Ladies... Birth Control Question...?

emalinemartin
emalinemartin Posts: 131 Member
I have a somewhat personal question for all ladies on here... what do you know about birth control? Less than 2 years ago I was convinced to go on it and was on it for quite a few months. I forget what kind though. I had quite miserable side effects after starting. It could have been worse but they stopped after a while. But I noticed that I would have slight heart / chest pains. And once in a while they would would feel rather sharp and painful. I stopped the BC after a few of those. It's been, around a year now? but I still get them occasionally. Today I have pain in the back of my chest and it won't go away. It's like a very tight uncomfortable feeling.
I haven't talked to a doctor but I am very soon. And before you tell me off about it, yes, I am very aware this was STUPID to not have checked out right away... But any idea what it is or have you went through any of the same?
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  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
    I gained weight from it. Two different ones. Doctor tried to get me yet on a third, I told her to forget it. I'm not doing it again.
    If it happens, it happens. I'm old enough.
    ETA: (Forgot to answer you, oops! Sorry)
    I don't know, it sounds like you need to speak to your doctor and change it :| First time hearing of that, but then again others might know? Did not experience this myself, other than the weight gain that they were meant to "help with".
  • TheGymGypsy
    TheGymGypsy Posts: 1,023 Member
    I take Levora which is the cheapest most generic birth control pill. I haven't had any side effects other then an occasional outbreak if I miss a pill (only happens occasionally, I'm human). I've been taking it for 3 years and have been pretty pleased with it.
  • Artaxia
    Artaxia Posts: 185
    I took Ortho lo, yaz, jouvette or something and also loestrin fe 24. I went completely crazy on all of them. I also gained a lot of weight on them. loestrin alone gave me 50 pounds in about a months worth of time. It came on so fast, i didn't know if I was coming or going. I refuse to take birth control now.

    Funny thing is...I lost all of my weight..only to gain it back and more during pregnancy ;)
  • love2lift_85
    love2lift_85 Posts: 356 Member
    Yikes, that sounds scary! Def talk to your doctor about it.

    There are many, many forms of contraception that do not involve hormones, so you have plenty of options even without pills/shots/patch/vag ring/etc.

    This is what I use: tcoyf.com (it explains everything, I used it for 5 years before choosing to conceive my daughter)

    Or, if you don't have any bad reactions to spermicides, a diaphragm might be a good option for you, too.

    If you're monogamous and don't have to worry about STD possibilities (always be safe!) sheep skin condoms are a more comfortable option to the latex condoms, in my opinion. :-)

    I hope the doc can figure something out for you, and the chest pains go away soon!
  • albertine58
    albertine58 Posts: 267 Member
    I'm in med school, and you absolutely need to talk to a doctor about those chest pains. Soon! please!

    I've been on Yaz for 8 years and I love it. I have no side effects & no problems with it at all. There's the right pill out there for pretty much everyone, and if you have problems with one, just talk to your doctor right away and try another! There's no reason to endure bad side effects- and don't give up and swear off BC forever, unless you've truly exhausted every option with your doctor.

    Trial and error is important - when I first went on BC at age 16, my doctor put me on Ortho TriCyclen Lo and I gained 7 lb in a month. As soon as I told my doctor, she said "welp, let's try a different one!" switched me to Yaz immediately, and it's been perfect since. So just keep trying & you'll find the right one!
  • smaihlee
    smaihlee Posts: 171 Member
    I do encourage you to talk to your doctor. They can very quickly rule out heart problems with simple tests. It could be as simple as something like indigestion, which I have found can be very scary and feels like heart pressure if it's severe enough. I hope that whatever it is, is not a big deal and can be remedied easily :)

    I took BC for 22 years and only stopped twice. Both times resulted in almost immediate pregnancy (lol). I started back after my son was born and never stopped until 2 years ago.

    Leading up to my stopping, I stopped having a period, which my OBGYN said was completely normal. As a 40-year old who had no desire for another child, this was very disconcerting to me as I had spent so many years relying on that (ahem) feedback every month.

    At that point, I was in one of those "why am I so fat" modes where I questioned everything but the excessive food and lack of exercise. I mean, I knew I didn't eat right and should have been exercising, but I just didn't think that I should be THAT overweight. Displeased with the doc's answer, I sought the advice of a reproductive endocrinologist because I convinced myself I had PCOS. Based on what, I have no idea, because I had pretty much none of the symptoms except my period stopped. The doc stopped short at laughing me out of his office but did the bloodwork anyway and then sent me on my way after everything came back normal.

    I was mad and a little depressed and wanted desperately to pin my fatness on something. Plus I was still very uncomfortable with the idea of not having a period. So I stopped taking the pill. I can't say that I was having any "smoking gun" symptoms while on the pill, but I definitely noticed changes when I stopped taking it. First change was a dramatic reduction of night sweats. Second change was that I found I didn't have to get up during the night to pee quite as often. It used to be that I'd get up 2-3 times a night, every night. I don't know why this would be, though a friend rationalized that my uterus was less swollen off the pill, therefore not pressing on my bladder as much. I liked that answer so I ran with it. I can't say for sure, but I think my moods improved once I stopped taking the pill. Like artaxia alluded to her own experience below, I felt kinda "crazy" on the pill but couldn't really pin it down until I stopped taking it. Just much more in control of my moods now.
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    RU 486 in their coffee the next day. No side effects.
  • Cre8veLifeR
    Cre8veLifeR Posts: 1,062 Member
    I don't take BC pills because they made me depressed - ALL of them! I got an IUD and LOVED it. It was more expensive but it was he way to go for me.

    Now I don't have to worry about it because when I started getting baby fever a year ago, hubster went and got snipped lol. Best solution ever.
  • teresamwhite
    teresamwhite Posts: 947 Member
    Are you a smoker? My SIL had similar issues, after taking her pill for 20-something years, when she started smoking again. Once she quit, it took about another 8 months for the chest pains to stop. She had to see her doctor every month to get it all checked.

    Personally, I was horrible about remembering to take my pill, and made the switch to Mirena a little less than five years ago.
  • hannahpistolas
    hannahpistolas Posts: 290 Member
    Definitely talk to your doctor about it.

    The pills made me a little psycho.

    Now I have this implant in my arm that's good for 3 years, and it doesn't bother me so much.
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
    Chest pain was the magic word at my doctors office. The minute you said that you got to talk to a nurse. DO SO ASAP.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Talk to your doctor and tell him or her your concerns.

    What has worked for me as great birth control is getting pregnant. It's been almost 7 months and I havent had a period yet, and all the unprotected sex we want.

    It's been great.
  • FitNurseLex
    FitNurseLex Posts: 66 Member
    I use the NuvaRing and it's the ONLY type of birth control that causes me zero side effects. It doesn't seem to hinder the weight loss, & it allows me to control my periods. I've been taking it on and off for about 4yrs now. It's an all around win for me.

    As far as what you should do...if you are experiencing pain, you DEFINITELY need to consult your physician...especially chest pains. We are all different and medications affect us differently. Birth control can be beneficial for most, but it also has a potential to be harmful. PLEASE get your issue checked out.
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  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    I did awesome with the pull out method for 5 straight years!
  • suziepoo1984
    suziepoo1984 Posts: 915 Member
    I was on BC first year of marriage and did not have any side effects actually, i liked it. It kept my periods in control and on time.
  • IronCakes
    IronCakes Posts: 317 Member
    Pull out or up the butt. Both work great.
  • drinkdeathhatred
    drinkdeathhatred Posts: 18 Member
    I can tell you to never get the arm implant. I was on Implanon for roughly 10 months. Around six months in I started having multiple issues: fatigue, bleeding every other week, constant lightheadedness, loss of sex drive, severe mood swings, among many others. I switched dr's after my current one tried to write it off as depression and the new doctor explained my hormones were severely screwed up and they think the cause was the implant. They removed it and have given me six weeks to see if I can adjust on my own though there are other cases of people needing hormone replacement therapy from being screwed up by the implant. During removal, which was difficult as it had been placed incorrectly, I asked how many people had it removed and was told at least 50% of patients have it removed within the first year due to similar problems and a wider range of issues. I've also seen studies where they found out the implants can cause depression, anxiety, and lead to suicide. Don't get the implant, anyone, ever!

    If you're still having major issues with your current BC method, definitely contact the doctor before you end up with long term effects.
  • The pain you're having sounds like anxiety not a side effect from birth control. Even if it was from your birth control once it left your system the symptoms would have stopped
  • Collier78
    Collier78 Posts: 811 Member
    Paraguard here, the no hormone step sister of Mirena. I can't do hormones, makes me more wonky than normal. It stays in for 10 years and other than a little more cramping than with the pill, it works for me.

    And DEFINITELY get those chest pains checked out...please please please...heart disease kills women too!
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I gained weight from it. Two different ones. Doctor tried to get me yet on a third, I told her to forget it. I'm not doing it again.
    If it happens, it happens. I'm old enough.

    That's a very mature attitude to have about the possibility of bringing a completely helpless human being into the world.
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
    I gained weight from it. Two different ones. Doctor tried to get me yet on a third, I told her to forget it. I'm not doing it again.
    If it happens, it happens. I'm old enough.

    That's a very mature attitude to have about the possibility of bringing a completely helpless human being into the world.
    That's a very mature attitude, to butt into someone else's business where you have absolutely no say :)
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I gained weight from it. Two different ones. Doctor tried to get me yet on a third, I told her to forget it. I'm not doing it again.
    If it happens, it happens. I'm old enough.

    That's a very mature attitude to have about the possibility of bringing a completely helpless human being into the world.
    That's a very mature attitude, to butt into someone else's business where you have absolutely no say :)


    Yeah... posting your medical drama in a public chat room is totally not anyone's business to comment on. How dare you Casey!
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
    I gained weight from it. Two different ones. Doctor tried to get me yet on a third, I told her to forget it. I'm not doing it again.
    If it happens, it happens. I'm old enough.

    That's a very mature attitude to have about the possibility of bringing a completely helpless human being into the world.
    That's a very mature attitude, to butt into someone else's business where you have absolutely no say :)


    Yeah... posting your medical drama in a public chat room is totally not anyone's business to comment on. How dare you Casey!
    Oh, totally. Mhm, specially when I totally asked ;)
  • mkwongh
    mkwongh Posts: 279 Member
    i was on bc for 17 years - the doctor ended up switching the pills for me because of sever cramping. they switched me to a bc pill that made me break out real bad - so bad I ended up having to go on another medication to clear it up .. it was very depressing. Since then i have been scared to try any other bc pill and have been off of it for about 8-9 months. My periods are still very irregular and sometimes got for 2 months with out TOM.

    i would talk to a doctor about your pains..
  • Hangnbang
    Hangnbang Posts: 141 Member
    The pull out method? ... It's worked for me sometimes !
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
    i was on bc for 17 years - the doctor ended up switching the pills for me because of sever cramping. they switched me to a bc pill that made me break out real bad - so bad I ended up having to go on another medication to clear it up .. it was very depressing. Since then i have been scared to try any other bc pill and have been off of it for about 8-9 months. My periods are still very irregular and sometimes got for 2 months with out TOM.

    i would talk to a doctor about your pains..
    Totally don't blame you. Things like that causing skin conditions.. Yeach and ouch D:
    That can totally damage self image.
  • marvybells
    marvybells Posts: 1,984 Member
    i have been on the pill off & on for over 15 years, many different brands & generics. the only one i had a problem with was YAZ. It made my heart race & skip beats and i felt like i was going to pass out. i noticed this after only a few days of taking it. It seemed to get worse with each passing day so I stopped taking it. I called my dr's office so they could phone in a new prescription & switch me back to the one i had been on before. At the time they said what every dr office will tell you when you experience a side effect that is not listed for the drug, that it was all in my head. but once i got back on a different pill i felt fine.
  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
    you can't get pregnant from anal
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    you can't get pregnant from anal

    It's true.