Military Guy needing support

Greetings everyone,

I"m in need of a bit of support. I've been in the military for over 18 yrs, and now I"m at risk of losing everything because I let myself go. I'm current'y 45 lbs overweight, and 2% over my allowable body fat. Only about a year ago, I was within 10 lbs of meeting my goal, then stopped.

I"m looking for people that have ideas on losing weight on a small budget and have had to deal with fluid shift schedules (days/swings/mids). I just feel I'm going to have a difficult time with this since I'm actually on my own with excersise, and have difficulty sorting through all the "fad" stuff. I could really use some outside motivation.
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  • Starting today as well. Hope you had a Happy Veterans Day. My husband is a vet- Army in Vietnam 1970-71
    Good luck to us :)
  • TattooedNici
    TattooedNici Posts: 2,141 Member
    Hello! Have you considered the clean eating diet?
  • YouHadMyCuriosity
    YouHadMyCuriosity Posts: 218 Member
    My husband is in the military, and he is very simple in the way he stays in shape. He lifts heavy, runs or swims FAST once in a while, and generally eats fairly healthy, lots of protein and produce. He does like Crossfit workouts, but that is more of a "fad" as applies to your posts.

    Since you seem to be looking for a solution that has a more simple basis, here is just one suggestion. For one normal week, log what you eat, how much you eat (so, calories). Log how much you exercise, and what you do. Take a critical look at what you see at the end of the week. If you can just lessen your food intake by 10%, and increase your exercise by 10%, you are looking at small steps that can add up greatly over time.

    If you are willing to get a little more technical, look into BMR and TDEE.
  • JaxDemon
    JaxDemon Posts: 403 Member
    For me personally my best results weight loss wise as been on a strict keto diet (Dave Palumbo Keto diet) also teached me more about foods in doing so and how to separate hunger from thirst. Bit of a cookie cutter diet mind but at end of the day gotta do what works for you. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.
  • dutchk
    dutchk Posts: 121 Member
    I've been there. I hovered around my 209 lb limit every year for the 20 I was in. Sometimes I was able to get down in time for the semiannual weigh-in, sometimes not. After I retired I stopped having to run the PFT twice a year and my weight escalated even more...up to at least 286 (stopped looking at the scale then). I finally got my s**t together and started walking, then run/walking. Put goals in front of me. First it was a 5K with the wife, then a mud run. A few more mud runs followed and I stayed consistent with the run/walking. I dropped over a 100 lbs, now weigh in at about 183 and am running the Philly marathon this weekend! Keeping up with MFP is what really helped for me. Coming from the military, accountability is big with me.

    Send me a FR if you like. I'll be happy to help you out!
  • You would want to figure out how many calories your body needs to maintain your healthy weight. Just do a web search for figuring out your calories for your height, age, bone size, sex and goal weight. Eat that and track your calories, meaning every bite you eat.

    Eliminate binge foods if you can't stop binging on them and walk every day unless you are sick. I would suggest strength training too. You can do all of this at home on your own time schedule. Don't read diet books, do fad diets, etc. It's a complete waste of your time. You will probably lose at least 10-15 pounds your first month. Don't panic, you aren't going to lose everything. Well, except your weight!

    Good luck, you may want to get a support team going on here too.
  • breezyleaf
    breezyleaf Posts: 34 Member
    Thanks for your service! I am a military brat and my dad currently works swings night/days all that jazz. He just completed his first Ironman that he trained with his crazy schedule. One thing he does is that he goes to work out when he gets off, even at 5am. He will go swim, run, or ride the bike. One benefit is the free gyms on base. Do you live on a military base with a 24 hour gym? As far as his food goes, he packs healthy food to snack on and one meal. He eats a lot of fruits and veggies (expensive) but you can buy cheaper in season fruit (oranges, apples, etc) and try frozen vegetables (bag of broccoli $2 at the commissary.) Another thing you can do would be to go see the nutritionist at the base clinic, they can give you a lot of tips.

    He trains even when he doesn't feel like it! That is the hardest part, you have worked so hard for the past 18 years and you don't want to let it go now. A quote that I live by is "Suffer now and life the rest of your life like a champion. -Ali"

    You can do it!! DON'T GIVE UP!!!

    ~Bre :D
  • leebesstoad
    leebesstoad Posts: 1,186 Member
    The one suggestion was the corect one: you need to be logging EVERYTHING you eat, and all your exercise. That will give you a good idea of where yuo are and where to go. No cheating, no forgetting to log something. And it's free. As far as exercise, do whatever you can. It's good you know not to try the fad diets. They are just that: fads.

    Have you tried to calculate what your calorie needs are? Your BMR (basal metabolic rate) and TDEE (total daily expenditure of energy) should help you figure out how much you need to eat and then you can reduce from their. There are quite a few good calculators out there, and give similar results: Scoobysworkshop, fitnessfrog, iifym.org, fat2fitradio.com.

    But once you figure out how much you need to eat, and actually log what you have eaten, say for a week or so, come back and ask for people to review it and make suggestions. You can do it, even on a limited budget and on a swing shifts. It takes commiment and will power but I bet you have that in reserve and just need to tap into it.

    And thank you for your service.
  • BlackStarlight
    BlackStarlight Posts: 554 Member
    Welcome and good luck!
    Thank you for your service.
    I know what its like to work shifts I was a nurse and its a killer. But this works for me. The best thing I can say is to log EVERYTHING. It lets you know where you are and how many calories you have left for the day. Log all your food and all your exercise. It might be tempting to cheat but seriously don't. Once you work out how much your eating and exercising on a regular basis it will get easier.
    I wish you all the best on your journey. Feel free to add me as a friend if you want too.
    We can always try and motivate each other x
  • Fuzzipeg
    Fuzzipeg Posts: 2,301 Member
    Just to follow on from Dancingdarl.. I would suggest you keep your meals simple, plenty of root veg and for protein you can add pulses. These are also called legumes, peas beans, chick peas, the dried packets are cheaper to buy but need to be soaked for while before use. A good meal I have been told is a jacket potato and baked beans.

    Also walk and keep walking but I am sure you are used to that. Just get out and about. My brother in law never walked but now has a keen interest in wild life round a lake near his home. He has no idea how much weight he has lost but I estimate he is down three sizes in his trousers. He is loathed to buy more, expense....

    All the very best in getting back on track.
  • GiveMeCoffee
    GiveMeCoffee Posts: 3,556 Member
    Welcome to MFP and Thank you for your service!

    Log everything you eat and drink. This will give you a lot of insight into what you are consuming and from there you can find ways to make some small changes to your diet. Get a food scale this will help with portion sizes and help you to track more accurately what you are consuming. Once you learn portion control, it will help you to be able to eat what you want but in moderation.

    Calories in vs. Calories out. You don't need fad diets.

    You can do this! Good luck to you!
  • teresamwhite
    teresamwhite Posts: 947 Member
    Hi...I work at a military hospital, in the Nutrition Care Division...Have you considered seeing a dietician? A lot of our patients are those either pushing the weight limit or have gone over. They will put you on a nutrition plan that is very easy to follow, either in the DFAC or things you can easily find in the commissary.
  • airdale8263
    airdale8263 Posts: 2,155 Member
    Hi...I work at a military hospital, in the Nutrition Care Division...Have you considered seeing a dietician? A lot of our patients are those either pushing the weight limit or have gone over. They will put you on a nutrition plan that is very easy to follow, either in the DFAC or things you can easily find in the commissary.

    ^^agree. Most bases have a program to assist those who are overweight to get back in standards. See the nutritionist/dietician.
    Account for the food you eat, exercise. Stay committed. MFP can assist but you have to be the one that does it.
  • swanny320
    swanny320 Posts: 169 Member
    Clean eating....eliminate all junk. You don't have to go crazy...just start with the no brainers (no fast food, no Doritos, no soda, etc.) and then as your body gets used to healthy food, continue to eliminate bad stuff. Also, exercise at least 30 minutes a day. You can do it! :)
  • clambert1273
    clambert1273 Posts: 840 Member
    Prior Army here *waving* :)


    For you, since I know how the miitary is - use the facilities on base - free gyms can't beat it!! Lift Heavy 3x a week (on top of normal PT training) and track what you eat here... you might be surprised :)

    I gained 50lbs quickly after getting out (massive thyroid issues) and had no idea why. After 13 years, they got it in check (somewhat) so I started just eating (logging/weighing food) and weight lifting. I just started lifting this week - I let the food thing do its thing for a few weeks first (lost 7.5lbs doing that).

    You can do this... take your mind back to boot camp ;)
  • mamadon
    mamadon Posts: 1,422 Member
    You are going to get a lot of different advice on here. Low carb, clean eating etc and it gets confusing. Just find out your tdee, (google tdee calculator) this will tell you how many calories to eat every day with a calorie deficit. Get some exercise, stay within your calorie limit, log honestly and you will do great. Simple.
  • Here is a site with loads of workouts for at home, here in Switzerland gym membership costs an arm and a leg (would be some lost weight lol ) so I prefer to workout at home http://hasfit.com/
  • You're in the right place for support. The best advice I can give you is to log everything and be honest about it. It can be a real eye opener. Remember that you have to burn more than you consume to lose. Also, hit the weights. Cardio is not enough. Thank you for your service!
  • tigersword
    tigersword Posts: 8,059 Member
    Count calories, track everything, stick to your deficit. That's all there is to it. No special diets, no specific foods (or eliminating foods,) no specific workout routines needed.

    Obviously exercise can help with your fitness, so definitely hit the gym, but remember, losing weight is all about how much you eat. It really is that simple.
  • ammadove
    ammadove Posts: 97 Member
    Someone suggested drinking 2 8 oz. glasses of cold water 20 minutes before each meal. I have tried this and found it to be helpful.
    Good luck on your weight loss and thank you so much for your military service.
  • jillianbeeee
    jillianbeeee Posts: 345 Member
    Thank you for your service! I too lost weight on a small budget lol. The food logging here is excellent and I love the way it helps you track. Setting up calorie goals and letting us add our cardio workouts. Lots of military people on here as well! you came to the right place! Good luck in your journey! You have a few things going for you. You are committed, have integrity, have done this before, and have the whole air force behind you! You can do this! Log, learn everything you can about healthy eating, give up that junk food, lift weights and get back to your pt routines! Dont forget your daily vitamins and pushing your daily protein intake up! :) Oh ya, and add more water to your routine! I bet you that you have a cup of coffee in your hands a lot, (if your air force you'll get this) start carrying around a water bottle with your coffee cup! LOL
  • sheltony
    sheltony Posts: 73 Member
    Being in the military, you hopefully have access to the base rec center/gym. Most bases have some form of it. Try going there when your schedule allows before or after work. You'll start to feel better almost immediately and can then make real strides in your food consumption because your head will be in a better place. Sometimes, the beginning is the hardest part. I had to take on the Nike logo and "just do it". Been "just doing it" since May and it's starting to stick. Plus, I've lost a little over 20 pounds. Biggest thing for me was getting my head in the game. Exercise really helped.
  • mshoneysmile7
    mshoneysmile7 Posts: 80 Member
    I am a military wife and have recently started again with my healthy living plan. The best advice that I can give is LOG EVERYTHING. I forget sometimes, but don't avoid logging when you feel ashamed of what you've eaten. Logging helps you to see just how many calories you're taking in. If you eat a bad meal, try to burn it off so balance calories in and calories out. I am working on it too, so if you don't mind, I will add you.
  • patrickfish7
    patrickfish7 Posts: 190 Member
    - Eat high protein, but don't ignore the importance of fats and carbs. They are as important as protein;
    - Lift heavy, compound exercises like deadlifts, benchpress or even simple bodyweight exercises like squats, pressups and pullups;
    - Triathlon approach - Swim, cycle and run, each on one day of the week for 30 mins;
    - Rest. Too much exercise has a negative effect, leaving you tired (amongst other things).

    The BIGGEST thing with losing weight is there is no rocket-science here. Calories out > Calories in. Period. I burn 1000 calories a day from exercise and total requirement for maintenance is around 1900 so I eat 2500 to 3000 calories a day and still lose.
  • GoMizzou99
    GoMizzou99 Posts: 512 Member
    Hello! Have you considered the clean eating diet?
    I just feel I'm going to have a difficult time with this since I'm actually on my own with excersise, and have difficulty sorting through all the "fad" stuff.

    This would be the fad stuff...
    Calories in vs calories out that is all :smile:

    Exactly - simple math - calories in vs. out

    I lost 75 pounds and kept it off for 2 years. An injury hobbled me this summer (cracked some ribs) and I gained some weight and got soft again. I lost 3 pounds in the last week, even while drinking liquor (counting calories). Add me if you want.
  • angie007az
    angie007az Posts: 406 Member
    Check out the 5:2 plan. It sure works for me. Your weight is 85% what you are eating. Good luck!!
  • Best of Luck to you & a thank you for your husbands service. :flowerforyou:
  • redladywitch
    redladywitch Posts: 799 Member
    Hang in there!
  • First, thank you for your service.
    Second, how about a pedometer? You can get fairly cheap ones on amazon, if not then use an app on your phone. I also have "unstructured" days but at night if I find I haven't walked at least 10,000 steps in a day I will walk around my bedroom, or even hotel room like a crazy person until I reach the 10,000. That's easy. Americans average about 4,000 steps a day so you're doubling your numbers.

    Good luck!
  • D_Dub
    D_Dub Posts: 11 Member
    I have the highest respect for our Active Duty men and women. This is the Land of the Free BECAUSE of the Brave! My dad was an Air Force Lifer. I grew up in the military. Thank you for your service.

    First: forget all hype and rhetoric. Losing weight is the cheapest thing to do. It is all calories out vs calories in. You don't have buy equipment or supplements to lose weight. Find the healthy foods you like (you know what they are) limit the bad stuff to one day a week. Count your calories; be in a calorie deficit. The lower your calories the faster you lose weight. I am 6'4'' and I stay between 1000-1200 calories a day. Guys should neve bo below 800 calories a day.

    Second: Workouts are important for staying healthy. But unless you are training on the level of Michael Phelps they don't have that much to do with weight loss. I power lift for strength and walk/swim for cardio. I don't factor them in for my weight loss. You don't need any other equipment than what you find in your installation's gym. The bench press, back squat and deadlift are the best and most basic moves with weights.