How many pounds gained before its acceptable..

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  • angelamangus1
    angelamangus1 Posts: 164 Member
    How much do you weigh?

    Bet she could drop that amount of weight dead fast.

    :drinker:

    I double this!! :drinker: :drinker:
  • KrazyDaizy
    KrazyDaizy Posts: 815 Member
    I'm definitely over your weight limit. Haz sad, I so wanted this work out for us.
    :sad:

    *skips off to find a man who likes big bones*

    Does it have to be a man?
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    Nooooooo, not at all!
    lick.gif
  • Of_Monsters_and_Meat
    Of_Monsters_and_Meat Posts: 1,022 Member
    I'm what you would call overweight. I never had a problem with the ladies. I have a decent job dress smart and drive a Lexus. Its surprisingly easy to find dates. I just really hit it off with my current.
  • pattyproulx
    pattyproulx Posts: 603 Member
    I'm definitely over your weight limit. Haz sad, I so wanted this work out for us.
    :sad:

    *skips off to find a man who likes big bones*

    Does it have to be a man?
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    Nooooooo, not at all!
    lick.gif

    This discussion is getting too steamy. I gotta go....:blushing:
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    .. to dump your girlfriend.
    I prefer they start model perfect and stay model perfect.

    Oddly, I remain single.
  • AmyP619
    AmyP619 Posts: 1,137 Member
    I'm what you would call overweight. I never had a problem with the ladies. I have a decent job dress smart and drive a Lexus. Its surprisingly easy to find dates. I just really hit it off with my current.

    The wallet is the only real size that matters. I'd ask if you wanted a new gf, but I'm afraid I exceed your weight limit, as well. Ah well, I don't think my husband would approve of you anyway. :flowerforyou:
  • karl39x
    karl39x Posts: 586 Member
    You just made it past Valentines. You just survived all those holidays with her. You'd not get a good return on your investment at this point.

    Stay with her for this,

    but cheat on her with a skinny girl.
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  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member
    dump her. She deserves better.
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I'm definitely over your weight limit. Haz sad, I so wanted this work out for us.
    :sad:

    *skips off to find a man who likes big bones*

    Does it have to be a man?
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    Nooooooo, not at all!
    lick.gif

    I_love_you.gif
  • kimosabe1
    kimosabe1 Posts: 2,467 Member
    okay... bad deal! First, find out if this is temporary or permanent! Look at her mom & sisters if she has any.... Introducing her to this site might be an option, that way she can monitor her calories. You may have to wean her off the carbs. Carbs can be evil ya know???
  • GTAFrank
    GTAFrank Posts: 730 Member
    Ask yourself... what would Nutellabrah do? Seek his guidance and the path will become clear.
  • RaeLB
    RaeLB Posts: 1,216 Member
    I'm what you would call overweight. I never had a problem with the ladies. I have a decent job dress smart and drive a Lexus. Its surprisingly easy to find dates. I just really hit it off with my current.

    So you can be overweight but she cannot?
  • canwenotgothere
    canwenotgothere Posts: 12
    You sound like an idiot. Beauty comes from within. As you're on this site yourself, you would think you'd know and understand the struggle. A bit of advice: dump her - she deserves better.
  • just_Jennie1
    just_Jennie1 Posts: 1,233
    Ask yourself... what would Nutellabrah do? Seek his guidance and the path will become clear.

    :laugh:
  • SexKittenlovesitrough
    SexKittenlovesitrough Posts: 486
    sounds like she's fulking to me....

    has your creatine and protein powder taken a huge dip lately?

    you may wanna check out her bicep width brah
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    knowing this is a troll thread because of the other one... I answer in all seriousness.

    50 lbs. I'm already having conversations and issues around 20. 50 lbs would be a come to Jesus talk. I'm only willing to go so far on that. I won't just leave- conversations will be had- but 50 lbs- that's a line and action will be taken.

    It represents a much larger issue that is going on- binge drinking- gambling- strip clubs. Whatever. it's a thing. I won't tolerate it.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    I'm what you would call overweight. I never had a problem with the ladies. I have a decent job dress smart and drive a Lexus. Its surprisingly easy to find dates. I just really hit it off with my current.

    So you can be overweight but she cannot?

    it's all about preference. Some women like tall guys, some guys like thinner girls, some girls like bigger guys, some men like bigger girls...etc

    So if she likes a bigger guy and he likes thin women, then yes, he can be overweight and she cannot. She no longer matches his preference.

    I see this all the time, in the reverse - a woman does state it more gently - that she loves her BF or DH but is losing the sexual attraction because he is gaining weight, and she is becoming miserable. same difference.
  • HanamiDango
    HanamiDango Posts: 456 Member
    Why is my preferences in ladies wrong to you? She does this new rules thing at the gym. It just isn't working for her. I gave it my all, but what can you do. I just want to be on the proper side of this and not make foolish mistakes.

    Yes this new rules is going to make her super big. She will be able to open that pickle jar without you in no time. Sorry, better to move to another thin g/f.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    knowing this is a troll thread because of the other one... I answer in all seriousness.

    50 lbs. I'm already having conversations and issues around 20. 50 lbs would be a come to Jesus talk. I'm only willing to go so far on that. I won't just leave- conversations will be had- but 50 lbs- that's a line and action will be taken.

    It represents a much larger issue that is going on- binge drinking- gambling- strip clubs. Whatever. it's a thing. I won't tolerate it.

    Wow! So you are completely in love with someone, but gaining 50 lbs is a dealbreaker?

    Interesting...
  • LishieFruit89
    LishieFruit89 Posts: 1,956 Member
    .. to dump your girlfriend. Is 10 or 20 pounds enough? I tried to get her to eat healthy. Its been a few months and she still has not put it off. I think its time to throw in the towel.
    We have been together for about 5-6 months. She was 114 lbs at the start, now she is at least 125, it is just a matter of time before she hits 130. I don't even know what to do. She goes to the gym about 4 times a week. If yo uask me it is not working. I'm sitting here with my phone in my hand ready to text her to lose to weigh or time for me to move on. We did talk about it a wile ago and she said she was going to get into bikini shape for the summer. I just don't see it happening now.

    Please don't be a real post. Please don't be a real post. Please don't be a real post.

    If you're telling me 125-130lbs is too much for you... Dear lord there are so many things I would like to say to you but I don't want a strike.

    Dido. Controling one's weight doesn't come easily to all of us. Here's the deal though, she deserves someone who cares enough to stick by her at a tough time, so I'm not going to encourage you to stay with her. She's better off without you. You clearly don't love her or you would not be asking this, so move on.

    See bolded.

    That's the singer from the late 90s, early 2000s who sang with Eminiem (who may RIP since someone ate him yesterday and she now regrets it)

    Since Eminem is gone, Dido might be single for you OP
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    .. to dump your girlfriend. Is 10 or 20 pounds enough? I tried to get her to eat healthy. Its been a few months and she still has not put it off. I think its time to throw in the towel.
    We have been together for about 5-6 months. She was 114 lbs at the start, now she is at least 125, it is just a matter of time before she hits 130. I don't even know what to do. She goes to the gym about 4 times a week. If yo uask me it is not working. I'm sitting here with my phone in my hand ready to text her to lose to weigh or time for me to move on. We did talk about it a wile ago and she said she was going to get into bikini shape for the summer. I just don't see it happening now.

    Please don't be a real post. Please don't be a real post. Please don't be a real post.

    If you're telling me 125-130lbs is too much for you... Dear lord there are so many things I would like to say to you but I don't want a strike.

    Dido. Controling one's weight doesn't come easily to all of us. Here's the deal though, she deserves someone who cares enough to stick by her at a tough time, so I'm not going to encourage you to stay with her. She's better off without you. You clearly don't love her or you would not be asking this, so move on.

    See bolded.

    That's the singer from the late 90s, early 2000s who sang with Eminiem (who may RIP since someone ate him yesterday and she now regrets it)

    Since Eminem is gone, Dido might be single for you OP

    i want to thank you...
  • redheaddee
    redheaddee Posts: 2,005 Member
    When she grunts getting off the couch, or it becomes unsightly for her to ride the cowboy, then she simply must go.
  • Muddy_Yogi
    Muddy_Yogi Posts: 1,459 Member
    When you break up with her....hand her a triple layer chocolate fudge cake with the best icing and say "thanks for playing, here's your consolation prize."
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    When you break up with her....hand her a triple layer chocolate fudge cake with the best icing and say "thanks for playing, here's your consolation prize."

    *ahem* can you also get him to give me bacon?? Help a girl out!
  • Muddy_Yogi
    Muddy_Yogi Posts: 1,459 Member
    When you break up with her....hand her a triple layer chocolate fudge cake with the best icing and say "thanks for playing, here's your consolation prize."

    *ahem* can you also get him to give me bacon?? Help a girl out!

    OMG! A triple layer chocolate cake with the worlds best icing ....AND bacon crumbled on top!!!!!!
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    When you break up with her....hand her a triple layer chocolate fudge cake with the best icing and say "thanks for playing, here's your consolation prize."

    *ahem* can you also get him to give me bacon?? Help a girl out!

    OMG! A triple layer chocolate cake with the worlds best icing ....AND bacon crumbled on top!!!!!!

    I'm going to dump him and date you!
  • LishieFruit89
    LishieFruit89 Posts: 1,956 Member
    When you break up with her....hand her a triple layer chocolate fudge cake with the best icing and say "thanks for playing, here's your consolation prize."

    *ahem* can you also get him to give me bacon?? Help a girl out!

    OMG! A triple layer chocolate cake with the worlds best icing ....AND bacon crumbled on top!!!!!!

    I'm going to dump him and date you!

    IN! *brings camera*
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
    knowing this is a troll thread because of the other one... I answer in all seriousness.

    50 lbs. I'm already having conversations and issues around 20. 50 lbs would be a come to Jesus talk. I'm only willing to go so far on that. I won't just leave- conversations will be had- but 50 lbs- that's a line and action will be taken.

    It represents a much larger issue that is going on- binge drinking- gambling- strip clubs. Whatever. it's a thing. I won't tolerate it.

    Funny that you invoke the name of Jesus. Didn't he spend a lot of time hanging out with, and befriending, those who society deemed to be a waste?

    Strong post...

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  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    knowing this is a troll thread because of the other one... I answer in all seriousness.

    50 lbs. I'm already having conversations and issues around 20. 50 lbs would be a come to Jesus talk. I'm only willing to go so far on that. I won't just leave- conversations will be had- but 50 lbs- that's a line and action will be taken.

    It represents a much larger issue that is going on- binge drinking- gambling- strip clubs. Whatever. it's a thing. I won't tolerate it.

    Funny that you invoke the name of Jesus. Didn't he spend a lot of time hanging out with, and befriending, those who society deemed to be a waste?

    Strong post...

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    This is why I wouldn't leave you, even if you gained 51 pounds.

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