'm running 7 miles at a crack. Good Luck to You!!:flowerforyou:
  • Dernbach235
    Dernbach235 Posts: 16 Member
    Couch to 5K.
  • BeTheFire
    BeTheFire Posts: 102 Member
    Couch to 5K.

    Thank you.
  • MGreensides
    MGreensides Posts: 173 Member
    I'm probably the perfect person to talk to about this. I have only been running for 9wks and although I didn't use the c25k program, I used the same basic concept just at my own pace. I found that at a certain point there is a sort of breakthrough. I've heard this from other runners but was skeptical. Once I could run for 10mins without stopping it got much easier. And for me especially it is a mental exercise, at the beginning of every single run I doubt myself, I just can't get the negative thoughts out of my head. So my advice to you, keep at it. It gets easier, I promise. Some stages will seem like they take forever, then you will have times that you feel unstoppable...those are the days we run for :)
  • jogglesngoggles
    jogglesngoggles Posts: 362 Member
    You can do it! It's all "Wow I will never be able to do this" until all of a sudden it's "Holy crap, I just did that!"

    Also sign up for the race. Especially with a fun run like that, there will be lots of walkers and if you need to take walking breaks you will be able to without embarrassing yourself. It's good to have it as a goal but don't stress out over it. This is supposed to be fun.

    Yep! You'll be surprised at your body! Don't think so much about the distance or the time, just enjoy the ride, you'll get there!
  • ashlinmarie
    ashlinmarie Posts: 1,263 Member
    You really just have to tell yourself you can do it. If you run outdoors (and I recommend it even though it is probably hot out by you) you can pick something ahead of you and tell yourself you will run to that landmark (lamppost, tree, fire hydrant, etc) and then when you get there, move on to the next one and the next one. I am not doing C25K (I have done it before but I have issues now where if I start walking, I can't get motivated to run again) but through the above method I have gotten up to running 1.25 miles again. I know that isn't all the way, but it is a good start for me.

    And yes, you should sign up anyway. I did my first 5K I was only done with half of week 7 and I managed to run the full 5K. You get so motivated with other people around and if you're like me and competitive, you can pick people who are slightly ahead of you and keep pace or pass them and then move on to the next.

    Good luck on your journey!
  • jetlag
    jetlag Posts: 800 Member
    I'm probably the perfect person to talk to about this. I have only been running for 9wks and although I didn't use the c25k program, I used the same basic concept just at my own pace. I found that at a certain point there is a sort of breakthrough. I've heard this from other runners but was skeptical. Once I could run for 10mins without stopping it got much easier. And for me especially it is a mental exercise, at the beginning of every single run I doubt myself, I just can't get the negative thoughts out of my head. So my advice to you, keep at it. It gets easier, I promise. Some stages will seem like they take forever, then you will have times that you feel unstoppable...those are the days we run for :)

    I would agree completely with ths. I think it takes me about 8 minutes to warm up and once I could run for that long, carrying on for 25 minutes just "happened".

    I suffered a slipped disc in 2010 and haven't been able to run since. I really miss it and hope I will be able to again once I've lost a lot of weight. I'm only 200+ lbs, but have hyper mobility syndrome which wasn't diagnosed until I started getting back problems from running. So I would say stick with it. When it clicks, it's the most amazing feeling ever.
  • kar328
    kar328 Posts: 4,159 Member
    I haven't done a 5K yet or signed up for one - too humid here, I'm waiting for fall - but I'm currently on week 6, finished day 2 yesterday. Me who's never run more than a mile at a time and that was 20 years ago, me who weighs over 200. Me who's actually starting to like this running stuff and even bought a running magazine the other day. This program is brilliant in getting people like me up and doing it. At first I was on the treadmill all the time, tried outdoors and felt it was too hard, then something clicked during whatever day/week has the three and five min runs and I find running on the treadmill is not what I want. Week 5Day 3 is definitely the big mind game. I was nervous. I got up early to get outside before the humidity kicked in. I did the whole run, it was slow - I've read the description on other threads of "like a turtle running in mud (or peanut butter) and that's just perfect. I did 1.5 miles which I was happy with. It was actually a bit of a let down going back to the intervals for week six. I finished the last of the intervals yesterday, the rest is straight running and I like tha idea. I think I'm a runner now.

    Just don't let your mind try to interfere with what your body can do. You can do this and you will.
  • BrianSharpe
    BrianSharpe Posts: 9,248 Member
    Self-doubt is common even amongst experienced runners.

    When I started running a number of years ago I could barely get around the block without felling that death would be a blessed release. I didn't follow C25K, I started with walking then I went to intervals of 1 minute running (well, more like slow shuffling) and 9 minutes walking, then added a minute running etc etc until I could go 10 minutes without stopping. From there I (very gradually) added time and ran my first 5K in September 2009. I was slow (just under 40 min) but the feeling you get crossing that finish line for the first time is indescribable.

    Since then I've run numerous 5K and 10K races and have completed 5 half-marathons and a couple of sprint duathlons (run/bike/run).

    If you're finding that the C25K program is progressing too quickly don't worry about repeating a week. You will progress at your rate.

    Running is something that you can enjoy for the rest of your life (seriously....there was a man over the age of 100 who completed a marathon recently and - one of my role models - Ed Whitlock ran the Toronto Marathon in 3:30 last year at age 82) it requires practically no equipment other than comfortable clothes and a good pair of runners.

    With the right training and attitude you will be amazed at what you can accomplish.
  • Lisa5718
    Lisa5718 Posts: 2
    I'm having trouble at the 5 week jump of C25K but have huge motivation. My nephew has autism and we're participating in the Autism Walk in St. Louis this fall. In August we're having a 5K as part of our fundraising and I WILL run that race. I always keep in mind what they say, it's mind over matter and the first step out the door is the hardest. Good luck!!
  • andreafischer1982
    andreafischer1982 Posts: 36 Member
    I can understand your doubts
    I started running in January this year and wasn't abel to run 100 meters.
    But i got better and better run 5k and really enjoying my trainings. A few weeks ago i signed up for my first halfmarathon and belive me i had doubts too i never run 13.1 miles yet will i be abel to da that - but the answere is yes i will train as hard as i can for it and then i should be abel to finish the race.
    Of course from time to time there come some negative thoughts esp like a training wasn't as good as it was suposed to be but we have to belive in our selfs
    The race is mostly made in your head so stay positve belive in you

    AND HELL YES SIGNE UP FOR THE RACE AND GET EXCITED
  • Thomasm198
    Thomasm198 Posts: 3,189 Member
    I was exactly like that. 12 months ago I was contemplating not turning up for the 5 mile race I had entered. I was certain I wouldn't be able to do it. But I did do it. This year my attitude is "Meh! It's only 5 miles."

    I started with C25K in April of last year. This year I'm training to do a marathon in October.

    Running is 90% in your mind. If you think you can do it, you will do it.
  • SJLS2013
    SJLS2013 Posts: 149 Member
    Do you listen to music when running?

    I find it really helps me to keep going for several reasons: a good beat is difficult not to move to!, it helps me to keep pace, I can't hear myself breath so I don't think i'm as exhausted as I sound, it stops boredom to name a few

    I just completed 10k and I'm sure I could have done it without my music, but I wouldn't have done as well
  • toothpastechica
    toothpastechica Posts: 250 Member
    SJL has a good point...when I first started running about 5 years ago, I started by running 1 song, then walking 2, then after a couple weeks running one song walking one song...its sometimes easier to keep track of then timing out minutes. (and it gets you running longer faster since an average song is anywhere from 3-6 minutes.)
  • actlc
    actlc Posts: 84
    Key: Don't run too fast. Aim for improving distance for 1st few months. Run at a comfortable pace so you won't get out-of-breath at all. And gradually increase the distance.

    I used to hate running and thought I was the kind of person not suitable for running. I now found that's because I didn't know how to run right. (always tried to run faster than I could sustain and ended up going out-of-breath all the time)

    I tried running again this year and started to learn how to run right. Running the right way turns me from hate to love. And my longest run is 11 miles now (when I can't even finish 1 mile 5 months ago). While I am not a fast runner yet, improving distance automatically improves my speed gradually.

    Important: Running is not just put your shoes on and run. Along the way, you should learn how to equip, run and train correctly. Do it right, running would not be hard; do it wrong, running would be very difficult and injuries await you.

    This is my experience for running these past months. cheers!
  • Jca67
    Jca67 Posts: 29
    Hi,
    I was on w6 d1 but have not run for the last week as being under the weather. Sign up, you wont regret it. I ran my first timed 5k two weeks ago. I wasnt first but i wasnt last either. Everyone was so supportive, i ran walked the course and finished in 41 mins which was better than i thought it would be. But most of all it gave me a big confidence boost. Back at my training tomorrow as my glands are back down in my neck now. Do it honestly it well and truly gave me the running bug. x
  • ampjorgensen
    ampjorgensen Posts: 86 Member
    OH i most defnitely use music. Weird as it sounds I use music that gets me going... I find myself listening to the radio and saying "DANG i can see myself running miles to this" and i listen to stuff from Country, to slow to fast. I try to set up my music to my run if i can so that my walking is calmer music as studies have shown it actually can alter the speed of your heart and things like that (yep i'm pulling out all teh stops haha)
  • LoosingMyLast15
    LoosingMyLast15 Posts: 1,457 Member
    SO I have a few questions all you runners out there!

    Anyways I look at this now as something that will only get harder and I ask myself will I actually be able to do this?

    Anyways for those of you that have made it to that 5k mark and beyond did you feel like you would never get there!?

    My goal is to run a 5k on my birthday and i have to sign up by July 12th for Color Me Rad to get the early bird fee.. and I keep second guessing myself. What if I'm not ready by then? what if I can't run it? what if I completely embarrass myself?

    Did anyone else feel this way when starting out?

    1) yup
    2) yup
    3) you will be
    4) so what
    5) have you NOT watched the videos of a color run? there is no way you will embarrass yourself. lol

    it is a mind game and you will get there if you keep at it and do not let your mind win. i didn't think i could ever ever ever run a half marathon and i did. was it the best time? nope but i'm ready to sign up for my next so i can beat MY TIME, no one else's time not trying to come in first place i just want to beat my own personal time. that's what it's about. pushing yourself, competing with yourself proving to yourself you CAN do this!

    the minute the temps here in VA went from 70 to 90 i nearly passed out while running and i went from running 4-5 miles to barely being able to finish 2! you'll get there and then you'll have set backs then you'll push yourself and go further and further and further. :)
  • knewbegin
    knewbegin Posts: 10 Member
    I would definitely sign up! I have done the C25K several times and whenever I start from scratch I always feel like it is nearly impossible. If you feel like those "jumps" in the program are really tough, you can always repeat the week before moving on to the next so that your body feels ok with the mileage.

    Keep in mind, you don't have to run the entire 5k race. You can always take walking breaks. I have no doubt you will finish just fine. Don't be worried about embarrassment- most runners are completely supportive and you can always feel great knowing at least you are out there challenging yourself and moving!

    Good luck!
  • KatC_88
    KatC_88 Posts: 101 Member
    SO I have a few questions all you runners out there!

    First off I JUST finished C25k Week 4 day 1 and I have to say WTH? it was quite a big surprise how far it jumped up. My cousin who runs tons of Marathons tells me it is all a mind game, but I was SOOO not mentally prepared for that! Anyways I look at this now as something that will only get harder and I ask myself will I actually be able to do this?

    Anyways for those of you that have made it to that 5k mark and beyond did you feel like you would never get there!?

    My goal is to run a 5k on my birthday and i have to sign up by July 12th for Color Me Rad to get the early bird fee.. and I keep second guessing myself. What if I'm not ready by then? what if I can't run it? what if I completely embarrass myself?

    Did anyone else feel this way when starting out?

    I would sign up for sure! I just finished week 4 day 2 and the first day killed me! I had to take a 30 min break. Oddly enough day two was still hard but I ran right through it! You can do it! Just keep trying!!!