What are you self-conscious about?

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  • Skinnydesirs
    Skinnydesirs Posts: 128
    my thighs, butt and hips, love handles, nose, legs, cankles, wide feet, funny-shaped belly button, the fat on my ribs/just under my boobs- it is disgusting, i wish i could chop it off... :sad:
  • alyssa_foels
    alyssa_foels Posts: 1
    Everything, to be honest.
  • emtbabe326
    emtbabe326 Posts: 152
    my hair...and my stomach..still a little left to go
  • Anika15
    Anika15 Posts: 3
    My arms and tummy.
  • velvet4899
    velvet4899 Posts: 16 Member
    Belly & neck.
  • JessicaCordial12
    JessicaCordial12 Posts: 1 Member
    My stomach! Weight/belly fat, and my stretch marks are sooo bad from having my kids'. I was so paranoid of getting stretch marks when I was pregnant and used belly butter and everything under the sun daily but in the end nothing had worked. Then again, I have really dry skin and the natural elasticity of my skin may have had a lot to do with it. Tried preventing more my next pregnancy and thought they couldn't get worse, but they did. It's depressing, and I hate being paranoid making sure my stomach NEVER shows especially around my fiancè..yes, I'm that self conscious. Even when I lose weight, I feel like they just show up more and wrinkle up more the more weight I lose. It's humiliating, and I have never showed "anyone" my stomach since. Not even my fiancè, which is sad and may seem unfair but I can't help it. Even if I lost plenty of weight and felt more confident and comfortable with a shirt on, I know I'll never be able to feel that way with it off because of my stretch marks. I'm more self conscious about my stomach/stretch marks than anything..
  • Emilie04444
    Emilie04444 Posts: 151 Member
    Thighs and lower belly

    This..except I would add the word thunder to my thighs, lol
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    I wouldn't trade me three amazing boys for the world...but the things I am most self-conscious about are the loose skin on my abdomen and the spider veins on my legs that my pregnancies left behind.

    I also dislike my nose, and secretly hope for some nose-wounding accident that would give me an excuse to get it "fixed"
  • princess_tallulah
    princess_tallulah Posts: 9 Member
    i hate my FUPA. (fat upper p*ssy area) i just want it to go away. its very unsightly.

    I thought it was just me! Haha.

    I'm all about the stomach. I honestly think I could be mistaken for pregnant if I didn't dress carefully.

    I also dislike my upper arms, shoulders and back right now. I've never had back fat before. BACK FAT, BEGONE!
  • yanglovesmj
    yanglovesmj Posts: 28 Member
    belly, i want it to be FLAT. and i want thinner thighs and arms. smaller face too my cheeks are kinda chubby. hoping that another 8 pounds off me will change all of that
  • mortuseon
    mortuseon Posts: 579 Member
    ...everything *hides*
  • juleszephyr
    juleszephyr Posts: 442 Member
    I absolutely hate my arms, I had really large arms and now despite, weights, strength and all the creams going I have loads of loose skin and awful 'bingo wings'...

    Apart from that I can live with everything else!!!
  • PinkGlitterSam
    PinkGlitterSam Posts: 10
    My stomach and chin!
  • FTSTL
    FTSTL Posts: 260 Member
    My charm, good looks and humility.
  • Beckabirdy
    Beckabirdy Posts: 3
    I hate my thick ankles and knees , and that lil fatty bit above my knees - im working my but of so hopefully this will go soon but cant help genetics of being a bit bigger boned...Im a size 8 in most pants but sometimes my thighs are too big!! grr.... oh and 2 kids later i got a bit of a belly but its getting better since heaps of crunches and 8 weeks at Pole Gym has been changing my shape ..
  • optineo
    optineo Posts: 4
    my everything :/
  • LilAilsa
    LilAilsa Posts: 36
    Hips, stomach and arms
  • Mangopickle
    Mangopickle Posts: 1,509 Member
    Loved your comment, really spoke to me. That really is the best reason because it encompasses everything I want for my life.
  • kenthepainter
    kenthepainter Posts: 195 Member
    midsection and face
  • katieme
    katieme Posts: 59 Member
    i hate my FUPA. (fat upper p*ssy area) i just want it to go away. its very unsightly.

    Ha ha this!!!!
  • katieme
    katieme Posts: 59 Member
    double chin!
  • lehalk
    lehalk Posts: 4
    back fat!
  • abtoad112
    abtoad112 Posts: 1
    moobs bro
  • shaydenee
    shaydenee Posts: 17
    tummy and arms the most
  • latewinter
    latewinter Posts: 90
    im most self concious about my stomach and arms. but i love my boobs :) lol
  • inkedmama123
    inkedmama123 Posts: 11
    i hate my FUPA. (fat upper p*ssy area) i just want it to go away. its very unsightly.

    I used to be soooooo self-conscious about that, so when I would have sex with my boyfriend i would wear a long shirt, lol. But he told me how much he likes it and always complimented it, saying it's "Juicy" , lol. So I began loving it too. & seriously now, I LOVE IT. A lot of guys like fat kitty cats, lmfao. And since i'm 1/2 gay, lol.. I realize i looove them too. bol.
  • inkedmama123
    inkedmama123 Posts: 11
    Everybody here is self-conscious about SOMETHING and some are about EVERYTHING. But as I'm scrolling through and looking at your pictures and reading your insecurities, I see beauty. I don't see all of those "flaws" you think you see. So some that said "stomach" may be overweight but A LOT of other people are as well and that's why MOST of us are here. You guys would probably look at me and think "oh she's pretty" and i would do the same to you. I'd probably say "oh i'm too fat. i'm obese." and you guys might say "you're still beautiful anyway." because I mean that's how i feel about you guys.. we don't see what others see and we think they see the worst and most of the time? They look at the brighter sides of things.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Everyone tells me I am crazy for thinking this, but I feel like I have man shoulders.
  • Arabian45
    Arabian45 Posts: 15
    Everybody here is self-conscious about SOMETHING and some are about EVERYTHING. But as I'm scrolling through and looking at your pictures and reading your insecurities, I see beauty. I don't see all of those "flaws" you think you see. So some that said "stomach" may be overweight but A LOT of other people are as well and that's why MOST of us are here. You guys would probably look at me and think "oh she's pretty" and i would do the same to you. I'd probably say "oh i'm too fat. i'm obese." and you guys might say "you're still beautiful anyway." because I mean that's how i feel about you guys.. we don't see what others see and we think they see the worst and most of the time? They look at the brighter sides of things.

    Right on. Great words of inspiration and perception! I think ALL women are beautiful in their own way, and it's what's on the inside that counts.
  • MysteriousMerlin
    MysteriousMerlin Posts: 2,270 Member
    Nothing. I'm too old to worry about what others think of my appearance. I have a loving husband who thinks I'm beautiful, and friends who like me for who I am, no matter what I weigh or how my body looks.

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