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Girls, can you always tell you're being checked out?

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  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    yes and no. I used to be able to tell from about a block away if a guy was attracted to bigger girls including me. It was just obvious. But now that I'm somewhat smaller I can't even tell, the range of guys that do check me out has changed. I don't care anyway because I have a gorgeous awesome husband. But it's odd not really knowing.
  • s_yeatts
    s_yeatts Posts: 753
    It's so easy to tell haha when the eyes go up and down, you know lol
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    No. I ignore people. Ether I rarely get checked out (possible) or I just don't notice.
  • pseudomuffin
    pseudomuffin Posts: 1,058 Member
    Some guys are just really obvious about it. I like that the best :smokin:

    Dude pointed me out to his friend at the airport the other day. They even did the lean back/head tilt as I was walking away thing. Made me smile! Yoga pants for the win.
  • darkrose20
    darkrose20 Posts: 1,139 Member
    I'm obllivious. My friends have to tell me someone is checking me out.
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    Yes
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
    Nope... Nobody looks, nobody cares :grumble:
  • FoxBean
    FoxBean Posts: 910 Member
    No, I'm oblivious in that sense, I only notice if it's clear as day, but usually I just think they are looking at another fellow human.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Yes.
  • FlyThisKite
    FlyThisKite Posts: 183 Member
    No, not normally. Even when I was small, big, whatever unless someone approached me I had no effing clue. I had to have gal pals tell me later... and I would be all..really? Crap..didn't notice.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I get stared at a lot but im pretty sure its not because they are checking me out
  • cowgirlqueen
    cowgirlqueen Posts: 466 Member
    no one checks me out an if they do i have no clue. a guy would have to be so blunt to the point of awkwardness.
  • cklbrown
    cklbrown Posts: 4,696 Member
    I don't think anyone has ever checked me out. If so then I can't tell!
  • PixTheCupCakeDestroyer
    PixTheCupCakeDestroyer Posts: 442 Member
    I tend to be the tallest, prettiest girl in the room, I get a lot of attention and yeah I can usually tell when I'm being checked.out.
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    Generally only when I'm being checked out by teenage boys. They are kind of obvious.
  • HughJerektion
    HughJerektion Posts: 174
    Generally only when I'm being checked out by teenage boys. They are kind of obvious.

    I can confirm
  • raneylfrick
    raneylfrick Posts: 380 Member
    I usually only notice if someone has their hands on my boobs or my *kitten*....
  • ShreddingIt_84
    ShreddingIt_84 Posts: 141
    Pfff even when they are not i know they are! :P
  • ohiowhthse
    ohiowhthse Posts: 38
    I feel the same way, awkward. Typically oblivious because unless they're like DANG, I'm not truly paying attention..lol
  • KarenJanine
    KarenJanine Posts: 3,497 Member
    I never notice actually!! my boyfriend tells me afterward when people check me out. its really flattering! :)

    This
  • AlwaysInMotion
    AlwaysInMotion Posts: 409 Member
    I assume it's everything else first.
    This guy was watching me while I was using the squat rack this past week... My thoughts go:
    1) Oh, somebody's waiting for the rack... Dude, there's another one over there....
    2) I know, I know, that wasn't the deepest squat. It's the last set. Don't judge my form, dude...
    3) I so didn't need to add those two 10# plates this week... Can I please die in peace here, dude?
    4) What are you doing back there? Texting? Gah, I hate when people stand right behind me...
    5) Is that a Galaxy S4 or S5? Are the S5's even out yet?
    6) Man, I hate these pants, why did I wear these stupid pants today...
    7) Srsly, what *are* you looking at?
    Notice "Hmm, I think he's checking me out" doesn't appear in the list...
    Cuz I'm neurotic like that...
  • VBnotbitter
    VBnotbitter Posts: 820 Member
    No, because I'm fairly sure that they are not
  • samr73
    samr73 Posts: 440 Member
    No, because I'm fairly sure that they are not

    This!
  • AshleyM71
    AshleyM71 Posts: 3,029 Member
    Men are really good about the art of looking away quickly.
    I get worried if they don't look...worried if they do. Women. Lol. So complex. Lol
  • MrsPaulSmith
    MrsPaulSmith Posts: 401 Member
    I always assume I have something on my face, or that they are thinking 'that is one ugly chick' or 'what a snob'. If guys check me out I am oblivious. Somehow I can always see guys checking other girls out though.
  • moya_rargh
    moya_rargh Posts: 1,473 Member
    I thought they always think that they're being checked out 24/7. Makes me think twice before speaking to them at all! :/

    "Morning, nice day :)"

    "Euuurgh, what a creeper! Gross!"*

    *unless he's hot.
  • MrsPaulSmith
    MrsPaulSmith Posts: 401 Member
    I thought they always think that they're being checked out 24/7. Makes me think twice before speaking to them at all! :/

    "Morning, nice day :)"

    "Euuurgh, what a creeper! Gross!"*

    *unless he's hot.

    Never had this interaction, usually it goes more like:

    "Morning nice day"

    *gets abruptly pulled out of a conversation I am having with myself*
    *nods, trys to think of something to say*
    Crap! I already passed him! Did I even smile? He probably thinks I am a snob, or an idiot, or both! Crap!
    *continues conversation in head*

    This goes for basically anyone
  • fayefayee5
    fayefayee5 Posts: 87 Member
    I normally dont notice, or assume they are looking at someone else, or some flaw That is visible.... t shirt inside out, mud on my bum... etcetc.

    I too have a pretty big set of buzzums on me, and a chest tattoo so between the two thats normally where eyes tend to go first.

    There is a guy that goes to me gym and lately our glances have been meeting quite a lot. When Im working out from time to time I scan the gym and look around, and when his eyes meet mine, I get all nervous and weird and do this half smile thing then look straight down and it puts an extra ooomf into my stride haha.
  • ArchangelMJ
    ArchangelMJ Posts: 308 Member
    Yes, because it's usually really creepy people who check me out, unfortunately, and they're not exactly subtle about it...
  • ColeCake292012
    ColeCake292012 Posts: 247 Member
    I'm shy and very self conscious around people I don't know...so when I see that a man is looking at me I automatically assume that he's looking at me because there's something grotesquely wrong with me and he just can't stop staring. Anxiety is such an asshat sometimes.








    But yes, I always notice.
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