It's all about Love, NOH8. Ding Dong DOMA is death...

arent states allowed to set their drinking laws at any age they want but if its under 21 they lose highway funding? lets just include same sex marriage in that and if they dont allow it they lose those funds.

On the Jay Thomas show tomorrow they are going to have a gay wedding in a house across from the Westboro Baptist church. I can't wait to listen to it!

love it...as nation we should just direct all our hate at them.

On the Jay Thomas show tomorrow they are going to have a gay wedding in a house across from the Westboro Baptist church. I can't wait to listen to it!

love it...as nation we should just direct all our hate at them.

why? we should focus hate to anybody, we should focus love to everybody, the problem with Westboro Baptist Church is they don't know love.

you are absolutely right. but my lizard brain makes me want to punch them when i see them act the way they do.

i wish i had someone who was close to me that this would affect...so does anyone have any wonderful stories of the joy that this will bring to someone?

I have friends that are married with two (biological) children. They are gay and legally married by state law. The parents, not the kids. Well, maybe the kids, but . . . listen that's not the point. The point is that:
As of Tuesday this week, they were not eligible for social security surviving parent benefits.
They were not covered by the Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA).
Estate and retirement savings, in the event of untimely death, would have been taxed as if a profitable gift to some third party rather than 'family' money to be kept in the family and used to care for the children of the widow.
Proceeds from the sale of a principal residence were - specifically because of DOMA - untaxable only up to $250K rather than $500K as for married heterosexual couples.
Privileged communications, 'married filing jointly', hospital visitation, ability to make decisions about spousal care in the event of medical incapacitation . . .

These things were all very real, up-at-night concerns for my dear friends on Tuesday.
I'm so glad it's Thursday.

i wish i had someone who was close to me that this would affect...so does anyone have any wonderful stories of the joy that this will bring to someone?

I have friends that are married with two (biological) children. They are gay and legally married by state law. The parents, not the kids. Well, maybe the kids, but . . . listen that's not the point. The point is that:
As of Tuesday this week, they were not eligible for social security surviving parent benefits.
They were not covered by the Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA).
Estate and retirement savings, in the event of untimely death, would have been taxed as if a profitable gift to some third party rather than 'family' money to be kept in the family and used to care for the children of the widow.
Proceeds from the sale of a principal residence were - specifically because of DOMA - untaxable only up to $250K rather than $500K as for married heterosexual couples.
Privileged communications, 'married filing jointly', hospital visitation, ability to make decisions about spousal care in the event of medical incapacitation . . .

These things were all very real, up-at-night concerns for my dear friends on Tuesday.
I'm so glad it's Thursday.

wonderful. i wonder if some of the people against same sex marriage could hear stories like this would it change their mind?

I do have friends who are legally married in a state that will soon have marriage equality restored (under 30 days) - yes California. And this will certainly help them. Actually they were married twice. Once in Canada shortly after it began there. And then during that very brief window when it was available before Prop H8 went into effect.

Unfortunately, I live in a non-equality state. But hopefully we can change that within a few years. The latest opinion polls put support for marriage equality in the state now at 50/50, after passing a constitutional amendment in 2006 by 57/43. One of the key developments is my local newspaper, which is somewhere to the right of Atilla the Hun. The strongly editorialized for the amendment back in 2006. So imagine our surprise when last October they wrote not 1 but 2 editorials urging SCOTUS to overturn DOMA and Prop 8. If they can change and support marriage equality, it will come here. I never thought it would happen in my life. Now it will happen within a couple of years.

Now all I need is someone to marry. I have a partner. But the stubborn mule doesn't want to get married. But he's softening, so who knows. And if he doesn't, I still love him anyway, and that will never change.

Congrats to all my brothers and sisters who this did help. And good luck to others who would be waiting for a long , long time if we do have to go state by state.

On the Jay Thomas show tomorrow they are going to have a gay wedding in a house across from the Westboro Baptist church. I can't wait to listen to it!

love it...as nation we should just direct all our hate at them.

Um, I don't think anyone should be directing any hate at anyone. Isn't that what equal rights is all about? Or is it only 'No H8" for the people who believe the same thing as you?

i wish i had someone who was close to me that this would affect...so does anyone have any wonderful stories of the joy that this will bring to someone?

My nephew is marrying his boyfriend in Baltimore in September. They're happy, as they should be.

congratulations to them! and suddenly I need the urge to listen to the cast recording of Hairspray [it is set in Baltimore]

Great movie.

I saw it on Broadway with that guy Harvey Fierstein. Great production. I'm not gay, but all for gay rights. The big court finally got something right. Should have been done a long time ago.

Agreed!

This thread is still up.... keep the party goin' :smokin:

On the Jay Thomas show tomorrow they are going to have a gay wedding in a house across from the Westboro Baptist church. I can't wait to listen to it!

love it...as nation we should just direct all our hate at them.

Um, I don't think anyone should be directing any hate at anyone. Isn't that what equal rights is all about? Or is it only 'No H8" for the people who believe the same thing as you?

Out of curiosity -- do you know any straight people who don't hate Westboro Baptist? Trying to picket at soldiers' funerals, funerals of the kids killed at newton, at Aurora, and so many others. Hating WBC isn't a gay thing. From what I've seen, it seems to be universal.

Just wondering.