What determines if you accept or decline a FR????

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  • kyleekay10
    kyleekay10 Posts: 1,812 Member
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    @Catrina, I think collecting refers to the people who send out zillions of FR with no intention of actually getting to know the person. :smile:
  • RllyGudTweetr
    RllyGudTweetr Posts: 2,019 Member
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    Wait, so let me get this right.....if I don't accept everyone I'm not supportive, but if I do accept everyone I would be collecting?? :huh:
    That sounds about right. Care to try for Double Jeopardy, where the scores can really change?
  • vienna_h
    vienna_h Posts: 428 Member
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    I only want people who can motivate me, share advice, have similar goals and healthy lifestyles, you know, people I can relate to. So obviously I only accept requests from overweight married men older than my own father with nothing on their profile but a "friend's list" of young scantily clad women. I have to accept, I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings or anything.

    That's what I joined this site for.
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
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    Wait, so let me get this right.....if I don't accept everyone I'm not supportive, but if I do accept everyone I would be collecting?? :huh:

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  • jonsey_s
    jonsey_s Posts: 222
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    Money, do they put out, do they have a brewery, can they make me a good sammich......

    ...All vital points.
  • RllyGudTweetr
    RllyGudTweetr Posts: 2,019 Member
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    I only want people who can motivate me, share advice, have similar goals and healthy lifestyles, you know, people I can relate to. So obviously I only accept requests from overweight married men older than my own father with nothing on their profile but a "friend's list" of young scantily clad women. I have to accept, I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings or anything.

    That's what I joined this site for.
    How you doin'?
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
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    duck lips play a little part of it

    I suppose you mean for a decline?

    I only accept if there's duck lips.
  • kyleekay10
    kyleekay10 Posts: 1,812 Member
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    I only want people who can motivate me, share advice, have similar goals and healthy lifestyles, you know, people I can relate to. So obviously I only accept requests from overweight married men older than my own father with nothing on their profile but a "friend's list" of young scantily clad women. I have to accept, I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings or anything.

    That's what I joined this site for.


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    We get it. You think old married guys are creepy more often than not.

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    Money, do they put out, do they have a brewery, can they make me a good sammich......

    ...All vital points.

    I've never thought about the brewery qualification. +1 for you. All brewery owners now get instant adds from me. :drinker:
  • want2lovemybody
    want2lovemybody Posts: 804
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    Wait, so let me get this right.....if I don't accept everyone I'm not supportive, but if I do accept everyone I would be collecting?? :huh:


    ^^^^^^^ THIS!!
  • Kamatayan
    Kamatayan Posts: 21 Member
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    I don't get many random friend requests, or even requests when I reply to a "I'm new and looking for friends" post. But when I do, I accept. Though I have deleted people in the past when it started to feel like I was just a part of a collection
  • dawn_h_d
    dawn_h_d Posts: 184 Member
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    Just starting, so accept everyone. As time goes on, I will see how folks treat me. So far, I think my small brood of folks I have befriended on here are awesome!!
  • CLFrancois
    CLFrancois Posts: 472 Member
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    It all depends on my mood.
    But sometimes, I will admit, an ab picture or big guns help. (men or women)
  • Excuse_less
    Excuse_less Posts: 874 Member
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    The quality of the noodz included.

    I would have to rethink my duck lips stance if they were included in those shots lol
  • TyTy76
    TyTy76 Posts: 1,761 Member
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    I don't accept testosterone-induced selfies.

    ...so...none of the men on this site.

    Well that's pretty judgmental...
  • holliebevineau
    holliebevineau Posts: 441 Member
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    I accept any one who loves to run because I love to run. I also accept anyone who has lost a nice amount of weight because I want to know how they did it.
  • catneon
    catneon Posts: 911 Member
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    I don't accept testosterone-induced selfies.

    ...so...none of the men on this site.

    Well that's pretty judgmental...
    Maybe she's friends with that other guy??
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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    I only want people who can motivate me, share advice, have similar goals and healthy lifestyles, you know, people I can relate to. So obviously I only accept requests from overweight married men older than my own father with nothing on their profile but a "friend's list" of young scantily clad women. I have to accept, I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings or anything.

    That's what I joined this site for.


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    We get it. You think old married guys are creepy more often than not.

    ETA:
    Money, do they put out, do they have a brewery, can they make me a good sammich......

    ...All vital points.

    I've never thought about the brewery qualification. +1 for you. All brewery owners now get instant adds from me. :drinker:

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  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
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    I don't accept testosterone-induced selfies.

    ...so...none of the men on this site.

    Or any man on the planet.
    Apparently, there is testosterone in all of them.

    Weird.

    I was all Al Bundy scratching while typing this too.
  • NanaWubbie
    NanaWubbie Posts: 248 Member
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    I will friend anyone who requests, especially newbies, but I can't tolerate negative attitudes for too long. I send support, and try to inspire....but if someone is brining me down day after day, I have to distance myself. I need positive people to help me keep on track with my own goals.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
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    I like when there is some kinda note that lets me know who they are or what made them send me the request. Just curiousty mostly. I haven't turned down any FR's to this point.

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