Is it sexist?

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  • iamanadult
    iamanadult Posts: 709 Member
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    Why does she make you uncomfortable? I don't get it. Unless you mean, she gets the blood flowing.
  • JustYandy
    JustYandy Posts: 221 Member
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    Comfortability isn't a word.
    That is all.

    You get the gist...Thanks teacher~:bigsmile:
  • IronCakes
    IronCakes Posts: 317 Member
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    Why does she make you uncomfortable? I don't get it. Unless you mean, she gets the blood flowing.

    Are you talking about a hard on?
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    I don't think that's any more sexist than women who won't see a male gynecologist. It's what you're comfortable with. But if you don't have a choice ...
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
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    Comfortability isn't a word.
    That is all.
    no one cares.
  • phred_52
    phred_52 Posts: 189 Member
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    Not hardly. As I like to say, "Google it".
  • homerjspartan
    homerjspartan Posts: 1,893 Member
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    Then maybe you should grab those things you call balls and man up!

    Not sure how grabbing his balls will help. That will probably make the female trainer more uncomfortable.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
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    I don't think it's sexist... just a preference. However, if you have no choice, give a woman a try. You might be surprised :)
  • homerjspartan
    homerjspartan Posts: 1,893 Member
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    I don't think it's sexist... just a preference. However, if you have no choice, give a woman a try. You might be surprised :)

    Plus you get a sammich after the workout.
  • Still_Fluffy
    Still_Fluffy Posts: 341 Member
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    I can understand you being uncomfortable with a women trainer. There are lots of websites that help you find trainers in your area and you can request by gender. I have a trainer that I met with once a week and when I went looking I looked for male trainers too.
  • GGDaddy
    GGDaddy Posts: 289 Member
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    Back in the day, a female trainer took me from 185lbs to 215lbs at 14.7% body fat.

    Worth keeping an open mind, and focusing on finding someone who knows what s/he's doing...
  • Inkratlet
    Inkratlet Posts: 613 Member
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    I'm not sure you can compare a personal trainer to someone poking around inside your reproductive organs... but ok.

    Still don't think it's sexist. I wish my physio was female, as the guy I do have is really rough. It's always a bit awkward when my male PT does my body measurements, too.
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
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    It is NOT that I believe she is less than capable. It is a comfortability thing. I'm sure she knows her stuff.

    Some women only want a female gynecologist, not sexist just preference.

    This.
    My city has only 1 female gyno with a population of 50,000. It is impossible to get into her. Your stuck with a male no matter how uncomfortable it makes you.

    That's what she said.
  • LJSmith1989
    LJSmith1989 Posts: 650
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    I'm not sure you can compare a personal trainer to someone poking around inside your reproductive organs... but ok.

    Still don't think it's sexist. I wish my physio was female, as the guy I do have is really rough. It's always a bit awkward when my male PT does my body measurements, too.

    My thoughts aswell haha
  • TheNewDodge
    TheNewDodge Posts: 607 Member
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    Women are allowed to leave the kitchen in your town?
  • 1capybara
    1capybara Posts: 162 Member
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    just sayin' .... comfortability!..... my spellcheck says it is a word, so ......
    btw, dont you have a YMCA in your town, theyre usually cheaper and have few if any trainers unless u want one.
    You just ask the other guys....or girls......how to use a machine, everyone is glad to help :)
    and clientelle varies by time, so if theres too many 18 year olds for you at 4pm, for ex., try some other time,
    you may get most old folks, or w/e, some other time of day
  • majorbaka
    majorbaka Posts: 23 Member
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    Prefer to see a female instructor that "knows her stuff" than a disinterested male who is only interested in next conquest as many are at my gym!

    There is plenty of stuff to be concerned/angry about like "female only" nights although you're paying the same amount for an inferior service t - that really pissed me off!

    Good luck with your training!
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    Sexist? Eh, maybe silly and possibly stupid.

    There are A LOT of situations where I'd prefer to deal with one or the other sex, but if I don't have a choice I don't have a choice. When I had an minor complication 6 months pregnant, I wanted my female gynecologist, but it was after hours, so it was the male ER doctor or wait. I went with the male ER doctor because not being in pain was worth it.

    I guess it depends on how badly you want it. If you don't want it bad enough to work with a female trainer, you'd PROBABLY fail with a male trainer because you aren't invested in the idea of "getting in shape no matter what".
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
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    I wouldn't say it's sexist, maybe just a personal preference? I'm sure she's very capable!
  • fuzzieme
    fuzzieme Posts: 454 Member
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    No way. I always ask for a chick. I don't want to discuss my weight loss goals with a guy. Nothing wrong with sticking to same sex if that's what makes you comfortable

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