Just Quit Smoking -Advice

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  • pinkledoodledoo
    pinkledoodledoo Posts: 290 Member
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    I quit a year and a half ago using nicotine patches. They were just the thing that worked best for me, everyone is different. After quitting I developed allergies I never knew I had and became much more susceptible to sinus infections. I also gained 70 lbs because I did not pay close attention to the snacking... I satisfied the oral fixation whenever it suited me and I regret it now but I'm glad I no longer smoke so it was a trade off. I recommend staying away from smokers as much as possible for a few months. That really helped me. I even made the smokers that visited my house cut back while they were over or not smoke at all while there because I couldn't handle it being in front of me right away. Good luck and I really hope it works out for you! It's a tough habit to break but once you do, you will feel SO much better about being rid of the burden of that addiction.
  • 1daylate1dollarshort
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    Oh, I'm so good at quitting smoking I've probably done it 10 times and I'm 27. Longest stretch was 3 years and I DID use the e-cig. Worked like a charm. Didn't smoke at all and then I got stupid and proud and thought I was invincible. Started bumming smokes in public while drinking because I thought I'd look like a weirdo with the e-cig. What a dumb thing.

    Anyway, I recently had to quit again after another 3 year smoking stint. I did it the same way. I used patches at first, then I bought the e-cig. It is a switchover for me. I will continue to use it so that I don't smoke. 3 years was the longest I'd ever gone without smoking. The patches work for a while, but when I get off the last step, I am always more moody than I'd ever want to be. It sucks.

    Anyway, I didn't gain weight any of the times I quit. The thing I did the first time around before I got the e-cigs was chew gum. That was so that I wouldn't try to eat to satisfy an urge to smoke. This time, I would just say "okay, you JUST ate, you are not hungry, you want to smoke" then I'd sit back down and wait to actually feel hungry.

    It's different for everyone. Good job making the decision and keep it going! You should be proud of yourself. Read up on how your body recovers the longer you've been smoke-free. That always made me smile and want to continue.
  • Kitship
    Kitship Posts: 579 Member
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    7. Don't try e-cigarettes. You'll just look like a douche. History will prove me right.


    This is the worst piece of advice ever. E-cigs DO help people. Why does it matter how they look? 3 members of my family successfully quit smoking with help from an e-cig. They have since quit the e-cig as well. You can also lower the amount of nicotine in the e-cig over time in order to wean yourself off of the nicotine. Nothing wrong with using one to assist you, especially in the first couple of months into quitting.
  • Roughgalaxy
    Roughgalaxy Posts: 219 Member
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    they way I stopped smoking was by reading Allan Carr's easy way to stop smoking. It's a bit repetitive but it really helped. I went into it total skeptic and not even trying to quit, read it over the course of 1 day... and by the time I finished the last chapter, I never touched a smoke again. I think you can pick up the small book for about 10 bucks.
  • slk_5555
    slk_5555 Posts: 177 Member
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    Not sure about the looking like a douche part, but I agree. e-cigs are supplying nicotine just like the tabacco kind. Nicotine is what you are addicted to. Stop using nicotine. As data is collected regarding e-cigs, I believe we will see more and more young people getting cancer from using them. No smokes are safe. I don't care what the marketing says.


    Maybe instead of marketing, you should look at actual research done on them.

    http://informahealthcare.com/doi/abs/10.3109/08958378.2013.793439

    http://www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/10/10/5146

    http://www.biomedcentral.com/content/pdf/1471-2458-14-18.pdf

    http://www.ecigarette-research.com/EUROECHO2013-ecigs.pdf

    http://ntr.oxfordjournals.org/content/early/2013/12/10/ntr.ntt203.short?rss=1

    www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/10/10/5146/pdf

    publichealth.drexel.edu/~/media/Files/publichealth/ms08.ashx

    http://www.healthnz.co.nz/ECigsExhaledSmoke.htm

    http://jpet.aspetjournals.org/content/91/1/52.abstract

    In the UK they are not being marketed as an aid to quit smoking at all. They are marketed as a 'new way to smoke' using terms such as 'Take your smoking to a new level' and 'heighten your smoking pleasure' . The branding is no different from years back when cigarette companies advertised, they are suggesting it is cool & enjoyable. One of the main brands here in the UK is called 'VIP'.

    Medical research is of little value, if it is marketed as a 'replacement' for smoking rather than an aid to quit. I understand the big cigarette companies are investing in this. Also, if it was an aid to quit, it would have to be regulated (medically) and in the UK, it is not regulated, so it is not considered a pharmaceutical product.

    With regard to the OP - if you have managed without any nicotine replacement so far - stick with it.
  • JCLondonUK
    JCLondonUK Posts: 159
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    I quit last October using an e-cig. It's awesome, I didn't even want to smoke! It's the only think that ever worked for me.

    Just out of curiosity, are you still using the e-cig or have you gone off that as well? My friends have used them differently, some weaning themselves off the e-cig and some just doing a straight swap to full on Vaping enthusiasts.

    I quit a year ago using an e-cig (as did some of my friends) and now I'm a vaping enthusiast. If you can manage without them, then do, but e-cigs are a vastly better, healthier, cheaper and tastier alternative to smoking, and after a while with them cigarettes taste disgusting so they're very effective for quitting. If you're really struggling with a craving to smoke, better an ecig than a cigarette.

    Oh, and ignore the poster who thinks e-cigs cause cancer. Ignorance abounds!

    Congratulations on deciding to quit. You won't regret it. Good luck! :smile:
  • slk_5555
    slk_5555 Posts: 177 Member
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    they way I stopped smoking was by reading Allan Carr's easy way to stop smoking. It's a bit repetitive but it really helped. I went into it total skeptic and not even trying to quit, read it over the course of 1 day... and by the time I finished the last chapter, I never touched a smoke again. I think you can pick up the small book for about 10 bucks.

    Great book. Yeah a bit repetitive, but puts it all in perspective. It was a great help to me too.
  • eddiesmith1
    eddiesmith1 Posts: 1,550 Member
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    Not sure about the looking like a douche part, but I agree. e-cigs are supplying nicotine just like the tabacco kind. Nicotine is what you are addicted to. Stop using nicotine. As data is collected regarding e-cigs, I believe we will see more and more young people getting cancer from using them. No smokes are safe. I don't care what the marketing says.


    Maybe instead of marketing, you should look at actual research done on them.

    http://informahealthcare.com/doi/abs/10.3109/08958378.2013.793439

    http://www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/10/10/5146

    http://www.biomedcentral.com/content/pdf/1471-2458-14-18.pdf

    http://www.ecigarette-research.com/EUROECHO2013-ecigs.pdf

    http://ntr.oxfordjournals.org/content/early/2013/12/10/ntr.ntt203.short?rss=1

    www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/10/10/5146/pdf

    publichealth.drexel.edu/~/media/Files/publichealth/ms08.ashx

    http://www.healthnz.co.nz/ECigsExhaledSmoke.htm

    http://jpet.aspetjournals.org/content/91/1/52.abstract

    While I agree they are better than Cigarette how much of that research was funded by the tobacco lobby? htey are notorious for biased research and have been snce it first came out smoking and cancer were linked in 1964,
    Every big tobacco player is in the E-Cig game and they are the ones who fought to allow Nicotine in them. As long as they have you inhaling Nicotine they have you. I quit using several nicotine replacement sytems over the years and always ended up smoking again. You've not truly quit unless you have quit Nicotine. Big Tobacco knows this why do you think they are in all versions of the nicotine replacement game and why they fought to have it so readily available (it's less regulated than cigarettes some places and they are trying to sell vaping as cool - notice all the vaping boards etc, got news for you they are marketing tools for Big Tobacco

    The best plan is quit Nicotine cold. it will clear your system in 72 hours. If you need it use the other drug therapies to help with the anxieties and get support form friends and family
    (and vaping is not just water, it's water plus additives without long term testing or implications having been done -just substituting one habit for another and that never works long term
  • JenToms80
    JenToms80 Posts: 373 Member
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    Firstly dont be too hard on yourself if you do turn to snacks initally - you are giving up a highly addictive habit! :)
    Once you feel that you have your cravings under control and you start feel the benefits of quitting...those healthy feelings will affect all areas of your life.

    I had had my last cigarette on 31st December 2013 and so far so good, I have purposely kept away from situations that I know I would normally "fall of the wagon" in - so for me its going to the pub!

    Also I kept a mental list of things that cigarettes were potentially stopping me from doing physically - for me it was increasing my running distance and putting myself up for races.

    Well done on giving up those little buggers!
  • slk_5555
    slk_5555 Posts: 177 Member
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    Not sure about the looking like a douche part, but I agree. e-cigs are supplying nicotine just like the tabacco kind. Nicotine is what you are addicted to. Stop using nicotine. As data is collected regarding e-cigs, I believe we will see more and more young people getting cancer from using them. No smokes are safe. I don't care what the marketing says.


    Maybe instead of marketing, you should look at actual research done on them.

    http://informahealthcare.com/doi/abs/10.3109/08958378.2013.793439

    http://www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/10/10/5146

    http://www.biomedcentral.com/content/pdf/1471-2458-14-18.pdf

    http://www.ecigarette-research.com/EUROECHO2013-ecigs.pdf

    http://ntr.oxfordjournals.org/content/early/2013/12/10/ntr.ntt203.short?rss=1

    www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/10/10/5146/pdf

    publichealth.drexel.edu/~/media/Files/publichealth/ms08.ashx

    http://www.healthnz.co.nz/ECigsExhaledSmoke.htm

    http://jpet.aspetjournals.org/content/91/1/52.abstract

    While I agree they are better than Cigarette how much of that research was funded by the tobacco lobby? htey are notorious for biased research and have been snce it first came out smoking and cancer were linked in 1964,
    Every big tobacco player is in the E-Cig game and they are the ones who fought to allow Nicotine in them. As long as they have you inhaling Nicotine they have you. I quit using several nicotine replacement sytems over the years and always ended up smoking again. You've not truly quit unless you have quit Nicotine. Big Tobacco knows this why do you think they are in all versions of the nicotine replacement game and why they fought to have it so readily available (it's less regulated than cigarettes some places and they are trying to sell vaping as cool - notice all the vaping boards etc, got news for you they are marketing tools for Big Tobacco

    The best plan is quit Nicotine cold. it will clear your system in 72 hours. If you need it use the other drug therapies to help with the anxieties and get support form friends and family
    (and vaping is not just water, it's water plus additives without long term testing or implications having been done -just substituting one habit for another and that never works long term

    Well said....completely agree with this.
  • puffbear
    puffbear Posts: 4 Member
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    Good for you!! Great decision for yourself. I quit in 2001, my biggest issue was the hand to mouth habit, I got some plastic coffee stir sticks ( I guess straws would do the same thing) BUT I cut them in half and put a bunch in a baggie in my purse so that whenever I had that "Moment" I could grab one. Eventually, I did not do that anymore. This is something I learned when I attempted to quite years before 2001 a Kaiser nurse told me "NEVER QUIT TRYING TO QUIT" I remember that phrase to this day and put to good use with a lot of other things too. Good luck, you will be able to call yourself a non-smoker and it will be awesome!!
  • NickeeCoco
    NickeeCoco Posts: 130
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    I quit a little over a year ago after 16 years of smoking. I quit cold turkey. I just decided that I wasn't going to smoke anymore.

    The advice I have:

    STAY AWAY FROM SITUATIONS WHERE YOU USED TO SMOKE ALL THE TIME.

    I don't know what your habits were, but I used to smoke at bars a lot. So, for a few months, I stayed away from them.

    I also used to smoke while cooking. No, not in the kitchen, I smoked outside. I had a horrible habit of timing everything in the kitchen by how long it took to smoke a cigarette. When I'd get the urge to have a smoke while cooking (which was the biggest urge I had), I'd just pace around a bit. Chew some gum. A hard candy. Just something to get that oral fix out of the way. The pacing around my house (my house is built for pacing, since the hall leads into the kitchen which leads into the dining room which leads into the living room, which leads back to the hall) just kept me from going crazy. I won't lie, that took a solid four to five months to crack.

    Those two were my biggest triggers. You just have to look at what your big triggers are and find ways to cope with them.
  • DJManos
    DJManos Posts: 220
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    The key is to find what works for YOU. I smoked for 25 years and quit a million times. I tried everything....gum, patches, meds, even hypnosis. What finally worked for me was ecigs. I still use one but with 0% nicotine.
  • Mama_Jag
    Mama_Jag Posts: 474 Member
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    I am not even close to referring to myself as an ex-smoker

    Actually, my very first piece of advice IS to refer to yourself as an ex-smoker. As soon as I changed my mindset from smoker to nonsmoker, the game changed for me. (I quit 5 years ago after smoking for 14).

    Nonsmokers don't smoke. Ever.

    I also agree with just stopping - I don't personally agree with swapping one habit for another. I do not believe e-cigs are "just inhaling water vapor". There is nicotine in some cases and also chemical additives. If it was just water vapor, which has no flavor or nicotine, no one would do it.
  • LeahNMe
    LeahNMe Posts: 73 Member
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    I quit five months ago using an e-cig. Even with that the cravings were there for a good few weeks before i finally called myself a "non smoker"
    Don't obsess about your weight, that is the downfall of a lot of people who try to quit. Or do but only in a healthy way.
    Keeping hands busy, washing all your old clothes, spraying down the car or any other area you smoked in. Just anything to get away from the smell of cigg smoke, new and old.
    Wash your hands a lot when you first stop, the nicotine stays with you for a while and I have heard that washing your hands keeps the odor away from your nose.
    I still love to smell cigs when someone else is smoking but I don't want one anymore.
    At your normal "smoke break" times find something else to quickly occupy your mind. The cravings come and come hard but will only last for a a few minutes, get past that and that's one more cig you didn't smoke.
    Congratulations on making some awesome life changes!
  • kbradford26
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    Good for you! I know how hard that is. After 3-5 days, the nicotine will be gone from your system, but the addiction will certainly not be gone. I quit about 5 months ago, and I still think about it constantly. Like choosing to eat better, and live healthier, choosing not to smoke is a decision you'll have to consciously make everyday.

    Things that helped me were drinking TONS of water (it helped me keep my mouth busy, and it helped me detox my body), knitting (seriously...), and making mental and physical lists of all of the reasons that I don't want to smoke anymore. My shortlist:

    1) It makes me feel gross
    2) It causes a lot of diseases that I can easily avoid if I stop, and I want to live a long and fruitful life
    3) It makes me smell bad
    4) It's bad for my teeth, my skin, and my hair
    5) It cost me almost $300 a month. Saving money is a huge incentive
    6) It was a crutch for me to cope with bigger issues.

    For me, I had anxiety that was quelled by smoking. After I quit, my anxiety spiked. I realized that there was probably more to it than just being in withdrawal. That's when you should see your doctor or a counselor. Just like food, sometimes we smoke for more complex reasons than just nicotine.

    Best of luck to you! It gets easier every day :)
  • eddiesmith1
    eddiesmith1 Posts: 1,550 Member
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    I still love to smell cigs when someone else is smoking but I don't want one anymore.

    That hung with me for a while too, the other night when walking the dog i was stuck on the sidewalk behind a guy smoking and I crossed the road and used the other sidewalk because i dislike the smell now (i seemed to really begin hating the smell around 6 -7 months)
  • marciebrian
    marciebrian Posts: 853 Member
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    congratulations to you!!!! best thing you could do for yourself. I quit 5 years ago and had no negative side effects at all. I was ready to quit and I just did it. Didn't gain weight (possibly 1-2 water lbs) and only good things happened including not stinking LOL!
  • MaxJAshmore
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    Hi, I gave up smoking (after 35 years of the habit) just 5 months ago and this is the reason why I am here because I put on 2 stone!!
    I have brought a fitbit and joined here in the hope of not starting again, I don't want to but the weight gain is really getting me down!!!

    Sorry I have no advice, just someone in the same boat :(
  • dianalee9
    dianalee9 Posts: 134 Member
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    First of all, Congratulations on quitting!

    I quit smoking last July. I had been smoking for 15 years. I didn't take anything to help with cravings except I used an e-cig. I just made up my mind that I wanted to quit. There is a brand of e-cigs that is nicotine free, they're called Smoke NV, you can purchase them online. I found that they helped with the hand/mouth cravings. I found that I craved the habit more than the nicotine, especially on my morning drive to work, the e-cig helped a lot.

    The best advice I can give you is this:(this is what helped me)
    1) Keep working out! When you start to notice how your workouts are becoming easier and easier every week because your lung capacity is improving, it will motivate you to stick with it. It is such an amazing feeling to be able to push yourself until your muscles scream at you instead of your lungs!
    2) If/When you start to crave a smoke, instead of saying, "No, I'm not going to cave in", tell yourself, "I DON'T smoke" or "I'm not a smoker". Tell yourself that you HAVE quit smoking, not that you ARE quitting. This is a battle that has to be won mentally.
    3) Put the money that you would use to buy smokes in a bank account. When you get bad craving, go look at the balance and ask yourself if you want to pi$$ it away again. After a month, or what ever time you set, use that money to buy yourself something.
    4) Smoking is a very social activity, so that makes it hard when you have friends who smoke. Tell them all that you have quit. Hopefully they'll be supportive. I found that the e-cig helped with this. When I first quit and was out with friends who smoke, I would still join them with my e-cig. They laughed at me at first, but seeing me smoke-free for 9 months has caused many of them to come and ask for help to quit also.
    5) Any time I got a bad craving at home, I went and worked out. After my workout, I didn't want to smoke.
    6) To help fight snacking: chew gum. Have plenty of healthy snacks ready to go like carrot and celery sticks. Drink lots of water, it keeps you full and you won't want to snack.
    7) Go online and look up the benefits of quitting, find the list that shows the changes in you body after so many hours, days, and weeks. Also, look up things like "smokers face". If you crave a smoke, look up the bad things about it. Train your mind to associate smoking with all the gross and disgusting aspects about it.
    8) Log everything that you eat. I logged with MFP and only gained 5 pounds over 2 months. Without tracking my food, I'm sure I would have packed on at least 20 pounds more.
    9) Don't be afraid to kick your own *kitten*!!!! No one else can do this for you!

    These are a few things that helped me. I didn't look to see where you live, but some places also have help lines where you can call for free help and advice on quitting. What I found most effective is #7, then each time I craved a smoke, I started to automatically think of all the bad things and the craving would be gone. Now, I hate the smell of cigarette smoke. Three months after I had quit smoking, I had to go for a fit test to see if I could wear a respirator at work. Part of this test was a lung capacity test. I had to blow in this little machine until it beeped. My lungs would be empty within a couple seconds, but you still had to sit there and keep blowing. My report told me that my "lung age" was 30 (which I was at the time). I asked the lady doing the test what kind of results she sees from smokers, she said that most smokers my age who get tested will get a "lung age" of 65 years or higher!!

    As for those who are scared of weight gain, I looked at it this way: "I can either quit smoking, put a few pounds on now that I will be able to take off later (and it will be much easier without smoking); OR I can keep smoking and not work out and be unhealthy, stinky, and fat for the rest of my life. And instead of earning a smoking hot body, I'll have pi$$ed thousands of dollars away and will have an ugly, wrinkly, leather-bag smokers face".

    I hope this helps! Good luck!!! Remember you're stronger than you think!