dating fat

I'm fat, and I'd totally date me.

would you date fat girl/guy ?

Yup. I date people, not physiques.

I don't think so. I have been fat, very fat, in fact, but I'm not now. And I'm not because of all the physical things I enjoy doing. Someone who is fat isn't going to be able to do the things I like to do.

I wouldn't leave someone I loved who became fat though.

After being overweight and losing it, I've come to realise that it's a lifestyle issue, not a 'shallow looks' issue. Could I find myself attracted to somebody overweight? Of course! But lifestyle is going to play a part at some point and it has got in the way in previous relationships.

would you date fat girl/guy ?

Just wondering why you would post the same topic after you just replied to the fat/skinny post that's up?

I would want to date someone who is at least as active as I am. It is important to me to be able to engage in outdoor activities with me. To take the dogs for runs, go on hikes etc. Weight wouldn't matter so much as long as that person was striving to live a healthy lifestyle...chances are that this would limit anyone who is very overweight but not someone who is mildly overweight.

I wouldn't want to date myself, so... don't think I could

Define fat...

I prefer someone who shares my values and interests, which lean more towards fitness and health. I don't need or want perfection or anything even close to it, but I do appreciate someone who makes the effort to take care of himself. On the opposite end, I wouldn't be interested in someone who was overly obsessed with fitness and health, either. Most important is a person's character (and I suppose part of that character could include how they respect themselves and their health.) I don't think it's shallow AT ALL to seek out someone who shares your lifestyle and values. :flowerforyou:

To each, his own. :drinker:

Posting the same topics over and over again - obsessed or troll?

How has this guy's profile not been deleted yet

I had chubby boyfriends before and went out with chubby guys.
I'm happily taken, but really, when it comes to attraction, it works in strange ways. I'm not usually attracted to this body type. I'm also not attracted to skinny people. But it doesn't mean I'd rule out someone just because of their body type (unless it's very extreme and in this case I do find it off-putting). I think attraction is more about confidence than anything else. There's this chubby guy I know, that surely if I weren't taken I'd hit on him hard. He's confident, funny, intelligent and a great dancer. Don't know how he's still single.

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Yeah. It all depends on the person. I have loved Adam Richman for years. Now that he has lost weight everyone is jumping on his bandwagon but to be honest i preferred him when he was bigger. Yes of course it is healhier for him to have lost weight and he still has a bubbly, fun personality but I definitely found him more attractive when he was bigger. Don't know why. I fancy skinny guys too! And muscly guys and nerdy guys. I fancy all the guys!!!!