What is your number one motivator?

Pretty much self-explanatory. What is the number one thing that gets you motivated or keeps you motivated to make this lifestyle change?

For me, it was realizing that I was going to be starting my Master's program in public health in the fall and that I am obese. I realized that I was trying to be a "special snowflake" and trying to ignore everything that I had ever learned in my public health classes about the dangers of obesity. It just felt so hypocritical. So, here I am! Every time I feel discouraged or want to scarf down a cupcake, I open up my acceptance letters and read them instead.
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  • My biggest motivation is my health and my family, i am basically watching my mother disintegrate from being morbidly obese, and It was a HUGE wake up call for the family doctor to tell me i was following her footsteps. I want so much more for my life than to simply exist.
  • kellyskitties
    kellyskitties Posts: 475 Member
    All the people on "magic money sucking diet pills." I just get tired of hearing their diet blather and trying to sell it to me. It's not what started it - but it has kept me going. Trying to "show them" I guess. They are slowly cycling on and off those miracle diets - and I just keep going like a determined turtle. The more they tout the latest miracle the more I just keep on keeping on. I don't have any better explanation that that.
  • jackie_moo
    jackie_moo Posts: 73 Member
    My motivator is to be able to do things i couldn't do before just because i felt so tired and winded. I've never been fat, but i am very unfit... trying to change that, to be the person that i want to be :)
  • kmshred
    kmshred Posts: 393 Member
    the mirror!
  • I wanna be able to do Hulk Hogan impressions. You know, rip my shirt off and tell people Hulkamania runs wild on them.
  • I have congenital heart disease, and since I was twelve, I've been hearing that if I'm even the slightest bit overweight, my heart is most likely not going to work to it's full potential. Most of my dad's family is overweight, and a few members on my mom's side are overweight. To prevent ending up overweight with the majority of family, I want to be able to lose weight to maximize my future health.
  • flatlndr
    flatlndr Posts: 713 Member
    My knee ... it was choice of losing 80+ lbs, or knee replacement surgery.
    At 50+ down, my knee is much happier now, and will be even more so once I've reached Onederland.
  • jackielou867
    jackielou867 Posts: 422 Member
    One simple photo was my biggest motivator. The straw that broke the proverbial camels back. Once I started the results were my motivator. The way I look and feel now, compared to this time last year. OMG!
  • csontos
    csontos Posts: 76 Member
    I have congenital heart disease, and since I was twelve, I've been hearing that if I'm even the slightest bit overweight, my heart is most likely not going to work to it's full potential. Most of my dad's family is overweight, and a few members on my mom's side are overweight. To prevent ending up overweight with the majority of family, I want to be able to lose weight to maximize my future health.
    That sounds a lot like my family! My father and his whole side of the family is very overweight. Also, my father turned 70 this year and is starting to have heart problems from being on high blood pressure medication his whole life. He went to the doctor once and his pulse was only 35. Plus, both my maternal grandmother died at 69 due to a heart attack. It's scary to think about.
  • Iwishyouwell
    Iwishyouwell Posts: 1,888 Member
    I came to the realization that I was fat back in the 6th grade.

    Even though I was never bullied, and rarely belittled, for my weight as a boy it always felt...wrong. It felt like some kind of horrible mistake, as it just didn't fit at all how I saw myself. Being fat was pretty detrimental to my self image, like being trapped in somebody else's body. I never lost that feeling.

    I lost a lot of weight over a decade ago as an older teen/young adult. My mind was so warped from the fat years that I eventually regained all the weight back, having never really adapted my mind to being in a fitter and leaner place. All I saw was the fat I still had, not how far I'd come. I ended up bigger than ever.

    My motivation is coming into myself, truly. It's FINALLY feeling like "me", in some areas for the first time ever. I am changing externally, but the real changes are in how I am seeing myself, the improved self image, the coming into my real, truthful self. It's a powerful change. There is no stronger motivator for me.
  • FoxyLifter
    FoxyLifter Posts: 965 Member
    My short term motivator is the vision of a slightly leaner me.

    My long term motivator is the "still able to squat +100lbs at the age of 60" me.

    :drinker:
  • firelight4321
    firelight4321 Posts: 60 Member
    Rubbing my success in my fat mother-in-law's face. :laugh:

    She thinks it's sooo hard to stick o a diet & lose real weight, but I'm showing her just how easy it is. c; She's gonna be so jealous when I'm at my weight goal & her weight hasn't budged.
  • csontos
    csontos Posts: 76 Member
    Rubbing my success in my fat mother-in-law's face. :laugh:

    She thinks it's sooo hard to stick o a diet & lose real weight, but I'm showing her just how easy it is. c; She's gonna be so jealous when I'm at my weight goal & her weight hasn't budged.
    Love it! My exboyfriend who I almost got engaged to told me that I would never lose this weight and keep gaining. Even though we aren't Facebook friends and I'm moving 7 hours away soon, I think of every single ounce lost as a kick to his smug little face.
  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,088 Member
    I know it sounds vein, but I want to look awesome in a bikini! That's my motivation :-)
  • airangel59
    airangel59 Posts: 1,887 Member
    Pretty much self-explanatory. What is the number one thing that gets you motivated or keeps you motivated to make this lifestyle change?

    Right now my number one motivator is seeing what I look like now in the mirror.:bigsmile:
    I just got to my goal range last week.

    What motivated me to make this lifestyle change 647 days ago, was getting diagnosed with Type 2. BMI of 44% and of course not liking what I saw in the mirror.

    Other motivating factors for me right now are being off all my meds (2 for HTN, 2 for Chol and 1 for DM) and not carrying those diagnosis per my MD anymore.
  • SuePin02
    SuePin02 Posts: 29 Member
    I'm a nursing student in my 2nd semester of clinical and I have met allot of special people who are sick that say: ENJOY life and take care of your BODY. As a teen I never listened to my elders, I had to figure it out on my own, make the mistakes to finally learn and understand that they were right. As an adult I don't want to figure it out, I want to take the advice of the sickly I've met and take care of my body now, I don't want to wait until the health problems start rolling in to look back and have regret.

    So take care of your body, it is precious & sensitive.... And you only have one :flowerforyou:
  • letmerun
    letmerun Posts: 15
    I want abs basically.

    and an *kitten* which makes me/others cry
  • 1skinnysouthernchick
    1skinnysouthernchick Posts: 24 Member
    Looking in the mirror and liking what I see! We all know when we look good
  • enchantedgardener
    enchantedgardener Posts: 214 Member
    What kicked me into gear is when I realized that I wasn't simply overweight, but I was actually obese (BMI 30+).

    What keeps me motivated is the change I see in the mirror. Every week, I see progress and it is thrilling!

    My goal is to look good naked. I want to be able to look in the mirror and love the image I see reflected back at me.
    I was raised to believe it is vanity to care about one's appearance, but I know my heart is in the right place. For me, my desire to look good comes from wanting to care for and nurture my body, help it to be the healthiest it can be. I want to feel confident about my body, being able to wear a bathing suit and feeling good about it, not being bashful about getting changed in the locker room. I want to feel good simply being me.
  • What keeps me motivated:

    My BadAssBeautie, she's amazing, inspiring, and keeps me wanting to better myself :heart:
    Seeing the change in my appearance
    Seeing my strength and stamina build
    Knowing my health is improving by watching what I eat
    That good, sore feeling you get when you know you kicked serious *kitten*
    Becoming a BadAss
  • zeal26
    zeal26 Posts: 602 Member
    Almost entirely my appearance. I am so damn sick of hating every photo my friends tag me in on Facebook, and I want to be able to start clicking "add to timeline" and not "hide". The bonus is that my health is improving. But really I just want to look good.
  • TheBadToe
    TheBadToe Posts: 246 Member
    I don't even know anymore. I just love the push, and the feel of heavy weight in my hands.
  • The thing that got me started losing weight -- and continues to motivate me -- is the same realization that got me to quit smoking some time back. It took me a while to connect it to my weight, but I finally did. The realization was this. If I were willing to stand out in the cold when I'd rather be warm, run out to the store in the rain, when I'd rather be inside, spend my last dollar when I should be saving it for better things, then the cigarettes had become a god to me. They controlled me. It took me a while to recognize that food is the same thing for me. When I succumb to cravings that I know are slowly killing me, then I am putting food in the place of a little god that controls me. My flesh making decisions for me and slowly killing me. I am a Christian. I recognize that when I am not disciplined, and am living by the flesh, I am certainly not living by the spirit. When I am slowly killing myself by my choices to feed my own desires, and not practicing self-discipline, then I am serving the enemy and am bowing to my own "fleshly lusts." It's a matter of heath, spiritual growth, and self-discipline.
  • Alehmer
    Alehmer Posts: 433 Member
    I'm avoiding the next higher weight class. There's a pretty serious difference between fighting a 199lb guy and a 218-234lb guy.

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  • Nikoruo
    Nikoruo Posts: 771 Member
    To push myself the hardest and be amazing xD To do all i said i could never do!
  • Hondo_Man
    Hondo_Man Posts: 114 Member
    Great topic for sharing.

    There are three things that keep me motivated.

    1. My children and future grandchildren. More on that in #3.

    2. Me. I've been lifting weights for about 25 years and while there are times will illness and injury, I've always stayed with it. Looking in the mirror each day inspires me to stay that way! Because... when I was 20, I was about 120kg of fat. I changed that completely after University. Now I have 10% BF and maintain 90kg.

    3. Work. I am early retired and work part-time for the Bavarian Red Cross. I drive ill and handicapped people to various places and am often in care homes, hospitals, physician offices, etc. I see first hand what lack of exercise and poor eating habits do to people.

    Back to #1. Due to #3, I want to be able to play and enjoy time with my grown daughters and their (eventual) children when I'm older. I don't with to be one of the Papas or Opas who are more concerned about their next beer (which I do enjoy at the occasional fest!), but going snowboarding, wandering in the forests, swimming, etc with my kids and theirs is so much more important. When I'm 65, I don't want the pains from getting out of my chair coming from old age, but rather soreness from have done dead-lifts or squats the day before! :)

    We don't even own a television. That also killed any chance of demotivation!! :)

    I want and will stay fit for my family! They are my motivation!
  • luvmybabeez
    luvmybabeez Posts: 56 Member
    My biggest motivator is that I want to be around to watch my kids grow up and have families of their own not to mention I just want to feel good in my own skin. I can tell you 75 days in now and I am feeling pretty damn good. ;-)
  • willdob3
    willdob3 Posts: 640 Member
    At this point my #1 motivator is all the success I've already had (over 100 lbs gone, lost many, many inches & sizes, look very different, much better, feel great!) & knowing that I'll see more of it if I continue to do what I've been doing for going on two years.
  • My OH is my number one motivator, he has to put up with me moaning, and encourage me when I am down and feeling a little peckish!!! The kids being able to play with them without getting exhausted. Dont want me 40th photos next year me looking large, I cried at the ones at Christmas.
    Last motivator keep up with that damn woman in Pump Up the Volume Dancing DVD the cow wont beat me lol!!!
    :-)
  • RosyBest
    RosyBest Posts: 303 Member
    My motivation is my fat *kitten* stomach and those 3 numbers that haunt me on the scale every time I step on it.