mean things that you have been told

It's sad but the meanest things come from myself.

I went fishing this weekend with my kids and caught the biggest fish ever, we were all so tickled and we took alot of picutres and I was soooo happy, but when we got home and downloaded the pics off of my camera, I was pissed. I RUINED every single one of the pictures because my fat *kitten* is in them.

I'd love to show off the pic becuase of our catch, but why would I show them to anyone else, I look disgusting.

Yep, I can be a pretty vicious b!tch to myself, but absolutely no one else. People just look or stare at me.

I've been told lots of things, but I learned a phrase that usually shuts people up - 'I know...God loved me sooo much that he made more of me!' LOL I used to think like you, 'I'll show them' and I still do, but do this for yourself and no one else. Good Luck!

It's sad but the meanest things come from myself.

I went fishing this weekend with my kids and caught the biggest fish ever, we were all so tickled and we took alot of picutres and I was soooo happy, but when we got home and downloaded the pics off of my camera, I was pissed. I RUINED every single one of the pictures because my fat *kitten* is in them.

I'd love to show off the pic becuase of our catch, but why would I show them to anyone else, I look disgusting.

Yep, I can be a pretty vicious b!tch to myself, but absolutely no one else. People just look or stare at me.

I used to be like that, then realized when my kids were grown and out of the of the house I had very few pictures of me and my kids. Yeah, I thought I was huge and disgusting too, but you are being selfish to your children when you erase their memories too. They don't care if you think of yourself as fat, they love their mom. It took me a while to realize that and now I am sorry so many years went by with no pictures with my kids.

Sorry I am off post.

My Aunt, whom favors her oldest daughter said that myself, my sister and her youngest daughter were "too big boned to be thin"
it would have pissed me off 40 pounds ago, but now I weigh less and am in better shape than all 3 of them, so I let it roll right off me.
My sister in law told me (right after giving birth to my 1st son) that I wasn't "THAT fat"

But mainly the mean things come from me. I have a nasty habit of telling myself i'm not good enough, I can't do it, I don't deserve it and I'm fat etc etc it isn't the things other people say that bothers me but the things I tell myself are very hurtful.

You are a beautiful woman no matter what your size. Never forget that!
The people closest to us are usually the cruelest, why, because they love us!
Save me from people who love me, they are the one's that hurt you the most.
I have even thought it myself (what a pretty girl if only), it is our society, messages
are thrown at us every day.
My mother told my daughter I had lost my looks, my daughter told her no I had not, I just put on some weight, I was the same mother and daughter and still looked darn good.

But let me tell you you will be treated differently when your slim, even though your the same person. I have been overweight once before, and Iwas angry, I am the same person thick or thin, but remember your dealing with society not just faily and friends!

All the best.

Shan
OMG
You have to come up with a line for them.
Ex. Well at least I can do something about weight, you on the other hand,
(SHAKE YOUR HEAD AND WALK AWAY)