Friends Requests

Tight_Fit
Tight_Fit Posts: 453
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I get anywhere from 5-15 friends requests a day from guys that say right in their message/request that they're adding to creep my pictures..

why?

Do any other females have this happening?
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  • branflakes1980
    branflakes1980 Posts: 2,516 Member
    You must have sparked their interest with the bikini picture, or the super hot dress with awesome stilettos, and or the bootay in the yoga pants. But I'm gonna go ahead and say it most likely was the thong bikini picture, but the bright side.. Atleast they are being honest.
  • MB2MN
    MB2MN Posts: 334 Member
    Not very often. Do you have your pics available for all to see? If it bothers you put a picture that isn't of you as your main pic and then put your settings so that non-friends can't see your other pics. Then nobody but your friends will know what you look like and then you're less likely to get creepy messages.
  • Tight_Fit
    Tight_Fit Posts: 453
    You must have sparked their interest with the bikini picture, or the super hot dress with awesome stilettos, and or the bootay in the yoga pants. But I'm gonna go ahead and say it most likely was the thong bikini picture, but the bright side.. Atleast they are being honest.

    I get the honesty, but the way they message me is just disgusting. :sick:
    We're talking married men, men who are in their 50's, men who see that I'm married and ask extremely obscene questions.
    The whole point of pictures is to try and motivate others and show them that yeah, it's possible! lol
    And I didn't post a picture of a thong bikini, it's a regular bathing suit..
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
    You must have sparked their interest with the bikini picture, or the super hot dress with awesome stilettos, and or the bootay in the yoga pants. But I'm gonna go ahead and say it most likely was the thong bikini picture, but the bright side.. Atleast they are being honest.

    Second that..She's right
  • Tight_Fit
    Tight_Fit Posts: 453
    Not very often. Do you have your pics available for all to see? If it bothers you put a picture that isn't of you as your main pic and then put your settings so that non-friends can't see your other pics. Then nobody but your friends will know what you look like and then you're less likely to get creepy messages.

    I already have it all set up so non friends can't see my pictures. That's why they're sending me FR, so that they can see them.
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
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    Nope
  • MB2MN
    MB2MN Posts: 334 Member
    Not very often. Do you have your pics available for all to see? If it bothers you put a picture that isn't of you as your main pic and then put your settings so that non-friends can't see your other pics. Then nobody but your friends will know what you look like and then you're less likely to get creepy messages.

    I already have it all set up so non friends can't see my pictures. That's why they're sending me FR, so that they can see them.

    Well then it likely has something to do with posts on the forums...if you post sexy pics on there of course people are going to message and try to add you. There are creepy men out there...get used to it. If you don't want to deal with it then don't post pics. Sure its gross that someone twice your age is thinking about you that way, but it's going to keep happening.
  • mshopey
    mshopey Posts: 125 Member
    Can't go anywhere online without encountering perverts.
    Just happens, it's worth it for the inspiration you're sending people.
    Just ignore them, you're the better person.
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
    Can't go anywhere online without encountering perverts.
    Just happens, it's worth it for the inspiration you're sending people.
    Just ignore them, you're the better person.

    :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :drinker:
  • PghPensFan69
    PghPensFan69 Posts: 2,393 Member
    I get anywhere from 5-15 friends requests a day from guys that say right in their message/request that they're adding to creep my pictures..

    why?

    Do any other females have this happening?

    Yes, a lot of females have this happen. Some of my friends get unsolicited junk shots as well. Just a fact of life here.

    That being said, women do it as well.
  • branflakes1980
    branflakes1980 Posts: 2,516 Member
    You must have sparked their interest with the bikini picture, or the super hot dress with awesome stilettos, and or the bootay in the yoga pants. But I'm gonna go ahead and say it most likely was the thong bikini picture, but the bright side.. Atleast they are being honest.

    I get the honesty, but the way they message me is just disgusting. :sick:
    We're talking married men, men who are in their 50's, men who see that I'm married and ask extremely obscene questions.
    The whole point of pictures is to try and motivate others and show them that yeah, it's possible! lol

    Yeah, I get your good intentions and I am a fan of your whole transformation. Unfortunately this is the internet. While I have managed to build a friend list of amazing, dedicated great people there are people out there that use this as their life outside their life. It is what it is. This is where they come to be able to say the things that they do because there are no real life consequences. I would say to just ignore them, or once you get a PM from them you can block them.

    ETA that it may have been a regular bathing suit but it wasn't really visible on the back side. Definitely more cheek than suit :smile:
  • Cudleigh
    Cudleigh Posts: 188 Member
    I'm curious; do you reply to any of them, or just ignore them?

    Most of the time, I just ignore any messages that I find offensive/make me uncomfortable. Sometimes I'll tell them off for it (if I'm having a bad day or it's especially vulgar/rude) but I don't think that actually accomplishes anything, at least in my experience.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I almost never get friend requests wtf is wrong with me
  • Tight_Fit
    Tight_Fit Posts: 453
    You must have sparked their interest with the bikini picture, or the super hot dress with awesome stilettos, and or the bootay in the yoga pants. But I'm gonna go ahead and say it most likely was the thong bikini picture, but the bright side.. Atleast they are being honest.

    I get the honesty, but the way they message me is just disgusting. :sick:
    We're talking married men, men who are in their 50's, men who see that I'm married and ask extremely obscene questions.
    The whole point of pictures is to try and motivate others and show them that yeah, it's possible! lol

    Yeah, I get your good intentions and I am a fan of your whole transformation. Unfortunately this is the internet. While I have managed to build a friend list of amazing, dedicated great people there are people out there that use this as their life outside their life. It is what it is. This is where they come to be able to say the things that they do because there are no real life consequences. I would say to just ignore them, or once you get a PM from them you can block them.

    I had no idea you could block them!
  • Tight_Fit
    Tight_Fit Posts: 453
    I'm curious; do you reply to any of them, or just ignore them?

    Most of the time, I just ignore any messages that I find offensive/make me uncomfortable. Sometimes I'll tell them off for it (if I'm having a bad day or it's especially vulgar/rude) but I don't think that actually accomplishes anything, at least in my experience.

    At first I was replying saying in no way was I going to answer their perverse questions, but now I've just been ignoring them.
  • Tight_Fit
    Tight_Fit Posts: 453
    I almost never get friend requests wtf is wrong with me

    Why would you assume that means there's something wrong with you? :huh:
  • MB2MN
    MB2MN Posts: 334 Member
    You must have sparked their interest with the bikini picture, or the super hot dress with awesome stilettos, and or the bootay in the yoga pants. But I'm gonna go ahead and say it most likely was the thong bikini picture, but the bright side.. Atleast they are being honest.

    I get the honesty, but the way they message me is just disgusting. :sick:
    We're talking married men, men who are in their 50's, men who see that I'm married and ask extremely obscene questions.
    The whole point of pictures is to try and motivate others and show them that yeah, it's possible! lol

    Yeah, I get your good intentions and I am a fan of your whole transformation. Unfortunately this is the internet. While I have managed to build a friend list of amazing, dedicated great people there are people out there that use this as their life outside their life. It is what it is. This is where they come to be able to say the things that they do because there are no real life consequences. I would say to just ignore them, or once you get a PM from them you can block them.

    I had no idea you could block them!

    Yep. Button right beside the reply one. Just use it whenever you get a creep!
  • edisonsbulb
    edisonsbulb Posts: 93 Member
    I only get that many FR's when I shave the hump on my back.
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I'm pretty sure it NEVER happens to anyone else. You want to know the very best way to make sure it stops? Make a thread about it. Good luck getting men to stop messaging you! :flowerforyou:
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    :laugh:
  • Tight_Fit
    Tight_Fit Posts: 453
    I'm pretty sure it NEVER happens to anyone else. You want to know the very best way to make sure it stops? Make a thread about it. Good luck getting men to stop messaging you! :flowerforyou:


    Wow someone's bitter. :flowerforyou:
  • mcibty
    mcibty Posts: 1,252 Member
    No I don't.

    SHOW OFF.
  • mcibty
    mcibty Posts: 1,252 Member
    I'm pretty sure it NEVER happens to anyone else. You want to know the very best way to make sure it stops? Make a thread about it. Good luck getting men to stop messaging you! :flowerforyou:


    Wow someone's bitter. :flowerforyou:

    Lol, someone's right, though.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    Can't go anywhere online without encountering perverts.

    If perverts aren't sending me things... does that mean I'm the pervert?


    i don't think i am..... but now, i just don't know.


    brb - sitting in the corner contemplating my online presence
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I only get that many FR's when I shave the hump on my back.

    probably the only post on this website to actually make me laugh ever :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    +10000
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I'm pretty sure it NEVER happens to anyone else. You want to know the very best way to make sure it stops? Make a thread about it. Good luck getting men to stop messaging you! :flowerforyou:


    Wow someone's bitter. :flowerforyou:

    Yep. As day old coffee. It's really sad what a bitter, jealous person I am!
  • Tight_Fit
    Tight_Fit Posts: 453
    I'm pretty sure it NEVER happens to anyone else. You want to know the very best way to make sure it stops? Make a thread about it. Good luck getting men to stop messaging you! :flowerforyou:


    Wow someone's bitter. :flowerforyou:

    Yep. As day old coffee. It's really sad what a bitter, jealous person I am!

    Judging by your attitude I'd bet that you are. Pathetic girl.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I almost never get friend requests wtf is wrong with me

    Why would you assume that means there's something wrong with you? :huh:

    I WANNA BE COOL LIKE YOU :frown:
  • Tight_Fit
    Tight_Fit Posts: 453
    I'm pretty sure it NEVER happens to anyone else. You want to know the very best way to make sure it stops? Make a thread about it. Good luck getting men to stop messaging you! :flowerforyou:


    Wow someone's bitter. :flowerforyou:

    Lol, someone's right, though.

    I came here to ask a question, not have sad girl's hate on me.
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I'm pretty sure it NEVER happens to anyone else. You want to know the very best way to make sure it stops? Make a thread about it. Good luck getting men to stop messaging you! :flowerforyou:


    Wow someone's bitter. :flowerforyou:

    Yep. As day old coffee. It's really sad what a bitter, jealous person I am!

    Judging by your attitude I'd bet that you are. Pathetic girl.

    Bless your little heart.

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