Feeling Upset When Not Able to Workout

I need some support here. My BF doesn't really understand where I'm coming from and he is no help. I had a horrible bout of stomach flu on Friday night through the weekend. I still feel very sick and not well. I did not work out Saturday like normal and only did Yoga today and even that made me ache. The problem I have is that I feel horrible, like verging on panicky, that I haven't worked out six days a week. I have been trying to make sure to work out six days a week and have been doing it no fail since August. I am sure that when I start feeling better I will go back to working out on my schedule but I am upset about it now. I don't know how to work on the psychological side of this healthy lifestyle. I mean in one part of my brain I understand that one missed workout isn't going to make me fat but another part of my brain begins to panic. I understand it's a lifestyle change but I'm wondering how I can drag my mind along for the ride. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

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  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    A - you don't have to work out six days per week. Your exercise regimen should be something that is sustainable...6-7 days per week is not sustainable all of the time. You should have fitness goals that are independent of burning calories or whatever and understand that you can use your diet for weight control...you exercise for fitness.

    B - You are sick...you need to get better...you're not going to get better by pushing your body too hard, in fact, you just harm yourself further by not allowing your body to rest and recover.

    C - Your health and fitness is about what you're doing most of the time...not about missing a workout here or there...think big picture...missing a couple workouts means jack **** in the big picture. People talk a good talk about lifestyle but they seem to live it like it's a daystyle or weekstyle and completely ignore the bigger picture.
  • littleburgy
    littleburgy Posts: 570 Member
    6 days a week without stop since August is quite remarkable! Wolfman is right, your body needs rest.

    I think sometimes we get SO into the swing of things, it just feels weird when that routine is interrupted. But if you are making this a lifestyle, you will discover over time that life interruptions generally aren't avoidable, but as long as the underlying commitment is there, they aren't really a hindrance, just an annoyance.
  • Pheboh
    Pheboh Posts: 88 Member
    I think you've made AMAZING progress, but maybe you're getting addicted to it?

    You have to find a balance. As we're all trying to make ourselves work out more, why don't you challenge yourself to take a weekend off? You don't want to develop bad habits where you go into overdrive and make some silly decisions.

    I hope you find peace with it though. Your dedication is truly remarkable, but you can take a day off!
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    Even when you're NOT sick, a very necessary part of working out is R-E-S-T. When you rest, your body rebuilds muscle. And you're still burning fat too. If you work out while you're sick, or before you've recovered fully, not only will you interfere with your health recovery, but you'll also run a higher risk of injury due to fatigue. And the last thing you want to do is injure yourself and end up having to take weeks or months off. Rest. The gym will still be there when you're recovered.
  • pinkraynedropjacki
    pinkraynedropjacki Posts: 3,027 Member
    I know how you feel, I've worked out 685 days in a row so far & if I even think I'm going to miss one I panic. BUT you have been unwell, rest till you feel you can do something. Till then just make sure you still log calories & you will be fine :flowerforyou:
  • nedtoloseme
    nedtoloseme Posts: 98 Member
    I work out 6 days a week (normally) also. I love working out but, as others have said, remember life happens. Why do you think you need to work out when your body is in a weakened state? I'm assuming you're not eating that much so take this time & let your body heal. Take time to catch up on some movies or books. You'll be back on track in no time. Take care of yourself!
  • uconnwinsnc
    uconnwinsnc Posts: 1,054 Member
    Take a bread and rest. A few days off does wonders in the long run. When you are sick, especially, you need to take some time off. You cannot work out efficiently if your body is fighting an illness.
  • Sreneesa
    Sreneesa Posts: 1,170 Member
    A - you don't have to work out six days per week. Your exercise regimen should be something that is sustainable...6-7 days per week is not sustainable all of the time. You should have fitness goals that are independent of burning calories or whatever and understand that you can use your diet for weight control...you exercise for fitness.

    B - You are sick...you need to get better...you're not going to get better by pushing your body too hard, in fact, you just harm yourself further by not allowing your body to rest and recover.

    C - Your health and fitness is about what you're doing most of the time...not about missing a workout here or there...think big picture...missing a couple workouts means jack **** in the big picture. People talk a good talk about lifestyle but they seem to live it like it's a daystyle or weekstyle and completely ignore the bigger picture.

    Great answer and on point.
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    a healthy lifestyle is like a table. it has four legs: diet, cardio, strength training, cardio, and rest. they have to be in balance for a good healthy lifestyle.

    when people don't rest enough, i feel that they are cruising on borrowed time, and that they will eventually get sick or injured.
  • kgeyser
    kgeyser Posts: 22,505 Member
    I think everyone else has already covered how missing a week to recover from illness is not going to totally derail your efforts or progress as far as exercising. The one point that stood out to me in your post was the psychological aspect of missing workouts, and how you know logically that it's ok but part of your mind is still panicking. Have you talked to a doctor or counselor about this? It's normal to be frustrated or disappointed when you schedule gets thrown off due to illness, injury, or just life in general, but it shouldn't throw you to the point where you're worrying (whether you mean to or not) that a missed workout is going to completely destroy your efforts. You seem very dedicated to making this change in your life, but it sounds like something might be going on as someone else mentioned like an addiction or obsessive-compulsive tendency. If you're prone to that type of behavior in other aspects of your life, it's completely possible that they can carry over into fitness as well, and that can be dangerous not only for your mental well-being but could also make you more prone to physical injury. You're obviously aware of it, I hope you are able to get some help in that area to keep you moving towards your goals.
  • LoveMyLife_NYC
    LoveMyLife_NYC Posts: 230 Member
    I'm no expert, but I've read studies that state severe anxiety over missed workouts is actually a symptom of overtraining. If you work out too much and don't rest when your body tells you that it needs a break, you are more prone to illness and injury, and it can lead to depression and anxiety when your schedule is thrown off.

    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1317287/

    Being annoyed and disappointed about missing a workout is one thing, but anxiety is a whole new level. Take the rest your body is asking for, or it might take much longer for you to feel 100%!