Poll for the girls

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  • Hexahedra
    Hexahedra Posts: 894 Member
    Many women like people who have a penis and a pulse. Many other women like people who have a vagina and a pulse. A few women like people who have no pulse. But that is frowned upon in our society.

    I don't see long term relationship with people who have no pulse, unless you have constant access to lots of embalming fluid and Lenin's maintenance team...
  • fullofquirks
    fullofquirks Posts: 182 Member
    Many women like people who have a penis and a pulse. Many other women like people who have a vagina and a pulse. A few women like people who have no pulse. But that is frowned upon in our society.

    I don't see long term relationship with people who have no pulse, unless you have constant access to lots of embalming fluid and Lenin's maintenance team...

    Love does take dedication.
  • As a big guy, I can attest that I am not a head turner, but many women are as attracted to personalities as they are looks.

    ^^^Could not agree more! Well said :)
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    2. Fit, but personality is a big factor too.
  • ohpretty
    ohpretty Posts: 58 Member
    I'm 24
    I tend to end up with really skinny men. It's not on purpose, it just seems to happen. My boyfriend is actually way underweight and can eat all the junkfood he wants. He can't really bulk up (and believe me, he's tried. All the gym time in the world paired with a good diet of lots of protein builds him muscle, but you wouldn't think so until he flexes. His metabolism is unreal). I wouldn't mind him gaining weight; Falling asleep on him tends to get uncomfortable after about an hour, to be honest :P But I think he's attractive, regardless.

    I don't mind bigger guys. I'm not attracted to guys who have made it a point to let themselves go and don't care, that just shows poor self-esteem in my eyes. But If a 250 pound guy full of love walked up to me with confidence (not cockyness) and has a great personality, that'd attract me.

    And while we're being completely honest, big, bulky, muscley men aren't attractive to me. I'm impressed you worked for that body, but I don't find it as sexy as other girls.
  • sa11yjane
    sa11yjane Posts: 491 Member
    I am 45 and always think that taller, cuddlier men look like they would protect a girl and really care for her so I would prefer them! A really fit man might catch my eye but I wouldn't want to live with him as he may be rather more obsessed about his own body than taking care of me! x
  • bernied262
    bernied262 Posts: 882 Member
    I am 40, whilst i appreciate a well honed male body, I am more attracted by personality.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    I'm 32 and most of the men I have dated have been pretty average in size. I have dated super buff guys who work out all the time, but I have also dated men who would be classified as obese. The size of your waist is important only for health reasons. If you have a good personality it will get you pretty far in life. This has been true since I was old enough to be attracted to anyone, so age range really isn't an issue.
  • Deipneus
    Deipneus Posts: 1,854 Member
    I am 30. I am also sapiosexual, it's a cool new term someone came up with that I think describes me perfectly.
    Funy how we admire intelligence and think good looks are shallow, but each is just a genetic trait. We no more earn our intelligence than we earn height, high cheek bones or good skin.
  • Lady_Bane
    Lady_Bane Posts: 720 Member
    Totally misread the thread title. "Poll", not "pole". Bummer....Carry on!

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    This is the greatest thing ever
  • linsey0689
    linsey0689 Posts: 753 Member
    I am 20 and it just depends to me. Being bigger myself I don't like someone that is super fit but somewhat fit to average to overweight. Really don't care but I don't like guy that look huge. But I do like tall guys just to add that in :)
  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
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  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    Many women like people who have a penis and a pulse. Many other women like people who have a vagina and a pulse. A few women like people who have no pulse. But that is frowned upon in our society.

    I don't see long term relationship with people who have no pulse, unless you have constant access to lots of embalming fluid and Lenin's maintenance team...

    Vladimir Lenin? Would bang.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    I find it hard to pin down what I'm attracted to, as it can vary quite a bit. It is literally on a case by case basis.

    A nice butt is always awesome though.
  • iorahkwano
    iorahkwano Posts: 709 Member
    I am in the 18-28 demographic.

    I would say I'm attracted to something in-between "fit" & fat," but if you want me to pick one of the polar opposites, I'd have to say fit.

    Personally I'm not into guys who are too thin, I find them feminine.
    I'm not into super bulky guys who look like they spend 30hrs a week at the gym. Obese with a huge gut, is definitely a no.

    I like overweight to a certain extent... a guy who looks like he is capable of playing a sport without having a heart attack (i.e. Strong, can run a bit, and up to 25lbs overweight). Nice shoulders, arms, calves. The midsection is flat or maybe enough to pinch 2" of fat. No real rolls when standing. I actually don't care much for abs.

    Man boobs, rolls & double chin are too overweight for me though...
  • WhitneySheree88
    WhitneySheree88 Posts: 222 Member
    I am in the 18-28 age bracket and I would say I can be attracted to all types of men. My hubby is very tall and is in between fit and fat hes just a big *kitten* dude in general. I think hes very attractive, but his personality plays a huge role in the way I see him. If he had a crap *kitten* personality and no sense of humor his looks would not matter.
    The hottest of men can make themselves ugly if they don't have the right personality and sense of humor just like guys that aren't so hot can compensate with a great personality and sense of humor.

    I will say this ... I don't like for men to have bigger ta ta's than me, and that isn't hard to do seeing as I am a small B :laugh:
  • JustPeachy044
    JustPeachy044 Posts: 770 Member
    40+ age.

    it's more than just the body, that's just the packaging. in terms of pure "wrapping paper" i prefer fit. but it is more about how he presents himself that matters than how he looks.
  • Cp731
    Cp731 Posts: 3,195 Member
    im attracted to men that are attracted to me, because it means I don't have to fight for their attention and they see something special in me