8 THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN EVERYTHING GOES WRONG

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  • onandoff
    onandoff Posts: 122 Member
    Thanks a lot!
    Great post.:flowerforyou:
  • 1pandabear
    1pandabear Posts: 336 Member
    8 THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN EVERYTHING GOES WRONG

    There is always, always, always something to be thankful for. And that no matter how good or bad you have it, you must wake up each day thankful for every moments that you still alive to enjoy the pleasures and opportunities which life offers because someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for their life.

    Truth be told, happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with them. Imagine all the wondrous things your mind might embrace if it weren’t wrapped so tightly around your struggles. Always look at what you have, instead of what you have lost.. Because it’s not what the world takes away from you that counts; it’s what you do with what you have left.

    Here are a few reminders to help motivate you when you need it most:

    1. PAIN IS PART OF GROWING.

    Sometimes life closes doors because it’s time to move forward. And that’s a good thing because we often won’t move unless circumstances force us to. When times are tough, remind yourself that no pain comes without a purpose. Move on from what hurt you, but never forget what it taught you. Just because you’re struggling doesn’t mean you’re failing. Every great success requires some type of worthy struggle to get there. Good things take time. Stay patient and stay positive. Everything is going to come together; maybe not immediately, but eventually.

    Remember that there are two kinds of pain: pain that hurts and pain that changes you. When you roll with life, instead of resisting it, both kinds help you grow and make you stronger version of yourselves..


    2. EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS TEMPORARY.

    Every time it rains, it stops raining. Every time you get hurt, you heal. After darkness there is always light – you are reminded of this every morning, but still you often forget, and instead choose to believe that the night will last forever. It won’t. Nothing lasts forever. There is always light at the end of the dark tunnel.

    So if things are good right now, enjoy it. It won’t last forever. If things are bad, don’t worry because it won’t last forever either. Just because life isn’t easy at the moment, doesn’t mean you can’t laugh. Just because something is bothering you, doesn’t mean you can’t smile. Every moment gives you a new beginning and a new ending. You get a second chance, every second. You just have to take it and make the best of it.


    3. WORRYING AND COMPLAINING CHANGES NOTHING.

    Those who complain the most, accomplish the least. It’s always better to attempt to do something great and fail than to attempt to do nothing and succeed. It’s not over if you’ve lost; it’s over when you do nothing but complain about it.

    If you believe in something, keep trying. Don’t let the shadows of the past darken the doorstep of your future. Spending today complaining about yesterday won’t make tomorrow any brighter. Take action instead. Let what you’ve learned improve how you live. Make a change and never look back.

    And regardless of what happens in the long run, remember that true happiness begins to arrive only when you stop complaining about your problems and you start being grateful for all the problems you don’t have.


    4. YOUR SCARS ARE SYMBOLS OF YOUR STRENGTH.

    Don’t ever be ashamed of the scars life has left you with. A scar means the hurt is over and the wound is closed. It means you conquered the pain, learned a lesson, grew stronger, and moved forward. A scar is the tattoo of a triumph to be proud of. Don’t allow your scars to hold you hostage. Don’t allow them to make you live your life in fear. You can’t make the scars in your life disappear, but you can change the way you see them. You can start seeing your scars as a sign of strength and not pain.

    Rumi once said, “The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” Nothing could be closer to the truth. Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most powerful characters in this great world are seared with scars. See your scars as a sign of “YES! I MADE IT! I survived and I have my scars to prove it! And now I have a chance to grow even stronger.”


    5. EVERY LITTLE STRUGGLE IS A STEP FORWARD.

    In life, patience is not about waiting; it’s the ability to keep a good attitude while working hard on your dreams, knowing that the work is worth it. So if you’re going to try, put in the time and go all the way. Otherwise, there’s no point in starting. This could mean losing stability and comfort for a while, and maybe even your mind on occasion. It could mean not eating what, or sleeping where, you’re used to, for weeks on end. It could mean stretching your comfort zone so thin it gives you a nonstop case of the chills. It could mean sacrificing relationships and all that’s familiar. It could mean accepting ridicule from your peers. It could mean lots of time alone in solitude.

    Solitude, though, is the gift that makes great things possible. It gives you the space you need. Everything else is a test of your determination, of how much you really want it.
    And if you want it, you’ll do it, despite failure and rejection and the odds. And every step will feel better than anything else you can imagine. You will realize that the struggle is not found on the path, it is the path. And it’s worth it. So if you’re going to try, go all the way. There’s no better feeling in the world… there’s no better feeling than knowing what it means to be ALIVE.


    6. OTHER PEOPLE’S NEGATIVITY IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM.

    Be positive when negativity surrounds you. Smile when others try to bring or drag you down. It’s an easy way to maintain your enthusiasm and focus. When other people treat you poorly, keep being you..and stay calm.

    Don’t ever let someone else’s bitterness (for example bad attitudes, hurtful words..etc) change the person you are.. Rarely do people do things because of you. They do things because of them.

    Above all, don’t ever change just to impress someone who says you’re not good enough. Change because it makes you a better person and leads you to a brighter future. People are going to talk regardless of what you do or how well you do it. So worry about yourself before you worry about what others think. If you believe strongly in something, don’t be afraid to fight it. Great strength comes from overcoming what others think is impossible.

    All jokes aside, your life only comes around once. This is IT. So do what makes you happy and be with whoever makes you smile and laugh often to brighten your days.


    7. WHAT’S MEANT TO BE WILL EVENTUALLY, BE.

    True strength comes when you have so much to cry and complain about, but you prefer to smile and appreciate your life instead. There are blessings hidden in every struggle you face, but you have to be willing to open your heart and mind to see them. You can’t force things to happen. You can only drive yourself crazy trying. At some point you have to let it go and let what’s meant to be, BE.

    In the end, loving your life is about trusting your intuition, taking chances, losing and finding happiness, cherishing the memories, and learning through experience. It’s a long-term journey. You have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting every steps you have chosen to walk.. Laugh at the confusion, live consciously in the moment, and enjoy your life as it unfolds. You might not end up exactly where you intended to go, but you will eventually arrive precisely where you need to be..


    8. THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS TO KEEP GOING.

    Don’t be afraid to get back up – to try again, to love again, to live again, and to dream again. Don’t let a hard lesson harden your heart. Life’s best lessons are often learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes.

    There will be times when it seems like everything that could possibly go wrong is going wrong. And you might feel like you will be stuck in this rut forever, but you won’t. When you feel like quitting, remember that sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right. Sometimes you have to go through the worst, to arrive at your best.

    Yes, life is tough, but you are tougher. Find the strength to laugh every day. Find the courage to feel different, yet beautiful. Find it in your heart to make others smile too. Don’t stress over things you can’t change. Live simply. Love generously. Speak truthfully. Work diligently. And even if you fall short, keep going. Keep growing.

    Awake every morning and do your best to follow this daily TO-DO list:

    Think positively.
    Eat healthy.
    Exercise today.
    Worry less.
    Work hard.
    Laugh often.
    Sleep well.
    Repeat…

    THE LIFE IS YOURS…

    What helps you stay motivated when you’re struggling? What’s something positive you try to keep in mind when everything seems to be going wrong?

    I want to hold onto this post.
  • hludwig980
    hludwig980 Posts: 102 Member
    Thank you, you do not know how badly I needed to see this today.
  • Grankakes
    Grankakes Posts: 128 Member
    truly awesome post. i'm going to copy it and keep it handy. thanks!
  • JNettie73
    JNettie73 Posts: 1,211 Member
    Great post! :flowerforyou: Thank you.
  • fitphoenix
    fitphoenix Posts: 9,673 Member
    Nice, positive attitude with some very good tips to keep in mind. Thanks for sharing. ^_^
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  • IvanCasillas
    IvanCasillas Posts: 90 Member
    Beautiful! Thanks so much :)
  • donnat238
    donnat238 Posts: 309 Member
    Thank you! Awesome post and a good reminder of what is good in my life!
  • schmetterling1
    schmetterling1 Posts: 130 Member
    Thank you. I will be coming back to this for a reminder. :flowerforyou:
  • I've gone and printed this post to remind me on days like today when this is very much appreciated :)
    :heart:
  • Great post! We all need a lil' reminder sometimes, good job! :flowerforyou:
  • aNewYear123
    aNewYear123 Posts: 279 Member
    This is wonderful.
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
    :blushing: Thank you..

    For all..:flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • LionessWhispers
    LionessWhispers Posts: 69 Member
    :flowerforyou:
  • BridgetWolfbear
    BridgetWolfbear Posts: 21 Member
    That is just wanted I needed to read Thank you! ^_^
  • cdcjensen
    cdcjensen Posts: 30 Member
    Just what I needed to hear this morning. I had a great week of eating and even started walking a couple miles each day again (I used to do this everyday until I had surgery 2 months ago and haven't been allowed to walk much since then until this week). I just "assumed" the great week of eating and the walking back into my routine would result in a great weigh-in this morning. Instead, I gained 2 lbs. I'm 107 down, so I really have nothing to complain about, but it was a blow to the morale to have had such a great week and got a bad shock on the scale.
  • skippygirlsmom
    skippygirlsmom Posts: 4,433 Member
    Love this! Keeping to read over and over and over.
  • cloverfield4
    cloverfield4 Posts: 52 Member
    This actually made me tear up this morning (in a good way!). Thank you. :heart:
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
    Bump
  • scrapbooklady
    scrapbooklady Posts: 77 Member
    saving for when I really need to read this.
  • epigirrl
    epigirrl Posts: 54 Member
    This is a great compilation of thoughts, inspirations, motivations, affirmations. I am printing out for daily reflection...especially for days when things feel particularly difficult and it is hard to remember to breathe.

    Thanks for the many reminders that I actually need right now.
  • christa279
    christa279 Posts: 222 Member
    BUMP! This is full of awesomeness!

    I need this in my feed. I might even print it out and tape it to my wall!
  • loriemn
    loriemn Posts: 292 Member
    thank you, thank you , THANK YOU!!!!
  • angel_of_harmony
    angel_of_harmony Posts: 188 Member
    Thank you! :flowerforyou:
  • Angold83
    Angold83 Posts: 62 Member
    This actually made me tear up this morning (in a good way!). Thank you. :heart:

    This. Thank you for the inspiring and motivational words. X
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
    ^_^ My pleasure to keep all feeling great and fully motivated

    Please do not forget our purposes being in MFP :drinker:
  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
    bump for later
  • nessagrace22
    nessagrace22 Posts: 430 Member
    Can't tell you how much I love this :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • jellybeanhed313
    jellybeanhed313 Posts: 344 Member
    Great advice. Bump for when I am having a hard time. Thanks! :)