Anybody heard of The Chive?!

Just go on the sister website, The Berry. They have Hot Men Of The Berry (HMOTB) so... revenge?

All I know is that Chive people are obsessed with Bill Murray.

There are people in the world who aren't?

Should I be concerned and jealous that he looks at this website?

No, you shouldn't. Looking at the website alone is not cause for concern. Assuming you have an otherwise healthy relationship you're being silly. He is not with those girls, he is with you because he thinks you're attractive and loves you.

Do you watch The Walking Dead and swoon over Daryl? Like the movie Magic Mike? The notebook? etc It's just a form of entertainment...no different.

All I know is that Chive people are obsessed with Bill Murray.

There are people in the world who aren't?

You got me there. :laugh:

Not gonna lie, as I am going through this process of trying to lose weight and get in good shape, it bothers me that my boyfriend looks at these girls

So you never look at other men then?

I like Chive and I also like Reddit

I don't care if my hubby looks at half naked women, or porn, or both... and to honest he can oggle real life ladies too. Hell, I've even told him a drunk make out is fine just be honest about it.

However, We've been together for 15 years and I know that he knows where his bread is buttered lol.

Besides.... If I complain about his oggleing of the ladies... he might make me take down my computer wall paper full of half naked, very ripped yummy yummy men and not let me oggle the very ripped, yummy men in my life too lol ;-)

(It all goes both ways!!)

Sounds like you're insecure. Unless your boyfriend is extremely uninterested in you, try not to worry so much.

I finally got an e-mail yesterday that my size of KCCO shirts was available to buy. F*ckers sold out as fast as I clicked the link.

Insecurity and distrust. Unless you have a real deep-seated reason to think he's cheating on you, get over it. If you are that worried about it, then you probably shouldn't be with him. My husband looks at the Chive and shares stuff from it with me on a daily basis. It's a little annoying, but I'm sure it's like me sharing photos from Facebook with him.

I had an ex that, for some reason, I always felt jealousy with. I later found that he had been cheating, although twelve years later he still wouldn't admit it. If your guy is hiding phone calls and texts, that is a problem. If he's looking at the Chive, you are overreacting based on your insecurity.

So I too am affected by this as my bf looks at this daily, (who is 44 btw) certainly not to the extent of discussing or ordering things from the site, but still bothers me. I've caught him, shoot his mom caught him when they were over visiting last summer. I get guys are visual, but they don't have to be disrespectful about it. We females understand you're gonna look, just don't do around us or when you're with us. We want to think we are the only hot girl in your world (even if we know not true, we want to be made to feel that way and treated as such, while with us and not be disrespectful). I think if they do it with their guys, not as bad, but shouldn't be a bad habit or in front of their gf/fiancé ir wife). I try to ignore and not bring up because that does no good. He has stopped some behaviors he knows causes me to feel insecure, I think any girl would, then wonders why I want bigger boobs and plastic surgery-really? You *kitten* men cause this by being disrespectful in front of your girl. I also want to agree with someone who said it's more bothersome then porn, porn is unattainable and unrealistic/fantasy for the most part, the Chive hot girls seems more realistic and attainable which worries us pretty girls into thinking and feeling "are we not hot or good enough, or why would he do that, is he not satisfied?"
We feel like crap when guys do that. It's hard enough being a women, but I swear social media has ruined many people and relationships because people will get caught and end up hurting people looking and "liking" pictures of random hot strangers-for what??
I'm going to write to the Chive and ask why they don't have a category of hot guys like they do for hot girls as that would only be fair and Id like to see what bf's think and feel like when their girl is looking at hot guys!!!

Swimgatorchic wrote: »

I'm going to write to the Chive and ask why they don't have a category of hot guys like they do for hot girls as that would only be fair and Id like to see what bf's think and feel like when their girl is looking at hot guys!!!

They have a related site called http://theberry.com for the female perspective.

Don't be concerned. There's the female version called theberry. They have workout motivation pics, and also photos of hot guys who are in shape. Any guy can post their photos there too, not just models. It's pretty much the same thing as the chive, but has more women.

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