If your pregnant do you count as a mother on mother's day?

Posts: 332 Member
Just for ha ha's, hypothetically speaking...a woman is pregnant with her first child. The baby has not yet been birthed. Does this woman deserve to be celebrated on mother's day even though she technically is not yet a mother? Ready...go.

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  • Posts: 1,603 Member
    absolutely
  • Posts: 3,628 Member
    Hell, yes :drinker:
  • Posts: 4,064 Member
    Damn straight!
  • Posts: 661 Member
    YES!
  • Posts: 54 Member
    When I was preggo during mother's day, my friends called it "mother-in-training day" or "mother-to-be day" :) so yes
  • Posts: 797 Member
    Absolutely, when I was pregnant with my first son during mothers day, my husband made me a mothers day card with our sons ultrasound picture in it. He was waving in the picture and he wrote a cute little mothers day poem for me.
  • Posts: 1,700 Member
    Absolutely she does!
  • Posts: 74 Member
    Yes and yes!
  • Posts: 14
    yes and i would be shocked and amazed if anyone answered no on this post
  • Posts: 63
    Without a doubt!:flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 149 Member
    The pregnant lady is still taking care of her child, as a mother does for a child, but the child is not born yet. Definitely counts on mothers day.
  • Posts: 79 Member
    Heck yeah!

    I found out I was going to be a mother ON Mother's Day. That was pretty cool. :love:
  • Posts: 966 Member
    Yes!!!!
  • The minute she found out she was pregnant she became a mother.
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  • Posts: 1,084 Member
    you better be getting flowers and candy... this is the most important thing you will do as a mother. Nuture and house that baby. Hell yeah it counts.
  • Posts: 142 Member
    Oh YES !! there's gifts and cards for that to :)
  • Posts: 3,374 Member
    hell yes!
  • YES!
  • Posts: 2
    Yes, yes, yes!
  • Posts: 27,167 Member
    <---- pregnant and still will be on Mother's Day. I do not expect to celebrate it or get anything for it. It is definitely a personal thing.
    Based on the other responses, I am clearly in the minority.

    What about Father's Day? I will also be pregnant then.
  • Posts: 15,228 Member
    My mom got me a card on my pregnant Mother's Day.

    She said she was too excited about getting to celebrate it with me to have to wait another year.

    My mom is the best!! :smooched:
  • Posts: 13 Member
    You count as a mother from the moment you start to care for your child. In my book, that includes while you are pregnant if that's the way you happen to have a child come into your life.
  • Posts: 423 Member
    No. My first mother's day was after my son was born. Seems silly to celebrate it when you're pregnant. You haven't experienced being a mom yet.
  • Posts: 697 Member
    I would say yes. To me, you are a mother once you have that baby in your belly!
  • Posts: 2 Member
    Absolutely!!!:flowerforyou:
  • Posts: 1,492 Member
    100%

    I look at it this way -- I knew I had a child on the way. I would have been devastated had I lost that child.

    Had that happened I would have forever felt like "I lost a child." Therefore, I was his mother long before he was born.

    My husband felt the same way and gave me a card that was designed for Expectant Mothers on Mother's Day. It was a "you're going to be a wonderful mother" sentiment. I loved it.
  • Posts: 3,779 Member
    i think that regardless of how you personally feel about it, it is far better to treat her as if she is, than if she isn't. Because, really, it doesn't matter what you think on this topic, only what she does. And when it comes down to it, how important is it that you are right?
  • Posts: 1,794 Member
    To the women: Yes. You totally deserve to celebrate.



    To the men: It's a trap. Celebrate any occasion she wants to celebrate. Even if it's your six month-iversary of something you can't remember. If she's preggers by your man seed, then definitely show her you care. And after the baby comes and he/she is too little to make a card... that's on you, too.
  • Posts: 3,763 Member
    Yes.
    My husband even bought me cards from the little buns in the oven on Mothers Day.

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