Self-Confidence, Dating, Etc...

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  • MSeel1984
    MSeel1984 Posts: 2,297 Member
    Trying to change yourself in order to find someone else is not going to be effective....

    Changing yourself because you want yourself to be healthier is a better mental approach...If you're making sure you're the happiest, healthiest you that you can be, others will see it...happiness and confidence is contagious. You'll find the right one when you lest expect it.
  • susanjean62
    susanjean62 Posts: 200
    Dear Rachel,You have received some great advice and some "not" great advice. As an older woman,I have realized that looks fade,but what is in your heart,is everlasting. The most beautiful women I know,are beautiful for one reason. It is that inner glow of sweetness that can't be found,just by losing weight. Sure,I feel more confident,being slim,but if I'm ugly in my heart,it won't make a difference. We live in a society all about outward appearance,and it is actually quite sad.Start by doing good for others,being kind and generous and before you know it,a special person will fall madly in love with you. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone,but if a man wants a barbie doll and not a real woman,then it is not the type o0f man to spend your life with. I married one of those type of men,had two children and he never grew up,held a job and had a roving eye. His good looks are what first attracted me,but look where it ended. Get your heart right and all good things will follow. :heart:

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