Your three top weight loss secrets

1. Count everything. Count the grape you tested at the grocery store. Count the lick of your partner's ice cream cone. Count the after dinner mint from the restaurant. Count everything!

2. Exercise everyday. I don't run a marathon everyday, but I do get my heartrate up for at least 30 minutes, everyday.

3. Get lots of sleep. If I'm tired, I'm much more likely to binge eat. I'm also less likely to exercise. I don't care if it's 8pm or 2 am, I go to bed when I'm tired.

1. Believe in yourself. You have the power to change things. You are in control.

2. Get as much joy into your life from sources other than food. Find things that make you happy and do them as often as you can.

3. Try to eat for physical rather than mental needs. Try not to eat because you are bored or unhappy or to fill a void or distract yourself. Eat for nutrition, heath and energy and try to follow a healthy diet.

1. Enjoy your exercise - Just because you're doing something doesn't mean you can't enjoy it. Rope in friends and family or make a new friend that enjoys the same things you do. If you enjoy something you are more likely to keep it up!

2. Everything in moderation - A sneaky chocolate here and there isn't going to make you gain weight over night, but eating the whole box will. A little treat as a reward per day makes you feel like you accomplished something.

3. Treat yourself to a restaurant meal every month, as long as you can log it - My friends like to go out for meals and I like to join them for curries, nando's, pub lunches, whatever but I've made a point of exercising on that day to earn the extra calories to accomodate those meals. By the time I sit down to eat with friends I have earnt my treat meal and enjoy it all the more.

1, plenty of water
2, differant food, try and keep thing interesting so you dont get bored with the same stuff
3, self belief.. if you believe you can do it then you will... if you have dont then you will proberly fail

1. As nike put it best, "just do it". If you are like me, excersise is not your favorite thing to do, but you feel great after. Just get it over with and you will feel good.
2. If you are not hungry do not eat..your body will tell you when it is hungry.
3. Always have a cheat day to look forward to. I usually do mine every two weeks. Do not go overboard and eat everything in site though. Limit it to a cheat meal.

1. Enjoy weekends - its one thing being good all week, its another depriving yourself from enjoying food with freinds and family, but just have some control and dont go overboard otherwise it will leave you feeling crappy.

2. exercise 4-5 times a week for at least 30mins

3. weigh yourself once a week - it might not move but your clothes may be looser!!!

1) This is a lifestyle change not a quick weight loss so make sure the changes you make are ones you can live with. Little changes go a long way.

2) Sign up for a 5k (or another activity). I am a very competitive person and always want to finish better then the last time so this makes me train harder and keeps me exercising.

3) Find a work out buddy, hire a personal trainer, go to a fun class. Make exercising a social event this will keep it interesting and you won't feel like you are missing out on that happy hour since you are working out with a friend(s). It also makes you accountable to someone else.

I no longer bake unless I am sharing it with a large group of people and I can leave the leftovers there.

Lots and lots of water. If I feel hungry I drink a large glass of water first. Than decide if I need food.

Processed sugar is the enemy :laugh: I am a sugar addict, once I start I can't stop. (so I have to try hard not to start.)

Only three? There are so many
I've lost fifty pounds, maintained it for three years, and now decided to lose that last annoying 15.

What *really* worked for me was finding a sport I loved. Cycling. It was my 'me' time, and represented freedom (I am now completely car free!). Once I did that, I picked a goal. A century ride (100 miles in one day). And I trained. I stopped thinking of it as a diet, and started thinking of myself as an athlete, and I ate accordingly. Choosing your food because it is fuel, and not penalizing yourself as you need that fuel makes your relationship with food change completely. And athletes accept their bodies. The first triathlon I went to was an eye-opener. After years of feeling embarrassed in shorts, I see the women who can do something I never could came in all shapes and sizes, and were unapologetic of their imperfect (by Hollywood standards) body. Sexy, I realized, is not how your body looks--but what it can do.

So I guess my tips are this:

Whatever physical thing you like doing, think of it as a sport. And think of yourself as an athlete. If you dance, enroll for a dance-a-thon. If you Wii, start a fitness challenge. If you bike, make your goal a bike tour of someplace you've always wanted to visit. If you run, train for a distance race that may seem beyond reach. You are now in training. You now have a goal, a reward.

You are NOT on a diet. How many diets failed you? That just sets you up for another failure, because a diet is a temporary thing. Those old diets, by the way, aren't diets anymore. They were lessons. You learned what didn't work for you. You may have picked up some good habits. You may even know what did work for you, for a while. You are changing not just your looks, but your health, and your life, and that should not be a temporary thing described by a word representing temporary change.

Permanent change occurs slowly. It took you a while to put the weight on. It will take you a while to take it off. Changing your habits is a long process. So is changing your thinking. Both of these things HAVE to change. And you can do this with patience and perseverance. Start loving yourself as you are: the body you are in is a shell, and malleable. Your soul shines through, and is beautiful.

Here are my top three: They're all tied together, I think. I believe that this is 90% mental, so these are all tied to that.

1. Persistence. You will have bad weeks, bad meals, bad weigh-ins, bad hair days...you will screw up. Learn from your screw-ups and keep going. When you do slip up, do not wait until Monday, or after new years, or whenever to "get back on track". Recover immediately.

2. Find out why you turn to food. I believe that everyone who is overweight (unless they have a medical condition) got that way because they were using food for something that food is not: companionship, social tool, entertainment, a drug, etc...I truly believe that unless you find out the root cause of why you're overweight, it's never going to stick.

3. Taking control of your own body. You are the only one who can do your workout. You are the only one who controls what travels on your fork. You are the only one who can motivate yourself. Stop making excuses, stop blaming other people, or your job, or your surroundings, etc. . . start taking control and keep moving forward.

:happy: Ditto on these 3....form habits, dig deep and find out what you are really hungry for and know that you are in charge of what goes in your mouth!

:flowerforyou: Thanks for sharing your tips...I have learned alot!

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Such great advice, how do you pick three? Uhh, lets see,

1. Don't procrastinate on the exercise--do it today, and tomorrow, and the next day.

2. Portion control. However healthy your diet, if you eat too much, you will gain weight.

3. Try on your smaller clothes once in a while and admire your leaner body. (And treat yourself to a a new article of clothing once in a while.)

I'm in this for the long term, for my health and longevity. The rest of my life is *right now*, so no procrastinating.

Oh, and #4 is, ..., limit alcohol to a reasonable minimum--not only will you save calories, but you will give your liver a break.

Well I'm just starting out...Been trying to lose weight for two years....and failed every year. But I'm so ready to do it this time! My tips are...

1. Rewards: Reward your self for every 10 lbs or so you lose...It cans be money, clothes, workout things, etc.

2. Remind youself you didn't gain all the weight over night and it aint gonna go away over night

3. Don't nibble while cooking! You don't need to taste everything you cook before it makes it to the table!

I'm of the school of thought that there's not "secret" to losing weight. It's as simple as keeping a negative balance of input vs output. Knowing that, the 3 things that I've REALLY had to focus on to keep me going are listed below.

1. Screw the scale. Stay away from it and quit focusing on that stupid number. Set PHYSICAL goals instead of NUMERIC goals. (i.e. I'm going to walk 100 miles this month, I'm going to complete the C25K, I'm going to do the 100 push-up challenge) and then DO IT. If you fail you haven't lost because you're still farther than you were when you started.

2. Pay attention to what you put in your face. You're in control of the fork. Our bodies weren't meant to deal with all the processed crap we fill them with so try to avoid them. Try eating whole and clean foods as much as possible but DON'T DEPRIVE YOURSELF! If you deprive yourself it's a losing battle. If you slip up with the food don't let it blow your whole day just pick yourself up by your bootstraps and make the necessary adjustments.

3. Do it. Want it, Need it, Own it. Someone else said that overweight people are overweight because we did it to ourselves (barring medical conditions) and it's absolutely true. You're the only only one that can change it and you have to want to. You need to own the fact that you gained weight of your own accord and the only way it's coming off is by setting the fork down and moving more. There's no "magic cure" there's no special formula that's going to solve this over night except desire and motivation.

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