Is it that huge a butt

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  • swati37
    swati37 Posts: 145 Member
    If you really want the attention you are after, you should probably post a bikini pic.


    WOW WOW WOW.... i am not looking for attention at all.... Please ... I dont need to fish for it.......
    it just made me sad about myself... so just looking for opinions.....

    and thank u everyone for such upliftment of confidence,.. Needed that today.. Feeling low...
  • Lemongrab1
    Lemongrab1 Posts: 158 Member
    I actually think your butt is small.
    Needs more cowbell.
  • anlu37
    anlu37 Posts: 100 Member
    Maybe he's a "butt guy" and he was giving you a twisted compliment?

    Or Maybe he's a butt guy in the sense that he's just an *kitten*?
  • farmers_daughter
    farmers_daughter Posts: 1,632 Member
    troll! lol
  • mag131
    mag131 Posts: 542 Member
    I came in here to see a big butt. Bitter disappointment. :grumble:
  • LarryDUk
    LarryDUk Posts: 279 Member
    If you really want the attention you are after, you should probably post a bikini pic.


    WOW WOW WOW.... i am not looking for attention at all.... Please ... I dont need to fish for it.......
    i just made me sad about myself... so just looking for opinions.....

    and thank u everyone for such upliftment of confidence,.. Needed that today.. Feeling low...

    Um, but, yeah bikini?
  • twinketta
    twinketta Posts: 2,130 Member
    Unless you can rest a tray on it for him to eat his dinner from then it is not a big butt
  • RuleFive
    RuleFive Posts: 880 Member
    I came in here to see a big butt. Bitter disappointment. :grumble:

    Save us mag131, you are our only hope!
  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member
    If you really want the attention you are after, you should probably post a bikini pic.


    WOW WOW WOW.... i am not looking for attention at all.... Please ... I dont need to fish for it.......
    i just made me sad about myself... so just looking for opinions.....

    and thank u everyone for such upliftment of confidence,.. Needed that today.. Feeling low...

    OP, a few thoughts:

    (1) This is a fitness-centered website, "attention seeking" is what we do. Embrace it. You are allowed to say, "hey, look at me, I'm feeling insecure, please tell me I look okay!!!" Cue squat pics, bikini pics, faceless/shirtless dude pics (wut????), upward glancing selfies, duck face, etc.

    (2) You look fantastic. Truly. There is not a damn thing wrong with your butt, or anything else about you.

    (3) The dude likes you. Really. The only reason guys look at women's butts is to enjoy looking at them. He's looking for a reason. I've never heard a man say to another man "wow, look how bad that butt looks," but I can't tell you how many times I've said and heard the opposite. The next time he says something, ask him why he keeps staring at your butt.
  • OneThrone
    OneThrone Posts: 77 Member
    Honey, I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm sure who ever said that to you knew it would get under your skin and also knew that you're probably self-conscious about that kind of thing. In my family not having a phat butt is a depressing thing and kind of a family joke that if you don't have a butt then you're not related. I love my butt and so do most men. I also get compliments from women. The next time someone says you have a big butt embrace it because many people are paying for that Kim Kardashian look or Beyonce.
  • swati37
    swati37 Posts: 145 Member
    If you really want the attention you are after, you should probably post a bikini pic.


    WOW WOW WOW.... i am not looking for attention at all.... Please ... I dont need to fish for it.......
    i just made me sad about myself... so just looking for opinions.....

    and thank u everyone for such upliftment of confidence,.. Needed that today.. Feeling low...

    OP, a few thoughts:

    (1) This is a fitness-dentered website, "attention seeking" is what we do. Embrace it. You are allowed to say, "hey, look at me, I'm feeling insecure, please tell me I look okay!!!" Cue squat pics, bikini pics, faceless/shirtless dude pics (wut????), upward glancing selfies, duck face, etc.

    (2) You look fantastic. Truly. There is not a damn thing wrong with your butt, or anything else about you.

    (3) The dude likes you. Really. The only reason guys look at women's butts is to enjoy looking at them. He's looking for a reason. I've never heard a man say to another man "wow, look how bad that butt looks," but I can't tell you how many times I've said and heard the opposite. The next time he says something, ask him why he keeps staring at your butt.

    the time i might look for attention i would embrace it... though during our journey we need people to tell us that we are doing great and just keep going.... Probably needed that motivation and when he said negative it made me feel as if my effort is all waste...

    Thank u so much for making me feel so much better about myself...

    hahahah i agree to that,. but likes.. i don't kind off think so... though i wish so... the guy i really wanted to be with but not so lucky....
  • da_bears10089
    da_bears10089 Posts: 1,791 Member


    OP, a few thoughts:

    (1) This is a fitness-dentered website, "attention seeking" is what we do. Embrace it. You are allowed to say, "hey, look at me, I'm feeling insecure, please tell me I look okay!!!" Cue squat pics, bikini pics, faceless/shirtless dude pics (wut????), upward glancing selfies, duck face, etc.

    Beach... who posts faceless/shirtless dude pics? Seriously
  • da_bears10089
    da_bears10089 Posts: 1,791 Member
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  • BeachIron
    BeachIron Posts: 6,490 Member


    OP, a few thoughts:

    (1) This is a fitness-dentered website, "attention seeking" is what we do. Embrace it. You are allowed to say, "hey, look at me, I'm feeling insecure, please tell me I look okay!!!" Cue squat pics, bikini pics, faceless/shirtless dude pics (wut????), upward glancing selfies, duck face, etc.

    Beach... who posts faceless/shirtless dude pics? Seriously

    I have no idea who those sad, sad lonely men even are . . . love them, and pity them. :wink:
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    I'd hit it.
  • It's the opposite of huge, it looks pretty small to me...
  • RuleFive
    RuleFive Posts: 880 Member
    It's the opposite of huge, it looks pretty small to me...

    Can you show us how it is done?
  • mag131
    mag131 Posts: 542 Member
    I came in here to see a big butt. Bitter disappointment. :grumble:

    Save us mag131, you are our only hope!

    I suffer from noassatall. :cry:
  • fervc
    fervc Posts: 19
    Looks good to me
  • RuleFive
    RuleFive Posts: 880 Member
    I came in here to see a big butt. Bitter disappointment. :grumble:

    Save us mag131, you are our only hope!

    I suffer from noassatall. :cry:

    Please.

    We can be the judge of that! :D
  • It's the opposite of huge, it looks pretty small to me...

    Can you show us how it is done?

    Lol I don't fish for compliments unlike OP :wink:
  • No dear, your butt is not big. Let me put it this way: I went through all of middle school thinking I had a HUGE forehead... all because this fugly ***** that bullied me told me practically every day for three years that I had a big forehead... but I had always thought prior that my forehead was normal! It is. Your butt is as normal as it was before that person said anything about it!

    But also think about the context... maybe the person who said it likes your butt... and maybe "big" butts are their thing... then there's what their definiteion of "big" is compared to yours and everyone else's, and the possibility that they may be jealous and wanted to hurt you.

    All that aside, who cares! Its your butt and you ARE happy with it :-)
  • Honey...until your butt gets Kim Kardashian size, it's not big. And honestly, even if it was big, that's awesome! People pay to have a nice shapely rump. Annnnnnd, in some cultures NOT having a big butt is frowned on.
  • Jacqson84
    Jacqson84 Posts: 189 Member
    Nothing wrong with the OP fishing for compliments. Get your rod and fish away, girl!;)
  • LarryDUk
    LarryDUk Posts: 279 Member
    If you really want the attention you are after, you should probably post a bikini pic.


    WOW WOW WOW.... i am not looking for attention at all.... Please ... I dont need to fish for it.......
    i just made me sad about myself... so just looking for opinions.....

    and thank u everyone for such upliftment of confidence,.. Needed that today.. Feeling low...

    OP, a few thoughts:

    (1) This is a fitness-dentered website, "attention seeking" is what we do. Embrace it. You are allowed to say, "hey, look at me, I'm feeling insecure, please tell me I look okay!!!" Cue squat pics, bikini pics, faceless/shirtless dude pics (wut????), upward glancing selfies, duck face, etc.

    (2) You look fantastic. Truly. There is not a damn thing wrong with your butt, or anything else about you.

    (3) The dude likes you. Really. The only reason guys look at women's butts is to enjoy looking at them. He's looking for a reason. I've never heard a man say to another man "wow, look how bad that butt looks," but I can't tell you how many times I've said and heard the opposite. The next time he says something, ask him why he keeps staring at your butt.

    the time i might look for attention i would embrace it... though during our journey we need people to tell us that we are doing great and just keep going.... Probably needed that motivation and when he said negative it made me feel as if my effort is all waste...

    Thank u so much for making me feel so much better about myself...

    hahahah i agree to that,. but likes.. i don't kind off think so... though i wish so... the guy i really wanted to be with but not so lucky....

    AH, now I see. The guy who said it who you are interested in. Gottcha.
  • clp212
    clp212 Posts: 202 Member
    I think your butt looks fine but what happened to not wearing white after Labor Day? Is that stilla rule or am I just old?

    I was told that wearing white after Labor Day was outdated. Wear whatever you want whenever you want.
  • douglasnorton
    douglasnorton Posts: 479 Member
    Your butt looks great!! He is an *kitten* for saying that too you!!
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    for the record, it looks horrible..

    you need to drop down and get your squat on more..
  • swati37
    swati37 Posts: 145 Member
    If you really want the attention you are after, you should probably post a bikini pic.


    WOW WOW WOW.... i am not looking for attention at all.... Please ... I dont need to fish for it.......
    i just made me sad about myself... so just looking for opinions.....

    and thank u everyone for such upliftment of confidence,.. Needed that today.. Feeling low...

    OP, a few thoughts:

    (1) This is a fitness-dentered website, "attention seeking" is what we do. Embrace it. You are allowed to say, "hey, look at me, I'm feeling insecure, please tell me I look okay!!!" Cue squat pics, bikini pics, faceless/shirtless dude pics (wut????), upward glancing selfies, duck face, etc.

    (2) You look fantastic. Truly. There is not a damn thing wrong with your butt, or anything else about you.

    (3) The dude likes you. Really. The only reason guys look at women's butts is to enjoy looking at them. He's looking for a reason. I've never heard a man say to another man "wow, look how bad that butt looks," but I can't tell you how many times I've said and heard the opposite. The next time he says something, ask him why he keeps staring at your butt.

    the time i might look for attention i would embrace it... though during our journey we need people to tell us that we are doing great and just keep going.... Probably needed that motivation and when he said negative it made me feel as if my effort is all waste...

    Thank u so much for making me feel so much better about myself...

    hahahah i agree to that,. but likes.. i don't kind off think so... though i wish so... the guy i really wanted to be with but not so lucky....

    AH, now I see. The guy who said it who you are interested in. Gottcha.

    Yupss.. you got it all perfect... tats why it mattered so much....
  • swati37
    swati37 Posts: 145 Member
    for the record, it looks horrible..

    you need to drop down and get your squat on more..


    ouch..... it hurted....