Gaining Weight - Very Depressed

I think it's natural to get into a lull every once in awhile, but that certainly doesn't mean you've fallen off the bandwagon. Think of it as a "break!"

I know that I was on a killer "streak" and one day, for whatever reason, I forgot to log my food. One day turned into two, then three, and before I knew it, I hadn't used MFP in over a month. Because I wasn't taking accountability of what I was eating and "watching my calories," I did put on some extra weight that I worked hard to take off. Add to that, I also stopped going to the gym. Mind you, this was also during the holidays.

You mentioned that you were working towards a goal: Italy in November. Well, work towards another. Summer is right around the corner, maybe you want to feel comfortable or even fit into something new for the season.

I recently got back on track, and now I'm on a "23 day streak." Just pick yourself back up and continue on with the race. It's your journey! Just always keep the finish line in mind -- your goal!

Best of luck, you can do it -- you have before!

Sounds like you are motivated by events/activities. Perhaps book another trip? It doesn't have to be something major, like Italy, but even a long weekend somewhere can be a nice incentive. You can devise "rewards" for milestones... a new piece of clothing, new shoes, a mani/pedi, etc. Were you working out? Are you now? Doing so regularly can not only help you lose, but some days it's hard for me to eat awful knowing it will null and void the workout I did. Find workouts you like to do. Do you have people that inspire you? Find some... look at the success stories on the boards, look at before/afters on Instagram...find someone in your real life that has done it. Create a "motivation board" for visual motivators. Get subscriptions to some fitness magazines - great tips, recipes, and stories. Are you doing this alone?... partner up with someone to help each other. If you can, find someone who is already getting fit and healthy - they can better guide you. Have you found healthy ways to make some of your favorite foods? It helps to look at what you love to it and find alternate ways to make it lower cal/more healthy. Does dieting everyday work for you or would eating low cal during the week and having one cheat day, or even doing a feast/fast program be better for you.

Motivation is the hardest thing... it is different for everyone, and what motivates you one month may not the next. Sometimes a motivator presents itself, other times it must be sought out. It's good to have more than one at all times if possible - the more the better! As you practice good willpower it does become easier. Just know that you can turn it around and get on the path at anytime, why not now? You don't want to look back come June/July and be in the same place, right?? Allow yourself some mistakes but get right back to it.

It isn't a question of "if you can do it", it's a question of "will you do it, and when?".

I started out doing really well this year. I lost 14 pounds in 2 months and felt great. Then, I got lazy and started eating more in the evenings. I weighed the exact same for 3 weeks and lost all motivation. This morning, I stepped on the scale to a slight gain, and I knew I wasn't doing what I could to reach my goals. I want to feel awesome about myself and be proud of how I look. I'm the only one who has the power to do that so I'd better get back to work.

Sometimes, you just need to see and feel that slap in the face to make you change your habits. It's ok to have some sweets if it fits into your goals for the day. Remember, this is a lifestyle change, not a quick fix diet. Do it for you. Do it so you feel better both physically and emotionally. If you need a friend, feel free to add me. I'm here everyday and happy to help!

Hey OP, just a thought, but have you ever considered shifting your goal to something less scale/appearance related to another type of fitness goal?

I did that (just for fun... Challenging myself to do a chin-up) and it helped me stay on track. Maybe doing a 1 or 2 minute plank or something?

I'd love to be in a position to schedule a trip or vacation to strive towards, but that's just not practical for me, so I've been trying this instead.

Anyway, best of luck to you.

I agree with everyone's posts to just get going again. This is a marathon not a sprint. I also agree with Dame P on putting up smaller goals along the way. Maybe we could start the "I just want to do a chin up club". LOL.