How do you find the motivation to keep going?

You really have to want it! Its a lot of work n dedication. My issues were similar to what your going thru, I wanted to lose weight for so many years. Plateau then lose a pound. Gain it back ugh..hated it. But once I got serious n found that this logging food n being very faithful to it really worked. I was dropping weight n still am . I love that my waist is tiny now. I have lost about 11 pant sizes . That's my motivation. Drop my last ten pounds n wear a small size in pants. I love how my clothes fit! Hang in there. Just push urself, and use tools like mfp... It works , you just have to be faithful to logging n exercise!

So many reasons, it's hard to pick one. A big chunk of it is ego, from different aspects. It makes me feel great to have people come up and say how good I look with the weight I've lost. It makes me feel good to know that I can go to any pool, any beach and feel good about taking off my shirt and look good. I love to inspire others because if I can do it at my age, with all that is going on in my life, there is no reason others can't. I like to be able to buy sexy underwear for my partner to admire me in. It's great to be able to get into clothes you haven't been able to get into for 4 decades.

I am 11 months post-knee replacement. I have been doing this to rehab from that and to make it easier on the knee. I'm doing it because I'm moving better than I have in years. I'm more pain free than I have been in decades. And I want to stay pain free, and postpone having to do the other knee as long as possible.

And I also have a personal trainer who I know would take great pleasure in kicking me from pillar to post if I screw up (he's also a great friend, which is why he'd enjoy it so much). And because I want to look damned good at his wedding in 7 weeks.

But in the end everyone's reason will be personal. It comes down to motivation. Do you want it enough to do it? It really is mind over matter. Because if you are in control of your mind, nothing else matters.

There's a series of reasons but I'm going to go with the first thought that came to mind: ONE DAY AT A TIME

I know it's been said, too many times to count, but we must learn to crawl before we can walk, & walk before we can run & it's ok when you fall, just make sure you get back up.

I've been going fairly strong since 7/8/2013 feel free to "Friend" me because me & everyone on my MFP friend list is walking UP the same hill.

Stay strong & good health ~T

It's of the most utmost importance to me. If you were held underwater what would be your only thought at that time? Air right? And you'd fight, struggle, dig, bite, scratch, etc. to get it. When you want your weight loss goal just like that air, then you'll reach it.

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I have been working at it since March of this year. My reasons are pretty much the same as everyone here, basically I want to be healthy. As it says on my profile I am a type 1 diabetic and it is essential that I live an active lifestyle to be healthy. I completely understand about how difficult work can make things. I work shift work and eating on a schedule is harder. Some days I feel like all I am doing is thinking about my next meal and how to make it quick and healthy. It is worth it though...I have finally reached some goals that I never thought I would reach and it is amazing feeling. Just hang in there you can do it.

Serious question.

I've been aiming to lose weight for around a year now, and I've done it for brief periods with mild success. I always hit a plateau and then just slowly ease off of a diet/exercise plan. I'm 6' 216 pounds. Back in March I started, aiming for 2lbs/wk and I got down to 209 at the end of April. Unsatisfied with the progress I sort of gave up.

I work 50+ hours a week and find it so difficult to eat healthy and exercise (I know, this is an excuse).
I don't have many opportunities to leave work, so I end up eating from a vending machine or giving someone my credit card to grab me McDonalds or something, and I always regret it..

I just want to know how you guys keep yourselves motivated throughout the long difficult process of losing weight, and avoid all of the temtations?

You need to set yourself up for success, not failure. By having no food prepared, then, yes, you are going to hit fast food/vending machines cause you're hungry and they're there. All the motivation in the world isn't going to help you if you aren't prepared, so start there. I work from 9 to 6 five days a week, have to shop, cook, prepare food, have to clean my home, have to raise a ( special needs adult) son so you do what you gotta do. Start by cleaning up the environment, have healthy meals and snack ready, figure out when you will exercise and GI. We all get discouraged at that first plateau, you gave to keep going,

Like those mentioned above, it just became habit for me. I went on and off for a couple of years and then finally got tired of the "getting back on". Everything sort of happened at once; I finished school, got a new job, and made a big lifestyle change by deciding to stop drinking, so it just seemed right that that would be the time to throw myself into focusing on my health.

That being said, I know we don't all have time or even the need for a big lifestyle change! Think of the reasons why you really want this; weight loss may be one, but what about your health? Increased longevity in life so you have more time with the ones you love? Maybe even just the ability to stay independent when you're older. Use those deeper reasons and make a commitment to yourself to stick to it for two full weeks. Every time you think about giving up, remind yourself that it's only 2 weeks you have to make it through. I guarantee that by the end of those two weeks it will feel more like habit, you'll have noticed a lot of positive outcomes, and it will be easier to stick to it.

I always found it the hardest when I was just focusing on my weight and what I looked like. There needs to be that connection to those deeper meanings.

For me its a health reason as to why I started. . I have high cholesterol. ..
So I keep going because of that.... also... I love lifting weights... which ive just discovered I think half of it is finding exercise you enjoy... I wouldnt normally have gym days... and I would normally just stay in bed or couldnt be bothered to go.. as for eating.. I was eating alot of takeaway.. now I pretty much stay the hell away from it.. I think you have to modivate yourself.. and even when there is no modivation you just do it... for me.. because I have to..... you can do this..

Logging has really helped me stay on track. I was working 50 hour weeks for about 6 months this year, and it was tough. I rode my bike to and from work, so that added extra time onto my day. But it also gave me the exercise I needed.

I would wake at 4am to prepare my meals for the day. I had to have food within moments of arriving home, or I'd just call for delivery. I did a lot of food prep on Sundays, so that my mornings were a bit easier.

If you can stand it, eat the same thing every day for breakfast and lunch. This is a super time saver. You don't have to think about what you are going to eat, and cooking is a cinch. I'd have egg whites scrambled with fresh spinach and black beans for breakfast and a tossed salad with some protein (chicken, tuna, egg ect.) and a piece of fruit for lunch every day. For a mid afternoon snack I'd prepare some miso and have a handful of nuts. Dinner was lean protein, rice or potatoes and steamed veggies. I'd pre-cook the meat and potatoes on the weekend, so that way all I had to do was steam some veggies and pop the rest into the microwave.

The bike commuter thing was a bit drastic. I knew that I had to kick my own *kitten*, so I sold my car forcing myself to commute by bike or use public transport. Public transport took twice as long as riding my bike, so mostly I just rode my bike. But I was tired. And sometimes I had a really tough time doing anything at all on the weekends. (My daily commute was 10 miles each way).

Eventually, I just gave up the 50 hour a week job. That is an unreasonable amount of time to spend at work. I wanted those 10 hours a week back to use doing other things like resting, exercising, socializing ect. Now I work from home part time, and also on site part time. But my time is my own.

I got lazy again, so I had to sign up for some bike races. Now I'm back into hard core training mode. (kicked my own *kitten* again! )

Sometimes you just have to do something totally unreasonable to yourself to stay with the program. You need more motivation? Sign up for something like a 10k running race, a tough mudder, or other difficult and public challenge.

Oh, and never stop logging. Even the very ugly truth is motivating.

watch this type of *kitten* every night

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLv0Vsegmoo

Thank you for this link. I'm going to watch all of these.

You need to constantly remind yourself WHY you want to lose weight. Keep your before pictures handy, since they can be some of the best motivation you can find. Also, whenever I try on an outfit that doesn't look as good as I want it to, I get super motivated to keep going!

One of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard goes something like this:

"It's not motivation, but determination, that will get you to your goals."

In other words, it's making the right choices, no matter how you feel. It's choosing not to give up, no matter how slow your progress is. That scale has broken my heart 541361351.21 times, and I thought I'd be WAY closer to my goal by now, but I haven't given up. That's all it really takes.

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I just hit 170 and im only 23, use to being 125 at my highest. That is my motivation right now to not eventually hit 200lbs.
It truly is day by day, you need to plan meals when you come home (even if its late at night) google workout routines and try them early in the morning.

Keep trying and keep it going, dont over think it just do it. Its hard, but if it was easy everyone would have their dream bodies.

i read "it starts with food" and realized that i needed to focus on eating healthier to heal my body, and in the process found that personally cutting out grains and refined sugars helped curb my appetite. i had used diet pills for years before reading this book. now that i eat this way, it's so much easier to focus on not overeating while i sit at my desk, and i make or order healthy foods (nuts.com or amazon.com have lots to choose from!) to eat in the office (i work 84 hrs/week). currently my motivation is an upcoming trip to asia with lots of beach time. just read up on how to eat for your health, figure out a lifestyle diet (ie, not just something to lose weight but a way of eating that you can stick to for a long time) and you'll be good to go. good luck!

Serious question.

I've been aiming to lose weight for around a year now, and I've done it for brief periods with mild success. I always hit a plateau and then just slowly ease off of a diet/exercise plan. I'm 6' 216 pounds. Back in March I started, aiming for 2lbs/wk and I got down to 209 at the end of April. Unsatisfied with the progress I sort of gave up.

I work 50+ hours a week and find it so difficult to eat healthy and exercise (I know, this is an excuse).
I don't have many opportunities to leave work, so I end up eating from a vending machine or giving someone my credit card to grab me McDonalds or something, and I always regret it..

I just want to know how you guys keep yourselves motivated throughout the long difficult process of losing weight, and avoid all of the temtations?

Its easy because I recondition my mind.Most people hit plateaus because they are to strict or over excercise,I find that being relaxed about it is the long term solution for eg I do eat McDonalds still but the last time I had one was 2 months ago the time before that was a week ago the time before that was 3 day ago etc I never beat myself up I always draw a line and move on as long as I dont eat it in consecutive days and stay in my cal intake. I have faith and Ill know ill be fine.Self control.

50+ hrs isn't alot of hrs and yes your diet can goto pot,Its your mind that is getting in the way as you have clearly pointed out,so my advice is to pack up for the day its very easy just get up earlier and prepare for your day never deprive yourself but limit yourself.Self control

Ultimately its all down to you and its starts with your mindset. Goodluck chap but I know itsnot luck