IRRELEVANT POSTS? How about NO posts?

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  • GGDaddy
    GGDaddy Posts: 289 Member
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  • colleenz43
    colleenz43 Posts: 12
    what has my preference to friends in my own age group
    have to do with comments among said friends? You are
    comparing apples to oranges. Its not being picky, its being
    practical. Talk to me again when YOU are 54!!! lol
  • colleenz43
    colleenz43 Posts: 12
    Bed posts are good!!! lol. good one.
  • cebiginalaska
    cebiginalaska Posts: 280 Member
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  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
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  • PepperWorm
    PepperWorm Posts: 1,206
    First world problems.
  • bookworm_847
    bookworm_847 Posts: 1,903 Member
    there are lots of vampires on here. they don't talk much. once you friend them, they can enter your house without permission. if you have a FL full of people who don't comment, you should probably de-friend them all right now and move.

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    This sounds like a reasonable explanation.
  • CherylP67
    CherylP67 Posts: 772 Member
    I feel bad for unfriending people, but I'm going to do it. I have a friend who eats low calories all the time. Today she had 230 calories all day. I commented that this was too low and did she always eat this low and no response. I've reached out to her a few times before, but she doesn't want to interact. I think that maybe at that low caloric intake, she probably doesn't have the energy.

    I don't interact with every buddy every day, but I enjoy getting to know people and learning from them, and helping them along. My most supportive buddy is 20 years younger than me. Some buddies are just comedians and I enjoy reading their updates.

    If MFP would give us a like button, I could respond to every post every day.
  • sophieannejune
    sophieannejune Posts: 61 Member
    I thnk people have to remember that to have a friend, you have to be a friend (and that means accepting people as they are). Some people don't want to share pictures until they're ready to (that's me)...it's not that one is being secretive, it's a comfort level thing (I'm still having trouble accepting that my body has changed after losing 73 lbs). Some people don't want their diary commented on...they just want someone who they can say hi to and how are you doing/are you having a good day? And most importantly friends don't make judgmental comments. I joined this site after dieting on my own for 2 months...since January I have lost 73 lbs. I don't think it's wrong of me to write that my weight loss has been 73 lbs even though i may have only lost 63 lbs since joining this site (this is what keeps me motivated). I'm here for me, not to impress others, not to get approval from others.I want the best for everyone here..but i respect people as individuals. And if those individuals don't respect me, please delete me. BUT..if you delete someone, give them the courtesy of telling them why you deleted the; i think jjust deleting someone is extremely rude and unfair.
  • Camera_BagintheUK
    Camera_BagintheUK Posts: 707 Member

    I try to be supportive and offer insight about my own successes and failures, but I don't have time to inspect everyone's diary or comment on every 10 minute walk. Generally, the more people interact directly with me, the more I interact directly with them.

    Same here
  • Phoenix_Warrior
    Phoenix_Warrior Posts: 1,633 Member
    Why can't weeee be friends.
    Why can't weeee be friends.

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