Mexican Restaurant Dinner With My Mom- HELP!!!

So im going out to dinner tonight with my mom...she chose Presidente Mexican Restaurant and I KNOWWWW Mexican food is probably the worst food EVERRRR for a dieter. lol

Any suggestions on foods or tips on how i can make it thru this dinner???!!!
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  • _jayciemarie_
    _jayciemarie_ Posts: 574 Member
    Stay away from the typical chips/salsa that you get before the meal. Salsa is low calorie--but not the chips!!!!! Your best bet is to have Chicken fajitas. I typically will get them and not use the tortillas.
  • JeniferEverx3
    JeniferEverx3 Posts: 219 Member
    My mom often puts me in this same dilemma. I usually do a google search on the restaurant + calories (so type in "presidente mexican restaurant calories" and see if you can find a listing of the menu items with their calorie count and plan what you order ahead of time. Also, if everything is really high in calories and they give you big enough portions, then I split it in half and take the other half home for lunch or dinner the next day :)
  • lynn_glenmont
    lynn_glenmont Posts: 10,097 Member
    Salad without the taco-shell bowl.
    Fish (grilled) tacos. (Or chicken or meat tacos, but those tend to be served with higher calorie toppings than the fish tacos.)
    Stay away from cheese sauces (a little shredded cheese on something isn't going to kill you, but those melted cheese sauces tend to be a lot more than you realize). Ask for no sour cream, or to have it on the side so you can control.
    Or order what you want, but only eat half of it.

    Edited to clarify _grilled_ fish.
  • ShannonMpls
    ShannonMpls Posts: 1,936 Member
    If I want to count calories at a Mexican restaurant, I order chicken fajitas, no tortillas. The meat and veggies are pretty filling and under 400 calories without the tortillas, cheese, sour cream, and other condiments.

    You can also count out 8-10 chips when they arrive and enjoy that as one serving (about 180 calories). Go nuts on the salsa; it's low calorie, though high in sodium (as will be everything you eat there).
  • No problems... I would say a chicken dish would be good- A tortilla shell if you get a chicken burrito is usually about 200 calories.
    Then the chicken is about 150
    Rice- 200
    Skip the sour cream

    Chicken 150
    Shell 200 (1 shell)
    Rice 200 (1 cup)
    _______________________550

    OR..... Better option....Have a chicken salad...with some diced guacamole Mexican restaurants always have that on their menu. If your going to do chips that's okay. Maybe have only 10.....and eats lots of salsa there is hardly any calories in that. I would say plan before you go out what you are going to eat- see how it work in your calories for the day.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    You are not on a diet, right? You're making a lifestyle change. If this is true, have what you want just have it in moderation.

    If you want a burrito, have only half and save the rest for another day. If you want chips and salsa, have a few and not half the basket.

    You can always order a smaller portion.

    Ask if they have nutrition information too. That way you won't have to estimate calories.

    Most important...have fun with mom!
  • UrbanLotus
    UrbanLotus Posts: 1,163 Member
    Fajitas are probably one of the healthiest things - just eat all the filling, limit it to one tortilla, and try to minimize the sour cream. enjoy!
  • qtgonewild
    qtgonewild Posts: 1,930 Member
    take me with you!
  • glassgallm
    glassgallm Posts: 276 Member
    fajitas, esp chicken can be a good choice. Have only 1 tortilla, a pinch of cheese, skip the sour cream and pile on the salsa, a tablespoon of quacamole. Stay away from anything deep fried (yes, the chips!, chimichangas,) and anything smothered in melted cheese.
  • Mexican food isn't all that bad actually.

    Instead of rice or beans for your side, you can ask for steamed vegetables (I know it sounds weird, but they have them).

    Also, if your dish has quacamole, substitute an avacado instead.

    i do eat less than a handful of chips, but I LOAD up on the salsa so I get a lot of flavor without as much deep fried guilt.

    Take a few sips of water between every bite. This will help to curb your appetite when faced with the delicious food.

    Lastly, ask to sub any red or green sauce with salsa instead.

    I also would go for shrimp personally. They are lower in cals than chicken, but high in cholesterol so it's your choice, but fish is usually on most menus too (grilled of course).

    Good luck and have a great time with your mommy!
  • Mr_Knight
    Mr_Knight Posts: 9,532 Member
    Any suggestions on foods or tips on how i can make it thru this dinner???!!!

    Small portions.
  • ShannonMpls
    ShannonMpls Posts: 1,936 Member
    Also, if your dish has quacamole, substitute an avacado instead.

    Why? As much as I love plain avocado, guacamole is tastier and pretty much the same number of calories. More sodium, yes, but if eating Mexican the sodium in guac is merely a drop in the salt bucket....
  • qtgonewild
    qtgonewild Posts: 1,930 Member
    now i want a chimichanga. great. :)
  • mjrkearney
    mjrkearney Posts: 408 Member
    I think butter actually wins for worst. Deep fried, if you're in Iowa.

    Otherwise, you can probably look at the menu online and sort through it all before hand. Just remember that drinks, appetizers, and sides can wipe out any low- calorie intent you might have.
  • kristen49233
    kristen49233 Posts: 385 Member
    My favorite go-to menu item at a Mexican Restaurant is Chicken Soft Tacos (flour shell)...and that allows me to have a few chips/salsa too!

    Now I'm craving it....
  • Thank you all so so much!!!!! all your advice & support is coming with me tonight!! Im definitely going to watch my portions and try to fill up on my water and veggies more than anything else.

    Fried foods in staying away from for sure!!

    thank you everyone for the continued support!!! you guys all rock!!
  • h_jeffrey
    h_jeffrey Posts: 23 Member

    Also, if your dish has quacamole, substitute an avacado instead.

    I'm curious about this advice...what is guacamole, aside from avocado, tomatoes, tomatoes, lime juice, cilantro, garlic, onions...just veggies...maybe some salt and pepper? Certainly the most calorific thing in guacamole is the avocado...
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    This has worked for me and I go out for Mexican a lot:

    Veggie fajitas going light on the sour cream and tortillas
    (of course chicken or beef would work too, I just don't eat those)

    Spinach enchilada with red or verde sauce, beans and rice, then I only eat about 1/3 of my beans/rice

    Single tostada and beans/rice

    Huevos rancheros kids' portion

    I don't really like chips & salsa so I just never touch those in a restaurant.
  • afat12
    afat12 Posts: 178 Member
    I always get a children's meal, veggie enchiladas, or chicken tacos. :) Eat a few chips and salsa but push them away from you after a few!

    Good luck tonight, try to enjoy! Don't stress. If you are really craving something eat half and get a to go box!
  • afat12
    afat12 Posts: 178 Member
    Also, if your dish has quacamole, substitute an avacado instead.

    Why? As much as I love plain avocado, guacamole is tastier and pretty much the same number of calories. More sodium, yes, but if eating Mexican the sodium in guac is merely a drop in the salt bucket....

    Agreed!
  • Cortneyrenee04
    Cortneyrenee04 Posts: 1,117 Member
    I have nothing to add except OMG I have to have Mexican food now.
  • I usually get veggie fajitas with no cheese or sour cream and avocado with a side of black beans over a bed of lettuce.

    I also get nopales and green poblano chile tacos as well and pinto and butternut squash tacos.
  • techgal128
    techgal128 Posts: 719 Member
    I'm going to go a different route on this from everyone else. You don't go to a restaurant to diet, you go to EAT. One day of splurging isn't going to kill you. I still eat Mexican food and Domino's (my guilty pleasure) every week or so and I've lost 27 pounds in 6 months and a dress size (I strength train so my weight loss isn't as much as if I didn't). You will likely gain a few pounds from the salt alone but just continue to eat healthy and exercise a bit more and you will be fine. You have to eat more than 3500 calories than you've burned that day so gaining weight from one meal is pretty much impossible. Enjoy yourself! :)
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    Um yeah.

    First step: margaritas.

    Second step: guac, salsa, & chips.

    Third step: more margaritas.

    Fourth step: Enchiladas or Tacos al Carbon.

    Fifth step: more margaritas.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    Um yeah.

    First step: margaritas.

    Second step: guac, salsa, & chips.

    Third step: more margaritas.

    Fourth step: Enchiladas or Tacos al Carbon.

    Fifth step: more margaritas.

    Sixth step: stumble home with me for some playa en la zapateria y muchos lámparas. :love: :smooched:
  • dare2love81
    dare2love81 Posts: 928 Member
    Um yeah.

    First step: margaritas.

    Second step: guac, salsa, & chips.

    Third step: more margaritas.

    Fourth step: Enchiladas or Tacos al Carbon.

    Fifth step: more margaritas.

    FTW
  • Mmmkay... So; first step is too just "I failed before I began... So... I'm gonna see how many calories I can consume". Then, you get as many alchoholic beverages as you can... You should be plastered and slightly full on chips and salsa before you get the meal... Then you get the biggest meal you can order; finish it all disregard fullness; your eating until failure. Then you have desert... Something like fried Ice cream.

    Just joking (but then again this is my tendency).

    Seriously;

    For one, there are some decent choices like fried cheesecake chimichangas and fried Mexican... dirt, supplemented by low calorie foods and high protein 24 hours prior up to the meal; two, if not, it's not a huge deal to go a bit over your calories or eat "dirty" (in laymen terminology) for a day; your not gonna gain a noticeable amount of fat from one meal unless you go full retard mode (which can only be accomplished at buffets to my knowledge), the water retention is not a big deal, that will burn off in 1-3 days. Just call it a re-feed day, use those carbs to set a PR or 2, move on, no big deal.
  • faradaysdream
    faradaysdream Posts: 91 Member
    I have nothing to add except OMG I have to have Mexican food now.

    Lol, me too!!!
  • born2drum
    born2drum Posts: 731 Member
    NO FOOD IS BAD FOR YOU. I EAT MEXICAN FOOD ALMOST EVERYDAY. MY MOM COOKS AND I EAT. YOU JUST NEED TO NOT EAT THE WHOLE PLATE!

    IIFYM for life!