Weight loss attention

Hello

Yes, I do notice I et more attention in more than one way.

For myself, I like to think that what's changed most was ME and my own way of thinking which in turn explains why my reaction towards things have changed so much. And people tend to react back, and treat me differently.

So... before when I was horribly overweight... I felt looked at by ppl in public places all the time but I used to have a negative reaction to people in general. I was afraid people would dislike me, or judge me, I had this feeling that people looked at me for bad reasons. Now I think people look at me because they find me beautiful more often than I think they might be thinking something bad

People tend to not take me for granted as much now too. They seem to trust me more, or hear me more. As if now I am someone who deserves to be heard or trusted. Or maybe now I just behave like someone who actually has something to say. I guess that's the real difference.

Yep, we are a judgmental people for sure. If only we could truly walk in someone else's shoes, we may be a bit less so.