Don't Let People Judge You

Seefylol
Seefylol Posts: 197
in Motivation and Support
There's a lot of people here who are either, insecure, depressed, feeling low, feeling isolated etc etc. The list is endless.

I want to tell you people something.

Do me a favour, look at yourself in the mirror, and love what you see. Tell yourself that you are great and do not give a single **** what people may say or think about you. No matter your race, weight or anything else... it does not matter. You were born like this and you will die like this. It's just the way life is. If you feel like you're the runt of the litter and that life is an every day struggle, then don't! You're a ****ing fantastic human being who is equal just like everybody else on this planet.

I too felt like this a very long time ago and seeing people like this reminds me of the old me. I had a hard time growing up. I was over weight, had crooked teeth, acne, got called names for not being white and pale like most Irish kids in school, had "friends" who used to like talking behind my back.

One day I woke up and told myself enough is enough.

Some human beings can be pretty god damn nasty and will continue to be until the end of time. You must forget about these people. They are not worth one second of your time. You're better than them. Their opinions and remarks DO NOT matter.

Learn not to give a ****. Master and you will live a much happier life. Trust me, I'm speaking from experience.

I went from a shy boy, hiding in shadows to a confident person who stands up for himself.

Life is too short. Enjoy it while you can.

I just want to let you guys know that you are freaking awesome and I love you <3
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  • Chlochloeaway
    Chlochloeaway Posts: 26
    <3
  • britttttx3
    britttttx3 Posts: 458
    I needed this, so uplifting :)!
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
    awwwww muffin, what a sweet thang to say!! Have a beautiful day and life :flowerforyou:
  • Seefylol
    Seefylol Posts: 197
    You too =)
  • Camera_BagintheUK
    Camera_BagintheUK Posts: 707 Member
    You're dead right, Seefylol. Toxic people aren't worth it, let them stew in their own poison.

    Search out the lovely people, the kind, generous, loving people, and spend as much of your time and energy as you can with them, because they're out there as well xxxx
  • NonnyMary
    NonnyMary Posts: 982 Member
    thats real nice :) thank you!
  • emyishardcore
    emyishardcore Posts: 352 Member
    Great post!
  • RAGGEDYANN1970
    RAGGEDYANN1970 Posts: 115 Member
    my friend and i call those people "joy stealers"
    don't let them steal YOUR joy! :heart:
  • jennide
    jennide Posts: 41 Member
    Seefylol, You are such a great person to post this, It is so true. I recently had to tell someone who has been in my life for years & years (friend of my long time friends) that I will no longer be associating with her. She is SO negative at all times, she may be making remarks on my weight, or my hair or my parenting styles or my house... Whatever she can to try to bring me down. I am so proud of myself for finally saying "Enough!!" But I needed someone else to validate my feelings because since then she has sent me an email, not apologizing but just trying to say how she is joking when she says those things... But after reading this, I know I don't need this person around me, for any reason!! THANK YOU!!!!
  • jennide
    jennide Posts: 41 Member
    my friend and i call those people "joy stealers"
    don't let them steal YOUR joy! :heart:

    ^^ LOVE THIS!!
  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
    :flowerforyou:
  • lorieric5037
    lorieric5037 Posts: 97
    Beautiful post! Thank you. Through the hardships & negativity in my life I've always turned to biblical quotes to keep me going.:heart:
  • 37434958
    37434958 Posts: 457 Member
    Go you, :D<3
  • Chlochloeaway
    Chlochloeaway Posts: 26
    One of my favourite posts I've read in a very long time :)
  • Seefylol
    Seefylol Posts: 197
    It's nice to see this post makes people feel better :)
  • aloranger7708
    aloranger7708 Posts: 422 Member
    Bump. Obsessed with this post!!! :love:
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,226 Member
    fantastic comment
  • FitGeekery
    FitGeekery Posts: 336 Member
    Love love love this post <3

    Uplifting, positive and 100% accurate. Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you, it matters what you think of yourself. And that's usually the real problem, and the real place to start.
  • Heriackonope
    Heriackonope Posts: 1
    Awesome post. Thank you!
  • quellybelly
    quellybelly Posts: 827 Member
    Amazing. Exactly what I needed today. Thank you!
  • Foxtrotcharliekeeloo
    Foxtrotcharliekeeloo Posts: 1
    I need to frame this lol
  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
    I wish more people in the world were like you. It's really nice you are trying to help others by posting what you learned :flowerforyou:
  • Skinnymunkii
    Skinnymunkii Posts: 191 Member
    Wonderful, positive, uplifting. Thank you for sharing this with the community. I know a lot of people need to hear it, myself included.
  • BigDnSW
    BigDnSW Posts: 641 Member
    Well put...and from the counselor's chair, "I don't really care what people think about me, but I care deeply how I think about others and treat them." Peace.

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  • Zaniejane
    Zaniejane Posts: 329 Member
    <3 I think this is what people are referring to when they say that they wish they could go back thirty years and know what they know now. :flowerforyou:
  • xoemmytee
    xoemmytee Posts: 162 Member
    Love this post. Though I'd prefer the title to be "Let people judge you." Judgement is inevitable. We all do it to some degree. The key is not to care. Don't avoid doing things you want to do just to escape judgement.

    I've recently recovered from social anxiety, which is basically a fear of being judged by others. I'd like to say that recovery is possible. It's a lot of work though! It may be cliche, but in order to overcome your fears, you must face them. I had to do things I was uncomfortable with or even terrified of doing until my anxiety had little effect on me. Also, don't be afraid to get help, it's the best decision I ever made!
  • Hearts_2015
    Hearts_2015 Posts: 12,032 Member
    Love love love this post <3

    Uplifting, positive and 100% accurate. Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you, it matters what you think of yourself. And that's usually the real problem, and the real place to start.
    "I don't really care what people think about me, but I care deeply how I think about others and treat them."

    From the OP to the above and many in-between... important words to realize, because we do matter and can pay it forward with kindness as we begin to love ourselves.

    Thank you:heart:
  • 43932452
    43932452 Posts: 7,246 Member
    Thank you .. everyone here rocks, no matter what!! :D
  • caramelgyrlk
    caramelgyrlk Posts: 1,112 Member
    One of the best posts I have seen on here. Thank you very much for taking time out of your busy day to share and inspire us.

    You ROCK!!!!!
  • Petrapoo45
    Petrapoo45 Posts: 271 Member
    I love threads like this!! Thanks for your post :smile:

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