Not losing weight

Am I the only person on this website NOT losing weight? I could just cry with envy and frustration. What in the world are you all doing out there that I am not doing? My guess would be eating right and exercising but I could be wrong. I hope I am wrong. I like to think your lives are filled with vats of wine and platters of rich food but still managing to shed pounds on a weekly basis.
I need friends! how sad is that? good thing I am not using my real name otherwise one day when I run for public office they might use that statement against me. Please friend me and say nice things to me so that I too can be part of this happy band of people losing ridiculous amounts of weight and showing off. I too want to show off.

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  • mandyneedtolose
    mandyneedtolose Posts: 398 Member
    lmao!
  • Of course you are laughing! as would I be if i had lost the amount you have! Do you have any butt left to laugh off? So green I am not ashamed to admit it!
  • DeniseBarone
    DeniseBarone Posts: 80 Member
    It does take time before you start to see results. Are you combining your eating program with exercise?
  • I am eating well below the calories for the day and exercising like a demon. A rather slow and lazy demon perhaps but a demon none the less.
  • mandyneedtolose
    mandyneedtolose Posts: 398 Member
    I have a jiggly butt with lots left to lose! It takes time, dedication and alot of food! Eat more to weigh less! And btw it was a friend lmao ..
  • Like Denise said, it does take time to see results. I lost 38 pounds about a year and a half ago. It took me about eight months to lose it through a combination of diet and exercise. The key for me was tracking everything I ate and my daily activity. Once I started tracking, I realized that all those little things I was eating throughout the day were really adding up to a lot of calories. Awareness is a powerful tool.

    Once I hit my desired weight, I stopped tracking, and I started gaining weight. That is why I am here -- to get back into the habit of tracking. I have resolved in my mind that tracking is going to have to be a lifelong activity if I want to maintain a healthy weight.

    I wish you success in your journey.
  • hyenagirl
    hyenagirl Posts: 206 Member
    Then you are not reporting everything that you eat/drink and/or you are not measuring things correctly. Eating constantly at a caloric deficit will cause weight loss, you're not above the laws of thermodynamics. You must be honest with yourself about everything you ingest.

    I would watch the show (can view on youtube or daily motion) Secret Eaters. It's a UK BBC show about people who claim to eat healthy and exercise, but don't understand the weight gain or lack of weight loss. They're honestly not aware of how much they eat a day. The show documents them for 2 weeks and reveals to them in video evidence their ways.
  • slither
    slither Posts: 8
    Hey im not losing weight either...I and did cry this morning when I finally weighed myself after killing myself for three weeks eating right and power walking and drinking lemon water and my 8 glasses a day....still nothing...I almost gave up..
  • slither
    slither Posts: 8
    and Im not a secret eater...I record every little thing...but still nothing...:(
  • I sent you a friend request.

    Don't get frustrated! Good things will come! Just keep up the great job!
  • If you are eating well under the recommended calories you may not be eating enough. Do you wear a Heart Rate Monitor to count the calories you burned while excersising? This will help you quite a bit as you will know exactly what you burned and how much extra calories you get for the day. You can get them quite cheap on E-bay.
  • Markguns
    Markguns Posts: 554 Member
    EXERCISE.... Try 30 min walks 4-5 days a week to start.
  • FatAsh88
    FatAsh88 Posts: 1 Member
    You may not be eating enough calories. If you dont eat enough your body goes into starvation mode and you will gain weight.
  • ruffnstuff
    ruffnstuff Posts: 400 Member
    It's gonna sound rude, but it's not meant that way. Neither OP nor the other person complaining (albeit with a great sense of humor!) actually have open diaries. People cannot give you actual advice based on anecdotal heresay. Also, WEIGH everything...don't just use the eyeball or the measuring cups/spoons. It does make a difference.

    Feel free to look at my diary. It's open for all, I consume too much sugar, but wth. I've still lost 56 lbs total and am going strong.
  • Im just starting, but I feel your pain. It is frustrating when everyone around you seems to be achieving their goals but you. Hang in there and don't give up your time will come.:wink:
  • SaraC1977
    SaraC1977 Posts: 51
    Other than the obvious, lower calories and more exercise, if you are already doing those things, it's possible you have a thyroid issue. Sometimes the weight just will not drop due to medical attention needed. it's possible you need medication to regulate your thyroid. If you feel you are doing everything right, I would see a doctor to rule that out. You might be working your butt off for nothing without medication. If the your thyroid is fine, then I would follow the suggestions already posted in this topic string from others.

    Good luck!
  • ruffnstuff
    ruffnstuff Posts: 400 Member
    You may not be eating enough calories. If you dont eat enough your body goes into starvation mode and you will gain weight.

    Not true, please disregard. How many fat, starving third world children do you see on those tv commercials?
  • Am30168
    Am30168 Posts: 5 Member
    I can certainly understand that. I feel the same way but this time I refuse to give up. So even if the only I manage to do is tone up and not jiggle, improve my circulation and mood....I am going to keep at it. But I know that it is extremely discouraging. Look for other things that you can gain from this...such as the things I mentioned above and focus on those and not the scale, otherwise you will always want to give up :smile:

    Best wishes
  • karlbaxter
    karlbaxter Posts: 5 Member
    I am eating well below the calories for the day and exercising like a demon. A rather slow and lazy demon perhaps but a demon none the less.

    why not do one or the other.. instead of punishing yourself :)
  • mkroberger
    mkroberger Posts: 25 Member
    Have you tried cutting back on the carbs and increasing the lean protein? That is what body builders do when the are getting close to their competition date, even though they are working out like crazy! It's really hard for me, but cutting back on carbs to between 50-100 grams seems to help. Good luck!
  • megz_i
    megz_i Posts: 1
    Maybe you undereat?
    I know that might sound ridiculous, but I had a similar problem.
    I started with 1200kcal a day, I've lost 1.5kg but then my scale stayed frozen for 2 weeks. And I was REALLY eating clean and watching my limit and working out and all. Then my friend told me to try to slowly up my calorie intake a day to 1500.
    AND. IT. WORKED. Scale moved, going doooown. Slowly, but still.
    Try not to exhaust yourself with such small calorie intake, 1500kcal should be just perfect, you WILL be losing weight, especially if you do your training.
    Good luck!

    Btw, I might not be an expert on this, but it seemed to be the thing that worked for me.
  • Starvation mode is a myth, sometimes what happens when we reduce our caloric intake our metabolism slows down thus reducing how quickly we lose weight. There are many factors to consider when this happens. Check out this article for more on the subject.

    http://www.weightwatchers.com/util/art/index_art.aspx?tabnum=1&art_id=35501
  • stofteland
    stofteland Posts: 19 Member
    I am struggling too. Re-working my protein and carbohydrate allotment after having a conversation with a trainer. I have about 115g of carbs and 115g of lean protein a day(35% for both). I watch my fat through out the day, try to shoot for 30% total. Protein and some carbs will give my some fat but make up with olive oil or butter. I am watching my sugar intake, too. I feel a little better, more energy. Able to keep within my 1200-1300 calorie goal. Energy for good exercise, too. Hoping to see results in a few weeks.

    I had maintained for over four years and things started to creep up and felt tired.
  • I read this today about the Starvation Myth, Was posted by swanny320


    So sick of reading responses of people regarding diet and weight loss with everyone throwing around purported "facts" about starvation mode. So, here is a little research on the topic. Feel free to chime in with other studies, but lets keep it based on actual research, not personal anecdotes and not "my trainer says."

    Starvation mode does not happen overnight or even in just a few days! Calories in, calories out. Simple, right? Short term, yes, it’s simple, long term, not so much. Let’s add some real science to the discussion:

    First, a definition. Starvation mode does not mean going without food. It means that you cut your caloric intake to less than what the body would normally burn in the course of a day. I have seen so many posts where people offer advice and tell people they need to eat more to lose weight because they are starving their bodies. The idea postulated is that eating too few calories will reduce a person’s metabolism to such an extent that the person will gain weight instead of losing.

    Now, a look at one of the classic scientific studies on starvation. Probably the most famous study done was conducted after WWII by researchers at the University of Minnesota. Starvation was widespread throughout Europe during the war and scientists were trying to figure out how to re-feed people suffering from starvation and determine the long-term effects. (Remember, tens of thousands of people died after liberation from concentration camps not only from disease but from the reintroduction of food that their bodies were no longer capable of digesting.) Scientists recruited 36 young healthy men to participate in a yearlong study divided into several phases: a 12-week normal control period, a 24-week starvation phase where calories were so dramatically reduced that participants lost approximately 25% of body weight; and, finally, a recovery phase to renourish participants. Results of the study were published in the two-volume, Biology of Human Starvation (Minneapolis: University of Minneapolis, 1950). See more information here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Minnesota_Starvation_Experiment.

    So, what did the results of the study find? First, all participants lost weight. Starvation mode does not result in your body hanging onto extra fat or calories in an effort to “preserve” your body. But, it’s more complicated than just losing weight. All of the participants also experienced a drop in their metabolic rates – approximately 40% below baseline. Now, you will see many posters here that will argue that you will start losing muscle and not fat within a few days of going into so-called “starvation mode.” Yet, the research shows that participants lost both. In fact, at no point did they stop losing fat until they hit a rate of approximately 5% body fat near the end of the study.

    Lyle McDonald explains it this way:

    In general, it's true that metabolic rate tends to drop more with more excessive caloric deficits… But here's the thing: in no study I've ever seen has the drop in metabolic rate been sufficient to completely offset the caloric deficit. That is, say that cutting your calories by 50% per day leads to a reduction in the metabolic rate of 10%. Starvation mode you say. Well, yes. But you still have a 40% daily deficit.

    But, keep in mind that apart from weight loss, semi-starvation has other not-so-cool effects on your mind and body. The other physical effects from the Minnesota study on semi-starvation included a significant drop in physical endurance, reduction in strength of about 10%, and sluggish reflexes. Those that were the most fit initially showed the greatest deterioration. In addition, heart volume shrank about 20%, pulses slowed and their body temperatures dropped. Concentration and judgment became impaired. Sexual function was reduced and all lost interest in sex. They had every physical indication of accelerated aging. But keep in mind, this was a year-long study, not something that happened in a just a few days or two weeks of eating restricted calories.

    The more dramatic effects of semi-starvation from the Minnesota study were psychological, similar to what can be observed in anorexic patients. The men became nervous, anxious, apathetic, withdrawn, impatient, self-critical, emotional and depressed. A few even mutilated themselves, one chopping off three fingers in stress. They became obsessed with food, thinking, talking and reading about it constantly; developed weird eating rituals; hoarding, etc.

    Now, let’s look at another aspect. The folks at Cambridge University in England did a study to determine the different effects starvation had on lean people versus obese people. The study can be found here: http://www.unu.edu/unupress/food2/UID07E/uid0 7e11.htm. Let’s just cut to the chase with this study.

    Does starvation mode slow down the metabolism? No and Yes.

    In the first 2 days of starvation, there is a small absolute increase in basic metabolic rate relative to values obtained from overnight fasting. Overnight fasting is what every one of us does during our sleeping hours. So it is not true that going below recommended calories for one day is going to slow down your metabolism -- quite the contrary, it may speed it up just a little. Of course, this is just limited to the first few days. After that, studies in fact support that “starvation mode” slows down metabolism.

    Does Starvation mode cause our bodies to catabilize (devour our muscles and other lean mass)? Yes and No.

    Lean individuals lost great amounts of fat-free, lean tissue during starvation, but obese individuals lost much more fat tissue. The loss of lean mass is not as critical to the obese person simply because an obese person has more lean mass than a person of the same age and height but normal weight. Here we get to a basic idea that makes sense – fat storage – the same way animals build up bulk to rely on during the winter, obese people have fat stores they can use (to a limited extent) in times of need. This means that the effects of a semi-starvation diet upon a normal weight individual are of course much more devastating than the effects on someone who is obese.

    Finally, some conclusions. Does all this mean I should reduce my caloric intake below the minimum recommended as an effective way to lose weight? If you think the answer is yes, then you haven’t carefully read everything here, so I will spell it out:

    Let’s start by clearing up that major myth I see repeated over and over again in the forums: that a single day or even a few days of extreme caloric restrictions forces your body into starvation mode, significantly reducing your metabolism and causing you to lose muscles. Not true. You may, in fact, lose weight in the short term. Your body does not go into starvation mode after a few days of extreme calorie restricted eating.

    However, let’s look again at the Minnesota study for further compelling evidence why semi-starvation is not a good idea for long-term weight loss. In the latter half of the Minnesota Starvation Study the men were allowed to eat ad libitum again. Researchers found they had insatiable appetites, yet never felt full, these effects continued for months afterwards. Semi-starvation diets don’t work long-term for this simple reason – under ordinary pressures, when eating resumes, people put the weight back on and oftentimes, gain more.

    And let’s not forget the other physical and psychological effects mentioned earlier. Any of those sound appealing to you? Reduced concentration or sexual function anyone? The Cambridge study also looked at several deaths from people who undertook extreme starvation diets, particularly those that did not create a good nutritional balance in the calories that were consumed.

    Bottom line, you should do adequate research and dietary analysis to ensure you are getting the best nutrition you can for your calories.
  • shellyamundson
    shellyamundson Posts: 13 Member
    I, too, was really, really disciplined for about 3 weeks and GAINED weight. Truly disgusted with myself, I walked away for about a week and re-examined my diet. (I lose the same 10-15 pounds every other year, then put it back on in times of stress). In the end, I decided I have too many cute, skinny clothes to give up! So, I restarted yesterday with a low-carb approach. Something I hoped not to have to resort to, but has always worked in the past. I'm also going to brutally honest about what I eat - something I have to admit I may not have been before. I wanted it to be easy and pain-free.

    Don't give up, but do not stick to something that isn't working for you. (that is the very definition of insanity) Tweak something every week until you find the combination of eating and exercise that works for you. Once you get the fat-burning engine going, it is amazing the results you can achieve.
  • LKW59
    LKW59 Posts: 28
    I too have not lost weight. I have been on a weight training program 3 days a week for 8 weeks. Cardio the other three days. 1000 calorie deficit.

    However I have lost inches in my waist and I can feel my ribs. I think my problem is not giving up wine and my weekends of lately have been a train wreck. i.e. eating out too much. But, I have not gained weight either. I just maintain it. And I feel better and stronger. At 54 I don't have a problem NOT being rail thin. I'm currently 168 @ 5' 6"
  • Thank you for you that superman (or is Kalel your real man) that was really interesting and informative. The proffering of non scientific, unsubstantiated or researched data really annoys huh? Just guessing. I like that you have researched all the information you have imparted to me, not least because it means I don't have to. Thanks this was really helpful.
  • inspiredjen34
    inspiredjen34 Posts: 63 Member
    I was stuck for the longest time and not losing anything. It took a few months to finally start losing a few ounces and then a lb and so on. It took me over a year to lose the 34 lbs that I lost. It takes dedication and patience. We all know that it takes a long time for it to come off. Just remember to not give up.
  • I've been following my caloric guideline and eating good food. After five days I have put on two pounds. So what is going on?
  • Over a couple of years, I've gone from 337 lbs to 210 lbs and stalled for a few weeks now; however my waist is getting smaller and my body is getting toned, so I'm alright with it. I guess you have to balance caloric intake and exercize.