This girl is crazy i need advice

sounds like you're both kind of game playing at worst or just not entirely sure what you expect/want from each other at worst.

i'd say move on

we move on, we both date others etc ...and we eventually get back its weird ..i just want to understand why does she make a sudden gap then reconnects ? is she like seeking more attention by doing so ?

YES. Classic mind-*kitten*.

You said it yourself in the title, she is crazy. If not legitimately nuts, then at least possessive, immature, vindictive and mean-spirited. She enjoys yanking on the leash and watching you scramble. How do I know this? I used to be that type of girl. :embarassed:

She's just messing with you. Do everything you can to distance yourself from her, she is doing you no good in life. No more Facebook, no more texting. Just leave it all in the past where it belongs.

sounds like you're both kind of game playing at worst or just not entirely sure what you expect/want from each other at worst.

i'd say move on

we move on, we both date others etc ...and we eventually get back its weird ..i just want to understand why does she make a sudden gap then reconnects ? is she like seeking more attention by doing so ?

Because she doesnt want a relationship, she wants multiple ones.
She's only going to give you something if you let her -cough-

this. or maybe not that.

basically you're trying to understand behavior that may or may not have 1 reason for it. but in general, people treat us the way we allow them to treat us.


the real question is are you interested in pursuing a relationship with her?

if you are then man up and tell her and see where it goes from there. if she agrees but then continues to act flakey then there's your answer : she's a flake. but if you aren't interested in her then move on since her motives for what she does arent important to your lack of interest.

if it helps, maybe you should remember why you broke up. although it's true that people can change, just make sure you aren't just looking at the good parts of the past relationships and overlooking the things that led to the breakup.

To be honest i'm interested that's why i asked for advice ..i'm the type that moves on fast after stuff like this and that's why i'm really confused about my next decision..last time we broke up it was my fault ..Im just going to face her and c whats all this is about

just saw the bold .

i'm going to have to disagree with the possessiveness other people are saying.
i'm going to bet that she's making you PAY and keeping you on the hook not because she's interested in you so much as she's interested in making you miserable. i wouldnt necessarily agree that she's crazy because we only have your side of the story and have no idea what the original issue was.:laugh:

my advice is to apologize for whatever the original issue was so you both can move on.