Poll for the girls

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  • araromi2
    araromi2 Posts: 111 Member
    Im 26 so i fall in the 18 to 28 age group. I prefer a big guy 6 '3 or taller but no more than 230lbs.When i say big i mean husky not fat.You dont have to have a six pack and ripped biceps but I dont expect you to look like youre expecting twins either.If i am working hard to get it right and keep it tight my significant other should keep up his appearance to the best of his ability.
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    Many women like people who have a penis and a pulse. Many other women like people who have a vagina and a pulse. A few women like people who have no pulse. But that is frowned upon in our society.
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    I'm under the "penis and a pulse" category and sometimes like to look at the "vagina and a pulse" variety.

    ETA: I also am fine with trans men who do not have the down under surgery if they can use their hands and mouths.
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
    26
    I've dated all sorts - tall, short, skinny, fit, a few extra pounds... Generally I like to look at men with broad shoulders and fit build, but when it comes to dating, if the guy is a nice guy, I have never cared what he looks like. The last guy I was with had a bit of a spare tire, and I was crazy about that man. Now that I'm working on getting myself into better shape, I'm looking for someone who is willing to do the same, but whether they are still packing a few or already in shape, that's no matter.

    Attraction is important, of course, but what attracts each person is different.
  • _skinnydreaming
    _skinnydreaming Posts: 30
    18-28 and I prefer fit guys. (although I tend to go for guys who are neither fit or fat. just somewhere in the middle)
  • Akjenn89
    Akjenn89 Posts: 265 Member
    18-28 and I prefer fit/skinny lanky. Haha.
  • anemoneprose
    anemoneprose Posts: 1,805 Member
    Is this for some sort of crappy research paper?

    No he's trying to choose a wing man.

    Eta.... He changed the OP :tongue:

    guessing he thinks older women are more accepting, for some reason. no, the bar gets higher in general (but mostly re non-physical qualities)
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    Okay, I'll play. I'm 64, and I like heavier guys, cuddly teddy bear guys with meat on their bones, warm and intelligent, articulate guys. The lean, muscular body-builder type guys don't interest me physically, they're fine as friends.
  • angelams1019
    angelams1019 Posts: 1,102 Member
    18-28

    If we're talking purely physical attraction, I've noticed that as I get smaller I am starting to be attracted to more fit guys....But they're not attracted to me! lol

    But height (6'1" and up) is also really important!

    Tall black men apply within! :drinker:
  • Hunnib23
    Hunnib23 Posts: 61 Member
    I'm in the 29-39...my boyfriend is tall and he was tall and skinny when we first got together but now has gained like 15 or so pounds and is more skinny fat. He's not overweight but he is getting a lil belly and has always had love handles.
    I am still as attracted to him now as before, it's all about personalithy
  • southerndream24
    southerndream24 Posts: 303 Member
    I'm 27 and I have always been very active. The only reason I got a bit out of shape is due to a knee injury. That being said, I like a fit person because health is important to me and I want to share that with the person I'm with. If that makes me shallow.....oh well.
  • Mr_Excitement
    Mr_Excitement Posts: 833 Member
    Sorry, I accidentally.
  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
    I'm under the "penis and a pulse" category and sometimes like to look at the "vagina and a pulse" variety.

    ETA: I also am fine with trans men who do not have the down under surgery if they can use their hands and mouths.
    This is why I facking love you!

    According to my profile, I'm 90, but fit into the somewhere under 40 category. And I don't have a preference on body type, per se. Does he have intelligence and a great sense of humor? If so, then the rest is negotiable. I'd say 90% of the guys I dated were in better shape but no 6 pack abs.
  • k8eekins
    k8eekins Posts: 2,264 Member
    1. what age range do you fall into -- 18-28, 29-39 or 40+
    2. are you more attracted to fit guys or guys that are bigger (fat, really don't like using that term but it may clear up some confusion)

    Thanks all!!

    Gen X; Mature women age-range category@37 years old. Neither here nor there for me with body types and fitness levels, when it's a matter of attraction for me personally, only that I find that no matter the age, if the intention is romantic towards me, they'll head for the gym, as did 2 who are both 27, thinking to up their chances, by hardening up their torsos. Too cute.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    As a big guy, I can attest that I am not a head turner, but many women are as attracted to personalities as they are looks.

    42...in 9 days



    and yes you are.

    :smooched: :smooched:
  • daterminedfatburnerX
    daterminedfatburnerX Posts: 346 Member
    I am between the age range 18-28
    To me I can be attracted to guys who has a gut (but not humungous). I can also be attracted to fit guys as well. But to me it just depends on the personality.

    about the same
  • Elliesque
    Elliesque Posts: 156 Member
    1. 29-39
    2. I like guys that are fit or "bigger" fit...i.e. maybe a little extra meat (under 40lbs overweightish) and they have muscles/chest, some kind of definiton. Of course attraction is important, but the mental chemistry trumps all. Bodies can be changed and made better, but its harder to change the mind or try to make chemistry happen.
    Thankfully, I got both in my hubby, so I'm gtg. :)
  • Fiercely_Me
    Fiercely_Me Posts: 481 Member
    I'm 24 and I like my men chunky.
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    I'm under the "penis and a pulse" category and sometimes like to look at the "vagina and a pulse" variety.

    ETA: I also am fine with trans men who do not have the down under surgery if they can use their hands and mouths.
    This is why I facking love you!

    According to my profile, I'm 90, but fit into the somewhere under 40 category. And I don't have a preference on body type, per se. Does he have intelligence and a great sense of humor? If so, then the rest is negotiable. I'd say 90% of the guys I dated were in better shape but no 6 pack abs.

    :blushing: I'm an equal opportunity slut!
  • _tam_
    _tam_ Posts: 257
    I fall into the 29 - 39 category (just) and I am genuinely attracted to bigger men with broad shoulders and strong arms! Growing up, I had a huge crush on John Goodman! I think for me, it's knowing that my man can take care of me (even though I can take care of myself) and the cuddles are so much better! They tend to have more important things than personal appearance on their mind — things like being funny, sweet and charming!
  • jadedone
    jadedone Posts: 2,446 Member
    What's fit? What's bigger?

    I am 29-39.

    Generally speaking, I don't like too small (ahem, like my arms are bigger than yours) and there is also a top number for "bigger" but it isn't very specific. There are many rungs in between too small and too big. It is somewhere below mobility issues.

    And none of this really matters, since "attractive" can be found in lots of packages with the right chemistry.
  • harleygroomer
    harleygroomer Posts: 373 Member
    hunky guys don't do it for me!!!!!!!!!!!! MEN of power do--MERCY
  • pattya925
    pattya925 Posts: 398
    I'm 32. And like bigger guys... I tend to be drawn more to stocky but strong men. Tall, broad shouldered... not super ripped.
  • clarkeje1
    clarkeje1 Posts: 1,641 Member
    I'm 26. I am attracted to fit guys but actually the majority of guys I have had sex with are fat lol Hmmm
  • ChrystalDutton
    ChrystalDutton Posts: 84 Member
    18-28 range, my husband is military and fit and that is attractive to me :)
  • Cutting4life
    Cutting4life Posts: 505 Member
    I'm 26. I am attracted to fit guys but actually the majority of guys I have had sex with are fat lol Hmmm

    brb ghost bulking to 300 lbs ;)
  • Nicolee_2014
    Nicolee_2014 Posts: 1,572 Member
    As a big guy, I can attest that I am not a head turner, but many women are as attracted to personalities as they are looks.

    This...If a girl isn't shallow it won't matter really what the guy looks like. I once was seeing a guy that had the nick name 'sumo' . He wasn't as big as a sumo but he was 6'4 & very huggable (don't know how much he actually weighed) but I was smitten with him because he was a nice guy, great personality.
  • spamantha57
    spamantha57 Posts: 674 Member
    I'm 32 & don't think I've ever really had a type when it comes to physical appearances with guys I've dated. Pretty much all sizes. I think one of my only requirements is I'd like them to be taller than me but I'm only 5'2" so it's really not that hard.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    As a big guy, I can attest that I am not a head turner, but many women are as attracted to personalities as they are looks.

    This...If a girl isn't shallow it won't matter really what the guy looks like. I once was seeing a guy that had the nick name 'sumo' . He wasn't as big as a sumo but he was 6'4 & very huggable (don't know how much he actually weighed) but I was smitten with him because he was a nice guy, great personality.

    See, I disagree with you. I think it is perfectly fine for someone to care about how someone looks, provided that it isn't the ONLY motivation behind their interest.
  • ChrisR0se
    ChrisR0se Posts: 1,855 Member
    I'll be 30 in 2 weeks (sad panda) and I'd marry Kevin James in a minute!!!

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