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New girl at my work she's very friendly and just adorable, been working with her for about 3-4 weeks. Starting to get feelings/crush for her but don't want to jeopardize work over her especially if she doesn't feel the same way. What should I do? just let the feelings pass? tell her how I feel? we talk alot but its always at work should I try to make a plan for something say dinner? srs thread is srs.
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are u getting any vibes from her at all? is she flirting with you?0
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Hard to tell could all pass as being overly friendly but us guy's are stupid when it comes to this. I catch her looking at me sometimes, always smiles when I come into the room. She also tries to start conversations as taking the lead alot but idk. Not enough for me to make my move yet, I have a strict no dating coworkers code but in this case willing to break it :S0
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Just keep the crush alive unless she throws herself at you.0
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maybe try and organize an after work happy hour with a group of people from work? then you can feel out if she is single, in a relationship, off men for a while, or whatever.0
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maybe try and organize an after work happy hour with a group of people from work? then you can feel out if she is single, in a relationship, off men for a while, or whatever.
She's single and her roommate is super cool, maybe getting a bunch of co workers together and going out will work interesting idea, thanks!0 -
Crushes are the BEST.
Step 1: get her cell #
Step 2: flirt a little, scoop out the situation, compliment her.
Step 3: do this for like a week. Girls usually break down after 3 days and start initiating techniques so that you will ask her out.
Best of luck my friend! You are a great catch, she'd have to be blind and nuts to not want you.0 -
I would be damn careful here man. You can establish a "work wife" as they call it and just leverage that flirtation and not pursue it deeper, but if you're gonna go for it you should be damn sure you will see it through and she's open to it. like what Walleyclan1 said above about a happy hour to learn more. Also there is an entire episode of How I Met Your Mother based on this very question. I have provided you with a short clip:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYLg92o_Gj00 -
I would be damn careful here man. You can establish a "work wife" as they call it and just leverage that flirtation and not pursue it deeper, but if you're gonna go for it you should be damn sure you will see it through and she's open to it. like what Walleyclan1 said above about a happy hour to learn more. Also there is an entire episode of How I Met Your Mother based on this very question. I have provided you with a short clip:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYLg92o_Gj0
Good looking out man, it is very risky. I think I may just leave it alone for now and see down the road what she does or says..0 -
Try not to get too rustled brah.0
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Crushes are the BEST.
Step 1: get her cell #
Step 2: flirt a little, scoop out the situation, compliment her.
Step 3: do this for like a week. Girls usually break down after 3 days and start initiating techniques so that you will ask her out.
Best of luck my friend! You are a great catch, she'd have to be blind and nuts to not want you.
Idk might hold on this even though it sounds promising. What I have done a few times is when shes around i'd ignore her abit and talk with other women in my workplace I found it kinda makes her alittle agitated and when I say ignore not rudely but I would talk to them more when shes around kinda lulzy haha.0 -
Step 3: do this for like a week. Girls usually break down after 3 days and start initiating techniques so that you will ask her out.
And what techniques are these? You know.... for science.0 -
Step 3: do this for like a week. Girls usually break down after 3 days and start initiating techniques so that you will ask her out.
And what techniques are these? You know.... for science.
This^^^ pm me all the good techniques will be forever in your debt.0 -
Plan a night out with all of the co-workers. Ask her if she'd be interested in joining. Request her number so you can text her the final plans once there's a headcount. If she goes, make sure to ask her questions about HER, but don't be all down her throat.0
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Oops. I just saw that someone else already suggested what I suggested. Sorry.0
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If you are a white collar worker this might not be the best idea. But if it is an easy going work environment then go for it.0
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Definitely get her number. She might be more open in text and might admit she has feelings for you0
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Crushes are the BEST.
Step 1: get her cell #
Step 2: flirt a little, scoop out the situation, compliment her.
Step 3: do this for like a week. Girls usually break down after 3 days and start initiating techniques so that you will ask her out.
Best of luck my friend! You are a great catch, she'd have to be blind and nuts to not want you.
Idk might hold on this even though it sounds promising. What I have done a few times is when shes around i'd ignore her abit and talk with other women in my workplace I found it kinda makes her alittle agitated and when I say ignore not rudely but I would talk to them more when shes around kinda lulzy haha.
You!! Are such a male! Girls HATE to be ignored. It makes us all the more competitive. We want to have your attention.. Damn this is a good strategy. Good one.0 -
New girl at my work she's very friendly and just adorable, been working with her for about 3-4 weeks. Starting to get feelings/crush for her but don't want to jeopardize work over her especially if she doesn't feel the same way. What should I do? just let the feelings pass? tell her how I feel? we talk alot but its always at work should I try to make a plan for something say dinner? srs thread is srs.0
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If you are a white collar worker this might not be the best idea. But if it is an easy going work environment then go for it.
It's a chilled environment I'm going to see about getting coworkers together for a drink or maybe for poker "friend has a table" and ask her to tagg along and get her number aswell, still a big risk but I'm going to beat around the bush with her to feel her out more"metaphorically" not literally XD0 -
Plan a night out with all of the co-workers. Ask her if she'd be interested in joining. Request her number so you can text her the final plans once there's a headcount. If she goes, make sure to ask her questions about HER, but don't be all down her throat.0
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