I binged today.

I binged on sweets today. I thought I was going to have only one red bean paste bun, but I ended up eating the entire bag of 9.
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  • gshields89
    gshields89 Posts: 30 Member
    Everyone slips, just move forward. Tomorrow is a new day :)
  • lloydrt
    lloydrt Posts: 1,121 Member
    what is a red bean paste bun? Sounds different.........

    Are you from the US?

    Sounds unusual, hopefully, not high in calories? But good luck as well, it happens ,just make goals that you can work towards and remeber, like the one lady said, tormorrow is a new day.........
  • prettigirl01
    prettigirl01 Posts: 548 Member
    I was only going to have 2 chocolate chip cookies and ate the whole bag....360 calories. going to work up a sweat tonight and do better tomorrow. it happens to all of us don't feel bad
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Everyone slips. Don't beat yourself up about it, and go do some extra workout.
  • Rosannajo88
    Rosannajo88 Posts: 212 Member
    As long as you enjoyed them its okay!

    Shake it off, move a bit more tomorrow and eat a little cleaner. Dont panic, this is a lifestyle change not a diet xx
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    Remember the feeling you have now and use it as motivation to not binge again.
  • qtgonewild
    qtgonewild Posts: 1,930 Member
    i LOVE these posts :)
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    Don't buy 'em again if you'll binge on the whole lot next time.
  • JewelsinBigD
    JewelsinBigD Posts: 661 Member
    One of my brilliant MFP friends said to me "Let it go - your next meal is your way back".
  • lloydrt
    lloydrt Posts: 1,121 Member
    One of my brilliant MFP friends said to me "Let it go - your next meal is your way back".

    wow, what a great saying.............Im going to use this next time it happens to me..............really a profound post........thank you
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
    Red bean buns ARE tasty. Are they the frozen kind that you have to steam? I know for a fact that they take ~15 minutes to steam so maybe next time just cook two for yourself and put the rest back in the freezer :) if you're finding them pre-made (I've never seen them that way so I apologize if I'm being silly), just get the frozen kind next time and use this method. It's a lot harder to overeat when you have to consciously prepare something to have another portion!
  • kallowat88
    kallowat88 Posts: 7 Member
    I was only going to have 2 chocolate covered almonds from the lady in the nexts offices goodie jar, and helped myself to about 20! Must move forward, its bound to happen! Everyone falls, just have to make sure and pick yourself up and continue on!
  • Ang108
    Ang108 Posts: 1,711 Member
    I do not want to offend anyone in regard to eating more than planned and definitely do not want to belittle BED. I wanted to ask for quite a while now on the subject of binging and clarify my perception.
    When I studied an MA in Nutritional Science 30 plus years ago I learned that " binging " means to ingest at least 2000 or more calories in one sitting ( about a two hour time period ) on top of what the normal daily calories are. I also learned that for an eating behavior to be called " binging " it has to occur on a weekly basis usually more than once.
    I also visited several times a OA group with a friend and when they spoke of binging they talked of eating 12 doughnuts, half a gallon of ice cream and a family size pizza in one sitting. My friend would eat a pizza, a big bucket of KFC with mashed potatoes, slaw, gravy and biscuits, a carton of ice cream and if that was not enough she would eat a package of cake mix dry with a spoon with a bottle of Hershey's chocolate syrup or a whole package of instant mashed potatoes. No one in that group ever spoke of binging when they ate just a few hundred calories more or when it only occurred occasionally
    Is the word binging used differently in the US culture ? Has the usage of the word in English changed in general over the last decades ?
    Since I joined MFP I have read a lot about binging in various threads, but no one really binges imo based on what I have learned....needless to say, I am somewhat confused.
  • Just call is a protein/carb load up day and keep moving forward :)
  • sanura
    sanura Posts: 459 Member
    There is a great youtube video by Durian rider about emotional eating. Check it out.
  • jodynolte
    jodynolte Posts: 243 Member
    Just one tootsie roll = six tootsie rolls. Just one piece of salt water taffy = 6 pieces of salt water taffy. Yup. We all have days like that. We are only human. Can't change it. Can only move forward. :) Have a great rest of the week!!!
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
    what is a red bean paste bun? Sounds different.........

    Are you from the US?

    Sounds unusual, hopefully, not high in calories? But good luck as well, it happens ,just make goals that you can work towards and remeber, like the one lady said, tormorrow is a new day.........

    They're a Japanese food (& Chinese too, not sure where they originated) but available in the US at Asian grocery stores :) They're a little bread bun filled with a sweet red bean paste, quite tasty and filling but a bit calorie dense.
  • snejkaxo
    snejkaxo Posts: 91 Member
    You learned your lesson! There is no way one can eat just ONE red bean paste anything. Are you kidding?! It´s like saying I´m gonna also eat just one mooncake. Silly girl. At least you had a delicious day today. Eat congee tomorrow, and you´ll be right back on track. Peace
  • I do not want to offend anyone in regard to eating more than planned and definitely do not want to belittle BED. I wanted to ask for quite a while now on the subject of binging and clarify my perception.
    When I studied an MA in Nutritional Science 30 plus years ago I learned that " binging " means to ingest at least 2000 or more calories in one sitting ( about a two hour time period ) on top of what the normal daily calories are. I also learned that for an eating behavior to be called " binging " it has to occur on a weekly basis usually more than once.
    I also visited several times a OA group with a friend and when they spoke of binging they talked of eating 12 doughnuts, half a gallon of ice cream and a family size pizza in one sitting. My friend would eat a pizza, a big bucket of KFC with mashed potatoes, slaw, gravy and biscuits, a carton of ice cream and if that was not enough she would eat a package of cake mix dry with a spoon with a bottle of Hershey's chocolate syrup or a whole package of instant mashed potatoes. No one in that group ever spoke of binging when they ate just a few hundred calories more or when it only occurred occasionally
    Is the word binging used differently in the US culture ? Has the usage of the word in English changed in general over the last decades ?
    Since I joined MFP I have read a lot about binging in various threads, but no one really binges imo based on what I have learned....needless to say, I am somewhat confused.

    I went to school for psychology and was taught the same thing. You are correct in the technical definition of binge eating disorder, but "binging" can also mean eating in excess against your personal desire or will. Meaning, if you eat something, or a lot of something, that you didn't want to, but you did it anyways to comfort yourself, then you were "binge eating". This is easy to determine based on how a person feels after they have eaten said food.
  • Devastatin
    Devastatin Posts: 2 Member
    I do not want to offend anyone in regard to eating more than planned and definitely do not want to belittle BED. I wanted to ask for quite a while now on the subject of binging and clarify my perception.
    When I studied an MA in Nutritional Science 30 plus years ago I learned that " binging " means to ingest at least 2000 or more calories in one sitting ( about a two hour time period ) on top of what the normal daily calories are. I also learned that for an eating behavior to be called " binging " it has to occur on a weekly basis usually more than once.
    I also visited several times a OA group with a friend and when they spoke of binging they talked of eating 12 doughnuts, half a gallon of ice cream and a family size pizza in one sitting. My friend would eat a pizza, a big bucket of KFC with mashed potatoes, slaw, gravy and biscuits, a carton of ice cream and if that was not enough she would eat a package of cake mix dry with a spoon with a bottle of Hershey's chocolate syrup or a whole package of instant mashed potatoes. No one in that group ever spoke of binging when they ate just a few hundred calories more or when it only occurred occasionally
    Is the word binging used differently in the US culture ? Has the usage of the word in English changed in general over the last decades ?
    Since I joined MFP I have read a lot about binging in various threads, but no one really binges imo based on what I have learned....needless to say, I am somewhat confused.

    Perspective is everything. A clinical definition usually doesn't translate well to a layman's term.

    Binging is synonymous with overeating. Generally without intent. At least this is my perspective.

    I overeat while on holiday, I binged on a bag of potato chips this afternoon.
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
    I do not want to offend anyone in regard to eating more than planned and definitely do not want to belittle BED. I wanted to ask for quite a while now on the subject of binging and clarify my perception.
    When I studied an MA in Nutritional Science 30 plus years ago I learned that " binging " means to ingest at least 2000 or more calories in one sitting ( about a two hour time period ) on top of what the normal daily calories are. I also learned that for an eating behavior to be called " binging " it has to occur on a weekly basis usually more than once.
    I also visited several times a OA group with a friend and when they spoke of binging they talked of eating 12 doughnuts, half a gallon of ice cream and a family size pizza in one sitting. My friend would eat a pizza, a big bucket of KFC with mashed potatoes, slaw, gravy and biscuits, a carton of ice cream and if that was not enough she would eat a package of cake mix dry with a spoon with a bottle of Hershey's chocolate syrup or a whole package of instant mashed potatoes. No one in that group ever spoke of binging when they ate just a few hundred calories more or when it only occurred occasionally
    Is the word binging used differently in the US culture ? Has the usage of the word in English changed in general over the last decades ?
    Since I joined MFP I have read a lot about binging in various threads, but no one really binges imo based on what I have learned....needless to say, I am somewhat confused.

    Red bean buns are ~220-250 calories each, so if you define a binge as 2000 calories or more, eating 9 buns would definitely fall in that category...

    That said, I don't think you need to have a strict definition of "binging" in order to use it in proper context... If someone eats 1000 calories in a sitting over what they normally would consume, due to emotional eating or bored eating or what have you, that's excessive enough that I would think calling it a "binge" would be proper.
  • Try not to worry about it - put it down to experience and carry on as normal tomorrow. We all have slips now and then - I binged on biscuits yesterday but today I'm back on track because I didn't let it get me down. Keep going - we're all in the same boat x
  • Don't feel bad, it will only make it worse :flowerforyou: It happened, move on from it.

    I don't know about you, but when I crave sugar it's because my blood sugar is really low. I find getting a lot of protein helps, as does trying to cut back a little on carbs.

    (Full disclosure: I'm a total carb-monster, so me "cutting back" is more or less equating to me meeting my goal, but working on increasing protein helps enormously.)
  • Tuck this quote away when you're feeling defeated, "Tomorrow is another chance to make yourself proud."
  • I do not want to offend anyone in regard to eating more than planned and definitely do not want to belittle BED. I wanted to ask for quite a while now on the subject of binging and clarify my perception.
    When I studied an MA in Nutritional Science 30 plus years ago I learned that " binging " means to ingest at least 2000 or more calories in one sitting ( about a two hour time period ) on top of what the normal daily calories are. I also learned that for an eating behavior to be called " binging " it has to occur on a weekly basis usually more than once.
    I also visited several times a OA group with a friend and when they spoke of binging they talked of eating 12 doughnuts, half a gallon of ice cream and a family size pizza in one sitting. My friend would eat a pizza, a big bucket of KFC with mashed potatoes, slaw, gravy and biscuits, a carton of ice cream and if that was not enough she would eat a package of cake mix dry with a spoon with a bottle of Hershey's chocolate syrup or a whole package of instant mashed potatoes. No one in that group ever spoke of binging when they ate just a few hundred calories more or when it only occurred occasionally
    Is the word binging used differently in the US culture ? Has the usage of the word in English changed in general over the last decades ?
    Since I joined MFP I have read a lot about binging in various threads, but no one really binges imo based on what I have learned....needless to say, I am somewhat confused.
    Oh, then, I didn't binge. I just overate. Yay!
  • sianquin
    sianquin Posts: 86 Member
    I was ill last week, I spent 3 days in bed (so not only no exercise but pretty much no movement), had chinese, pizza, kebabs, pancakes and 2 big bars of swiss chocolate. I'm not beating myself up as it was a one off. We all do it but we didn't get fat overnight and a one off won't make us fat again either, you only live once.
  • Pedalpush
    Pedalpush Posts: 246 Member
    Whoa! I had to look those up, but that was a pretty impressive binge. I can also feel your need to confess to MFP.

    You know better. And you will know how to avoid doing it again. One day will not undo how far you've come - and don't let it! Hang in there!!
  • Ang108
    Ang108 Posts: 1,711 Member
    Thank you all. Since I am a non-native speaker of English I just wanted to make sure that I had an idea how to use the word " binging " correctly and of course understand those MFPers who speak about binging ( even if it is only 300 calories worth ) and not judge them in any way.
    Thanks all.....
  • ViktoryaC
    ViktoryaC Posts: 124 Member
    3 donuts today. SO much for my willpower and waist.
  • what is a red bean paste bun? Sounds different.........

    Are you from the US?

    Sounds unusual, hopefully, not high in calories? But good luck as well, it happens ,just make goals that you can work towards and remeber, like the one lady said, tormorrow is a new day.........
    Red bean paste bun is a type of Chinese sweets. I ate it all the time when I was a kid. It's my comfort food. I grew up in China and later moved to the U.S. The smell and taste of red bean paste bun remind me so much of my childhood.