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  • alliek23
    alliek23 Posts: 14 Member
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    Hi everyone! I see this thread has been going on for a while, but I thought I would jump in because I really could use support and motivation. I'm a 23 year old single mom with an amazing 2 year old son. I work full time in HR and go to school part time. I gained around 40lbs while pregnant with my son, and actaully weigh more now then I did when I was 9 months pregnant :-( I have about 50lbs to lose (give or take some). I realize my body is different then before I had my son so I'm not so much focused on an exact number as I just want to feel good about myself, have energy, and be healthy. Looking for any support or tips along the way!
  • janetay01
    janetay01 Posts: 1,298 Member
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    @alliek23 - welcome to the thread! You've certainly come to the right place for support and motivation - stick with us and we'll try and help you along! What are you doing at school? Nice to have a fellow HR person here - I've recently moved over to a Learning and Development role which gives me a very different view of the world - the UK world of HR that is!

    Ron - sounds like you had a good time in India - well done for coming back in one piece! And congrats on the continued weight loss! What sort of body fat analyser are you going for? I got a set of Weight Watchers scales that measure body fat - not totally sure how accurate they are but they certainly seem to do a job.

    Meg - hope your litlle one is feeling better now. Good luck with the race at the weekend - hope to see some pics!

    Happy Tuesday all - hope everyone is having a good week. We are experiencing something of a heat wave here in the UK - lovely during the day but I wish it would cool down so that I can get to sleep at night! Predicted to last until the end of the month apparently - can't complain, it's doing wonders for the tomatoes and beans in the garden:smile:
  • _tru_
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    Hello Friends!!! I have been busy with usual life things and it's not slowing down yet. My apologies for being scarce. I will try to catch up better when i can. Hopefully by the weekend.

    A quick update - my neighbour (we share the driveway) has a pickaxe on his side of the laneway. Creepy! There is a family of skunks living under my neighbour's deck and I have found out the hard way that the babies like to camp out on my front step. And it is hot. 6pm and it's 41C (106F). Ugh.

    I am hoping the pickaxe has nothing to do with the skunks.

    Ron - thanks for introducing me to Rory Galagher!

    Happy journeying!
  • ron2e
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    @alliek23 - Welcome, you will find plenty of support here!

    @jane - I've ordered this one - http://www.withings.com/en/bodyanalyzer - should be with me today. I've also pre-ordered this - http://www.withings.com/en/pulse - to go along with it, though that is only released in the UK on 16th August so I'll have to wait for a bit! They're probably OTT but I am a gadget freak and I think I deserve a little treat!

    @_tru_ - glad you like Rory, he was an awesome guitarist! I have a boxed set of CDs loaded in the car. Don't like the sound of pickaxes, rather shoot them! :wink:

    Well, India was a blast. I have to admit that I was expecting not to like it but it was great, the people were friendly and welcoming and the food was much better than I had hoped for, very tasty. I look forward to going back for another visit, probably in six months or so. The Indians have a quaint old english saying "I will do the needful" (I will do what is necessary) which my colleague and I hijacked, so when he went for a smoke he was "doing the harmful", meeting in the bar was "doing the drinkful" and so on :laugh:

    Now I'm back down to earth with a German project, probably over there week after next but still to be arranged. This is a difficult time of the year with lots of necessary people on vacation so it's either work around them or wait. Next week is travel in the UK for two days so not so bad.

    Life is good, and getting better with every ounce lost!

    Forgot to mention, I've posted some more pics on my blog.
  • stephaniezoundi
    stephaniezoundi Posts: 1,148 Member
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    Hi Everyone!
    Sorry been a bit MIA from the board as been too hot and too busy. As you know though I've been back on my wagon and being successful. Very happy to see those 3lbs vanish and inch ever closer to the 100lb mark again. Had a great training session with my trainer today and used kettlebells for the first time. OMG what a workout, I have a feeling I will be walking funny tomorrow from the DOMS! NSV: definitely a size 22 now instead of a 24 and am actually quite close to some of my 20s fitting again. Away this weekend up to near Ipswich to where some cousins of mine live. Nice little break and being taken care of is what I need to see me through to the end of the school year on Wednesday. She is a fantastic cook yet I almost always manage to lose weight when there. Unable to log from there as phone signal is non existent!

    Ron: sounds like you had a great time in India and you continue to be so good and diligent with your weight loss!
    Tru: that is well creepy!!!
    Jane: im with you...just a few more degrees less and night would be wonderful. The baby and I are keeping each other company between 2 - 4. Poor wee thing hates it....as does her mother. My husband with his African blood is still under the duvet in flannel pajama pants!!!
    Alliek23: welcome!
  • TheRunningGuppy
    TheRunningGuppy Posts: 651 Member
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    Ack! Feels like forever since I've posted in my favorite thread!

    @Steph, you're so close to that 100 lb mark that you'll be there in no time! And hopefully the DOMS aren't too terrible. Have a fun weekend with your cousins!

    @Ron, I took a look at the India pics, looks like a very interesting trip. And you've been "doing the needful" really well lately, congrats on the weight continuously falling off!

    @Tru, love the quotes you've been posting lately! And I hope your skunk incident wasn't too stinky...

    @Jane, glad your garden is doing well in the heat, has is cooled down for you yet? My little guy is all better. I did take to the doctor on Monday, she said he had something called torticollis, a virus of some sort, but it goes away in a couple days. Common in little kids, but not very contagious, which is good, because he was around a bunch of other littles right before he got sick.

    @AllieK23, welcome! This is a lovely bunch to hang out with :bigsmile:

    I'm trying to prepare myself mentally for the 8K race tomorrow. I know I'll probably be one of the last runners in, which I'm fine with, I'm just hoping I have the strength to run the entire thing. Been having a little trouble with my right calf/heel.
    One thing I have discovered, I am not ready for minimalist running shoes. At least the pair I got was only $22.50, and I'll hang on to them for when I've lost more weight, and maybe go do some trail running.
    My 9 year old comes home today from camp. A friend of mine from church was working there as part of her job this week (my hubby actually used to work with her, he hired her for her current position with his tribe), and she texted me some pictures during the week, so I was able to keep up on how he was doing, which I was really glad of.
    After my race tomorrow, going to go visit a friend, and see the house their in the process of building. Hope she doesn't mind me showing up in my running clothes!

    Hope you all have a great weekend!
  • janetay01
    janetay01 Posts: 1,298 Member
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    @steph - have fun over the weekend - a weekend being looked after with good food sounds great! What are kettlebells? Bless your husband - assume it still just a bit chilly for him:smile: I work with an Australian girl and she still doesn't think it's hot enough! Congrats on the NSV - things like that feel so good.

    @ron - like the pics of India - sounds like you had a really good time. Don't start me off about necessary people being away - having taken our two weeks off in early June, I'm now in the office until the bank holiday weekend at end of August - key deadlines coming up on the project that I'm working on and all the decision makers have gone on holiday. Somehow, I think I've missed out here! Well done on the continued weight loss.

    @meg - glad the young one is better. Not cooled down here at all - still all hot and sticky - I don't mind it during the day but I would give anything for a full, cool nights sleep:grumble: Hope the race goes well tomorrow - I'm sure you will be good to finish. And wherever you finish is still more running than I could do - never had the stamina for it!

    Well, I've slid gracelessly into this weekend - a long, hot and busy week at work. Worked from home yesterday which was just horrible - at least the office has air con! Going to be spending some time in the garden tomorrow - maintenance like grass cuttting rather than the fun stuff but it has to be done. A friend of ours has a birthday on Monday so we are going round to them tomorrow evening for supper - taking her, amongst other things, a nice large box of chocolates - fruity and some with liquers in them. Should keep her happy for a while - she is one of those intensely irritating people who eats exactly what she wants and never puts on a pound. Even pregnancy didn't make her large! Not fair!

    Anyway, have a lovely weekend all - making Pimms jelly tomorrow. My argument is that it's low fat, low calorie and provides me with some of my 5 a day. That's my argument and I'm sticking to it!!!
  • ron2e
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    To those having problems sleeping in the hot weather, I learned from living in Africa there was only one solution outside of air conditioning. Firstly, don't wear anything (other than your sleep monitor!) to bed, secondly pull back the covers/duvet/whatever and lie on top of the bed uncovered. This will seem a little strange at first as you feel vulnerable, but as long as you have checked the closets and under the bed for monsters you should be OK. You will find in the morning, at some point you will have pulled the covers up as the night got cooler, you seem to be able to regulate your temperature even though asleep. It never fails for me and I have been doing it for many years in hotter temperatures and higher humidity than we are having currently. A quiet fan set on very low just to disturb the air can also help.

    @Jane - Pimms jelly sounds interesting but isn't there a lot of sugar in it? Not that there's anything wrong with that.

    @Meg - good luck with the 8K, I do admire your determination! Just don't overdo it, if you have problems with your calf/heel, pat yourself on the back for the bit you've done and retire gracefully rather than give yourself a more permanent injury!

    @Steph - glad to see you more positive and getting back to your 100 lbs under! Kettlebells sound like an affliction "The doctor has diagnosed a severe case of kettlebells, so I have to stay in bed for a week".............

    After having to return my Withings WiFi scale which was clearly faulty after less than a day, I am very pleased with my new Omron analyser scale which is consistent in its measurements, agrees with my previous scales to the fraction of a pound, and confirm that my weight continues to drop. The minor downside is it doesn't have the WiFi capability so I've got to manually enter my measurements onto MFP!! I guess I can count the calories that takes as non exercise........... :) I'm also getting used to my new Fitbit One and really like the apps and website that go with it so I'm sure this is going to help my motivation, not that that's a problem at the moment, but you never know!

    Hopefully going to have a quiet weekend, apart from doing some expenses for work and possibly a visit to the bottle bank, I have nothing major I have to do which makes a change!
  • TheRunningGuppy
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    Made a blog post about the 8K if anyone wants to read about it :bigsmile:

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/megblackburn/view/my-first-8k-race-556022
  • _tru_
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    Wow! It has been awhile since I have been on here.

    Ron has been having an affair with his FitBit. Meg ran 8000 miles and back again. Jane is kicking butt as always. Steph is swimming her way to Australia. And AllieK23 has entered the mix. Sound about right? lol

    Glad to see that everyone is doing so well!!! I have been busy with life. All good things, just too many at once. Finally, after many false starts, I have started the project at work for which I was originally hired (over 6 years ago!), so much learning, training, and brain overloading going on. Keeping up with eating healthy and moving more as much as I can. Unfortunately, the hot, sticky weather does not help for motivation.

    Great (and odd) NSV for me (and possibly Mr. Red Shorts?). I have been feeling much better about myself which in turn shows as greater confidence. I went for a walk yesterday morning and Mr. Red Shorts came running past from behind. About 20 minutes later he came running from the other direction and just as I was about to say hello, he motioned to me, smiled and said hello first! Swoon! His smile melted my heart. I had a 2.5 second love affair with him. Alas, it was not meant to be and he jogged out of my heart as quickly as he ran in, but it made my day all the same!

    Our garden is crazy filled with veggies now - beans, peas, carrots, beets, and lettuce. Still waiting on the peppers and tomatoes. I had forgotten how tasty fresh veggies from the garden are. I'm so in love with produce again!!

    I have not had anymore skunk sightings, but there has definitely been some spraying going on. Thankfully not at my front door. There is still a little smell lingering and with the heat it really isn't pleasant. Eesh!

    No sure if I mentioned, so please forgive me if I am repeating myself... I purchased a little bird bath a couple of weeks ago. I wasn't sure if it was being used. Everytime I looked, no birds. Then one morning I looked out and Yay! a Gold Finch flew in to drink. He came and left several times (or perhaps it was several of them?). And, there was also some bugs/insects/bees that were coming in to drink as well. Not as crazy about that, but at least it is being used. And THEN, the Robin. He cam and perched himself on the edge and there he stayed. He didn't drink or bathe, but certainly staked his territory. He was there for about an hour. Crazy Robin, bird baths are for everyone! lol

    So, here's something. I don't have an exact answer (and never will), but I do have a theory. Let's play 20 questions and see what we can all come up with...

    Scenario: I woke up this morning and ventured into my garage. There, right smack dab in the middle of the floor, lay my work safety goggles. How did they get there?

    Have a wonderful night!! xo
  • janetay01
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    Ron - Pimms jelly? Yeah, quite a bit of sugar in it but not getting hung up on it as an occasional thing. It's an interesting mix - not unpleasant but not sure I'll bother making it again. Take care with that fitbit - sounds like it will be running your life befor long! Tried all the below for sleeping through hot nights but its never worked that well for me - I've concluded that I just have a naturally high body temperature - even in the middle of the winter snow I'll be under significantly less covers than my husband - he thinks I'm mad and he may well be right!

    Meg - congratulations on the race - that was an awesome achievement. And signing up for all those future races - that will give you lots if good targets to aim for.

    Steph - hope you had a good relaxing weekend with your cousin.

    Tru - lol about Mr Red Shorts - good fun even if just for a couple of seconds!! I know just what you mean about the garden and produce - we are currently impatiently waiting for tomatoes, raspberries and blackberries. Everything is late here in the UK this year but its slowly getting there. Good luck with the project - finally!!

    Good weekend here - lovely weather and another great result in the cricket!! Had supper with friends for a birthday on Saturday night - up very late and Sunday a very lazy day as a result. Back to work today - what joy! Finally seen good results this weekend - both on the scales and on my belt so feeling very chipper about this all at the moment. Have been focussing my efforts in not going above my fat target over the last week and it seems to have worked - so here's to another good week!

    Have a great Monday all.
  • stephaniezoundi
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    Hi all! Will read the updates properly later. Fab weekend away with the family. Being at my cousins who cook delicious meals and serve dessert with lunch and dinner always reminds me that moderation is the key. Yummy food and the scale stayed the same so I happy. Preparing for a scorcher today which means the girls at school will be miserable. Roll on Wednesday and the end of term. Busy week as have little girls first birthday party on Saturday (makes me a wee tearful the idea) and nothing prepped yet..except her presents have arrived. She's been playing in the enormous amazon delivery box. Could
    Probably safely return the toys she's so content with the box!! Have a great day and of your some place hot get your water in!!!
  • TheRunningGuppy
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    Found an old pair of pants yesterday! Decided to keep them, only for this purpose though.

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    Old pants by aguppymama, on Flickr
  • ron2e
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    Good grief it's quiet on here, has everyone gone on vacation except Meg's pants? That's a wonderful NSV Meg, I must look out my old pants and see if it is as obvious!

    I've had one of those weeks so far, away from home Tuesday/Wednesday, back last night but today has been wall to wall teleconferences (which I absolutely hate, they are such a time waster mostly!) so I haven't had much time to post. Next week will be worse as I am in Germany from Tuesday to Friday.

    My Fitbit has calmed down a bit, but it seems to give me calories it doesn't want me to eat which is a bit baffling. It adds them in to MFP then moans at me if I actually eat them..... I also find it too sensitive monitoring my sleep having me waking up multiple times per night, whereas on my phone sleep app which sits under my pillow I usually sleep through and this seems to tie in to my own impression. I certainly find I'm sleeping less now than I used to and sleeping better so I'm unconvinced. One other problem I have found is I have an app to record when I am driving so I don't get any false readings. This works as far as the Fitbit app is concerned on both the phone and the web, but it keeps giving me badges, like yesterday gave me a badge for climbing 50 sets of stairs whereas I'd only climbed four as shown in my dashboard, the rest must have been driving up and down the hills on the way home!

    Oh well, back to work, the day hasn't finished yet..................

    Keep going all, you're doing so well. I'm very proud of my friends :bigsmile:

    By the way my beard hasn't grown, my new profile pic is my baby, an orange roan english cocker called Mischa. Home born and bred!
  • janetay01
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    @meg - loving the NSV with the trousers - that is an awesome difference for you!

    @ron - well, I'm not on holiday, just battling with a huge training plan which has to shoehorn about 200 people into about 8 different courses over the course of a month. I'm going googly eyed with it all and have given up work early (at home today) in an excel induced huff:laugh: Loving the cocker by the way - how old? I wasn't going to say anything about the fitbit as you were so pleased to have it and I thought maybe the one I had was simply a donkey - but I have to confess, mine is stuffed in the back of my desk. I hated it as a sleep app and it did keep giving me very random information. People rave about them but I've yet to work out why - maybe it is just too clever for me:tongue:

    @steph - when do you leave for Canada?

    Beyond my excel induced rant above, there just isn't much happening at the moment. Work is manic, home life is - well just day to day home life really. Husband is going to see his dad over the weekend so I get the house to myself (apart from two increasingly demanding cats!). Not sure what I will do with myself - I guess see what the weather brings and go from there.

    Have a good evening all and keep on keeping on - we are all doing so well:smile:
  • adnamalegna
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    Hi All- I am a newbie here- just starting out and could REALLY use some encouragement along the way- please feel free to friend me :) I also want to get started running- bought some shoes- woot! I've been walking or being active every day this week. Love y'alls posts here. Very motivational to see all the tickers with your weight loss .
  • ron2e
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    @jane - tend to agree on the Fitbit, but it is good and does provide useful info like allowing me to drink more :wink: Seriously I thiink this is a good product but in its early stages of development which I happen to be very familiar iwth................... so I'll say no more on that subject LOL. People in glass houses and all that................ With hubby away this weekend if you want ,me to pop round, just say the word! I joke of course, though I'm sure we could compare knitting patterns or something :laugh:

    @angelandtherest - ~Aren't there timesyou hate setting thing in stone (every time I type my company's name I think WTF ! That's why I am simply ron2e here) welcome, we are a very supportive group though under appreciated I think. I am the token male who causes the problem probably, but if you can get past my input, you will find great people of the female persuasion here! Meg the magnificent who puts Forest Gump to shame, Steph, who as a Canadian (we mustn't discriminate, Canadians are people too, believeit or not) is doing a wonderful job bringing up a baby AND a husband while remaining committed and sane and losign weight, and _tru- who is lovely, but rather like myself, totally crazy and unlike myself, a gardener at heart!! See I'm good at thumbnail sketches, so if you send me a jog of your thumbnail, I will sketch it.....

    Oh well, time to go and wash the dishes and put out the bin (garbage).........................
  • TheRunningGuppy
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    @Angel, will send an FR :bigsmile: Let us know how you do with running. Are you going to do C25K?

    @Jane, a weekend alone sounds kind of nice! Hope you find something fun to do. And get a good workout in.

    @Ron, cute dog! The fitbit is making life interesting for you isn't it? I thought about getting one, but decided for the HRM instead, only using it for runs and other vigorous exercise. And I wish I was on vacation! But as an independent contractor, I usually say, "vacation? what's that?". I'm just glad every weekend is 4 days for me!

    @Steph, that's always true about kids and boxes! A couple weeks ago my husband brought home a huge box from work, it's currently in the backyard being used as a fort or something. Hope the birthday party goes well! The first is always fun and a little sad too.

    My crazy few weeks are over, thank God! Back to life as usual. Mostly. Hubby's been out of town this week, lucky man has been in San Diego, but he's coming home today, yay! And, I had to let my babysitter who normally comes on Thursday's go, simply can't afford to pay her :grumble: And my mom-in-law has backed out of babysitting as well, which makes trying to work with two young boys at home somewhat interesting.
    Going to be running my next 5K on Saturday morning. Haven't been able to do much running this week with hubby gone, so I'm interested to see how it goes.
  • ron2e
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    @meg - ain't that the truth! I'm also an independent contractor and not getting paid while you're not working means you lose more money taking the time off than the holiday costs you, so you take a huge hit! I don't have the luxury of 4 day weekends either :sad: Still, I have the compensation of, for me, the best job in the world and renumerative benefits. Glad to hear your life is back to normal, I don't know the meaning of normal any more.......... :noway:

    I will get my head round the Fitbit eventually, I wore the strap on my right wrist last night and got results much closer to my phone sleep app, so that might be the answer. I've also realised I criticised the Fitbit unfairly, I had my goal loss set to 1.5 lbs a week on MFP but 2 on Fitbit, thus the inconsistency. Now I've reset it the same it is making a lot more sense! However the little cow is playing hard to get, possibly because I've made changes, this morning she said "I LIKE U", I mean LIKE????? WTF is that all about after protestations of undying love and sexual attraction just a few days ago............... One thing is for sure, she is definitely female :laugh:
  • _tru_
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    @Jane – Sounds like you are getting along famously. So glad things are going so well for you! Hope you had a wonderful weekend alone.

    @Steph – When are you coming to Canada? The humidity has pushed out for now, but I fear it will make it's way back soon. Happy birthday to your little girl. And first steps too! Yay!

    @Meg – Wow! Those pants really do show how hard you have been working! So proud of you! Congrats on the 5k!

    @Ron – I am not familiar with FitBit. She wakes you up at night? What is the purpose of that? ..... Um, was the 2.5 second love affair with Mr. Red Shorts that deemed me “crazy”? lol

    @Angel – Welcome aboard!

    @Ron, again – It really is a whirlwind romance, isn't it? :tongue:

    Oh geez, it was in here somewhere.... I find I cannot sleep in the buff. I am much hotter naked than clothed. I don't know how that works, but it is what it is. Try just sleeping in light cotton pjs. That's what works for me. Or cranking the A/C, but that can backfire, as furry pets tend to migrate closer to you at night. My cat really is a portable heater.

    So, I took the plunge yesterday and went back to a full-on brunette. I have been a redhead for quite sometime and had forgotten how I looked in brown. Loving it! Although, next time I may have to go a bit darker.

    Off to the garden today to pick peas, beans, and carrots. Also to see how the tomatoes are progressing. I am convinced they are just teasing me now. Every day, still green.

    Off to be crazy (thanks Ron!). :laugh:

    Happy Sunday!!