If your pregnant do you count as a mother on mother's day?

FitWarrior7
FitWarrior7 Posts: 332 Member
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Just for ha ha's, hypothetically speaking...a woman is pregnant with her first child. The baby has not yet been birthed. Does this woman deserve to be celebrated on mother's day even though she technically is not yet a mother? Ready...go.
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  • Docmahi
    Docmahi Posts: 1,603 Member
    absolutely
  • verptwerp
    verptwerp Posts: 3,628 Member
    Hell, yes :drinker:
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    Damn straight!
  • JewelsinBigD
    JewelsinBigD Posts: 661 Member
    YES!
  • samanthaxb
    samanthaxb Posts: 54 Member
    When I was preggo during mother's day, my friends called it "mother-in-training day" or "mother-to-be day" :) so yes
  • Timelordlady85
    Timelordlady85 Posts: 797 Member
    Absolutely, when I was pregnant with my first son during mothers day, my husband made me a mothers day card with our sons ultrasound picture in it. He was waving in the picture and he wrote a cute little mothers day poem for me.
  • tlcarolinagirl
    tlcarolinagirl Posts: 1,700 Member
    Absolutely she does!
  • srobertking
    srobertking Posts: 74 Member
    Yes and yes!
  • Rskaer
    Rskaer Posts: 14
    yes and i would be shocked and amazed if anyone answered no on this post
  • kharral86
    kharral86 Posts: 63
    Without a doubt!:flowerforyou:
  • kittykat1994
    kittykat1994 Posts: 149 Member
    The pregnant lady is still taking care of her child, as a mother does for a child, but the child is not born yet. Definitely counts on mothers day.
  • _zombiegirl_
    _zombiegirl_ Posts: 79 Member
    Heck yeah!

    I found out I was going to be a mother ON Mother's Day. That was pretty cool. :love:
  • BamaBreezeNSaltAire
    BamaBreezeNSaltAire Posts: 966 Member
    Yes!!!!
  • SCMclaughlin1956
    SCMclaughlin1956 Posts: 6
    The minute she found out she was pregnant she became a mother.
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  • doctorsookie
    doctorsookie Posts: 1,084 Member
    you better be getting flowers and candy... this is the most important thing you will do as a mother. Nuture and house that baby. Hell yeah it counts.
  • stephcbms
    stephcbms Posts: 142 Member
    Oh YES !! there's gifts and cards for that to :)
  • ccrdragon
    ccrdragon Posts: 3,374 Member
    hell yes!
  • One_Last_Time
    One_Last_Time Posts: 125
    YES!
  • Star5mn1
    Star5mn1 Posts: 2
    Yes, yes, yes!
  • 3dogsrunning
    3dogsrunning Posts: 27,167 Member
    <---- pregnant and still will be on Mother's Day. I do not expect to celebrate it or get anything for it. It is definitely a personal thing.
    Based on the other responses, I am clearly in the minority.

    What about Father's Day? I will also be pregnant then.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    My mom got me a card on my pregnant Mother's Day.

    She said she was too excited about getting to celebrate it with me to have to wait another year.

    My mom is the best!! :smooched:
  • ribbismom
    ribbismom Posts: 13 Member
    You count as a mother from the moment you start to care for your child. In my book, that includes while you are pregnant if that's the way you happen to have a child come into your life.
  • PennyM140
    PennyM140 Posts: 423 Member
    No. My first mother's day was after my son was born. Seems silly to celebrate it when you're pregnant. You haven't experienced being a mom yet.
  • krystina_letitia9
    krystina_letitia9 Posts: 697 Member
    I would say yes. To me, you are a mother once you have that baby in your belly!
  • nsmomof3boys
    nsmomof3boys Posts: 2 Member
    Absolutely!!!:flowerforyou:
  • JoelleAnn78
    JoelleAnn78 Posts: 1,492 Member
    100%

    I look at it this way -- I knew I had a child on the way. I would have been devastated had I lost that child.

    Had that happened I would have forever felt like "I lost a child." Therefore, I was his mother long before he was born.

    My husband felt the same way and gave me a card that was designed for Expectant Mothers on Mother's Day. It was a "you're going to be a wonderful mother" sentiment. I loved it.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    i think that regardless of how you personally feel about it, it is far better to treat her as if she is, than if she isn't. Because, really, it doesn't matter what you think on this topic, only what she does. And when it comes down to it, how important is it that you are right?
  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    To the women: Yes. You totally deserve to celebrate.



    To the men: It's a trap. Celebrate any occasion she wants to celebrate. Even if it's your six month-iversary of something you can't remember. If she's preggers by your man seed, then definitely show her you care. And after the baby comes and he/she is too little to make a card... that's on you, too.
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    Yes.
    My husband even bought me cards from the little buns in the oven on Mothers Day.

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