PLEASE HELP :( MAJOR BINGE

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  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    I NORMALLY NET 1800 CALS TODAY I NETTED 2600 I KNOW WHAT A BINGE IS IM NOT AN IDIOT

    You claim to not be mentally deficient but seem to think 2600-1800=600?

    I honestly, from the bottom of my heart, think something in the statement I just typed must be untrue. I'd elaborate further but I actually obey the forum rules and I'm not looking for any mod crackdown today.
  • 34xx34
    34xx34 Posts: 16
    Oh my god. I was saying I ate over maintenance. I wasn't counting how many I ate over my usual net cals. It's not that hard to understand.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Oh my god. I was saying I ate over maintenance. I wasn't counting how many I ate over my usual net cals. It's not that hard to understand.

    apparently, it is.
  • brianpperkins
    brianpperkins Posts: 6,124 Member
    It was your period that made you do it ... now it's the site triggering your problems. So far all you've provided are excuses followed by ever changing explanations.
  • _HeartsOnFire_
    _HeartsOnFire_ Posts: 5,304 Member
    I've deleted and remade like 50 times because this site is triggering my ED but it also helps me stay on track don't assume I'm some noob who feels the need to bother everyone I'm genuinely concerned

    I do not mean this to be rude, but if this site is triggering your ED then why do you keep coming back? I think you should seek professional help to really start working on getting better from your ED because clearly I do not think you are recovered or in recovery. Reason I say that? You're freaking out over 600 calories.
  • brianpperkins
    brianpperkins Posts: 6,124 Member
    I've deleted and remade like 50 times because this site is triggering my ED but it also helps me stay on track don't assume I'm some noob who feels the need to bother everyone I'm genuinely concerned

    I do not mean this to be rude, but if this site is triggering your ED then why do you keep coming back? I think you should seek professional help to really start working on getting better from your ED because clearly I do not think you are recovered or in recovery. Reason I say that? You're freaking out over 600 calories.

    Exactly
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    ok real talk:

    if you are always eating at a deficit (I presume) to lose 1/2 to 2lbs per week as per this sites options, you are eating at a weekly deficit of
    1750-7000 calories. (b/c 3500 cals under = 1lb of weight lost)

    You were over your MAINTENANCE cals by only 60O on this one single day.

    Can you see how 600 extra calories over maintenance is not even enough to damage a weight loss goal of 1/2 lbs lost per week?

    it's because 600 is LESS than 1750, the amount you'd need to be under for the week in order to lose 1/2 lb.

    Make sense?
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    I NORMALLY NET 1800 CALS TODAY I NETTED 2600 I KNOW WHAT A BINGE IS IM NOT AN IDIOT

    That's good that you know. Then you'll realize that what you are claiming as a binge actually isn't a binge.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    I've deleted and remade like 50 times because this site is triggering my ED but it also helps me stay on track don't assume I'm some noob who feels the need to bother everyone I'm genuinely concerned

    Perhaps this would be the time to realize you need to step away from the internet and go talk to your counselor.
  • 34xx34
    34xx34 Posts: 16
    ok real talk:

    if you are always eating at a deficit (I presume) to lose 1/2 to 2lbs per week as per this sites options, you are eating at a weekly deficit of
    1750-7000 calories. (b/c 3500 cals under = 1lb of weight lost)

    You were over your MAINTENANCE cals by only 60O on this one single day.

    Can you see how 600 extra calories over maintenance is not even enough to damage a weight loss goal of 1/2 lbs lost per week?

    it's because 600 is LESS than 1750, the amount you'd need to be under for the week in order to lose 1/2 lb.

    Make sense?
    So as long as I haven't gone over 1750 in total of going over at all during the week, I'll still lose?
  • JenniTheVeggie
    JenniTheVeggie Posts: 2,474 Member
    :laugh: It took me a few to understand the period thing.

    Seriously OP...it wasn't a major binge and even if it was one time isn't going to make you gain 500 pounds.
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    So after long periods of restricting this past week I gave in a binged a few times...going over maintenance once or twice by 200 cals. Then today I blew it and went over by 600 cals. If I stay under the rest of the week can I not gain any weight from this?
    Pick a higher, more realistic calorie goal that doesn't feel like restriction.
  • Trad_Barbie
    Trad_Barbie Posts: 166 Member
    So after long periods of restricting this past week I gave in a binged a few times...going over maintenance once or twice by 200 cals. Then today I blew it and went over by 600 cals. If I stay under the rest of the week can I not gain any weight from this?

    Alright, let's break it down.

    To gain one pound of fat you would have to eat not only maintenance, but 3,500 fatty calories (roughly) OVER maintenance (and probably more, since the body is a funny thing I don't pretend to understand.)
    200 twice is 400.
    Over 600? Let's say 800.

    That's 1,200 extra calories in the last week. 1,200/7 is 171.4 (and some change). Technically since your first 'binge' day (which I gather was a week ago?) until today you've consumed 171-172 calories a day.
    If you've been as good as you say you have then you most likely won't see any number increase on the scale. In fact if your metabolism/body are a little on the sensitive side you might have shocked your metabolism into burning a bit extra every day by giving yourself more.
    Even if that possibility doesn't ring out true for you, a woman's body burns more calories a day while menstruating then it does other times in her cycle. Not a huge amount but I *THINK* 75-175 extra calories a day? There's some science behind this I just don't know where to look. So, honestly, you probably broke even, if not slid in just under.
    :)
    Take deep breath, drink a glass of water, and smile.
    Stay away from that scale until all your menstrual water retention is gone and then see where you're at.

    Edited for clarification.
  • Trad_Barbie
    Trad_Barbie Posts: 166 Member
    I've deleted and remade like 50 times because this site is triggering my ED but it also helps me stay on track don't assume I'm some noob who feels the need to bother everyone I'm genuinely concerned

    You're not far enough along in your recovery to be on this site, then. Do yourself a huge favor and delete your account permanently and just make healthier choices. If you fuel yourself with wholesome foods and ignite your metabolism with proper nutrition and regular physical activity then the rest will take care of its self. Your body did its thing long before you became as aware of it as your are now.
  • kdeaux1959
    kdeaux1959 Posts: 2,675 Member
    200-600 calories is NOT a binge, let alone a major one. If you are set for a one pound per week weight loss, at 200 calories over, you lose about 1/2 pound per week... At 600 per day, you would gain a pound in about 35 weeks... I regularly go over some but it is ok; it balances in the end. You should be just fine... Now, if you have been on a major restriction you may see an increase in water weight but this will go away as quickly as it came. Try to relax. Balance in all things.
  • SuperstarDJ
    SuperstarDJ Posts: 443 Member
    So after long periods of restricting this past week I gave in a binged a few times...going over maintenance once or twice by 200 cals. Then today I blew it and went over by 600 cals. If I stay under the rest of the week can I not gain any weight from this?

    If you continue to restrict, you'll have to accept the consequences, i.e. "bingeing". If you stay under for the rest of the week, you will most likely "binge" again.

    I have to agree with the others: 200-600 is not a binge.
  • SuperstarDJ
    SuperstarDJ Posts: 443 Member
    I NORMALLY NET 1800 CALS TODAY I NETTED 2600 I KNOW WHAT A BINGE IS IM NOT AN IDIOT
    Then out of curiosity, why did you title your post "PLEASE HELP :( MAJOR BINGE"?

    As others have pointed out, nobody called you an idiot; we're only trying to help.
  • SuperstarDJ
    SuperstarDJ Posts: 443 Member
    I've deleted and remade like 50 times because this site is triggering my ED but it also helps me stay on track don't assume I'm some noob who feels the need to bother everyone I'm genuinely concerned
    Ah, I'm only seeing this now. From one ED sufferer to another; if this site - or anything in your life for that matter - is triggering you, then it is not worth the amount of 'help' it maybe offering you. Sorry you're suffering with ED. I know how awful they are :( I sincerely wish you all the best in your recovery and hope you're receiving some RT help for it :flowerforyou:

    ETA: I understand, as a fellow sufferer, that going over your TDEE by even 2 calories can feel like a 'binge'
  • 34xx34
    34xx34 Posts: 16
    I've deleted and remade like 50 times because this site is triggering my ED but it also helps me stay on track don't assume I'm some noob who feels the need to bother everyone I'm genuinely concerned
    Ah, I'm only seeing this now. From one ED sufferer to another; if this site - or anything in your life for that matter - is triggering you, then it is not worth the amount of 'help' it maybe offering you. Sorry you're suffering with ED. I know how awful they are :( I sincerely wish you all the best in your recovery and hope you're receiving some RT help for it :flowerforyou:

    ETA: I understand, as a fellow sufferer, that going over your TDEE by even 2 calories can feel like a 'binge'
    Thank you. I felt like it was a binge I literally ate 1900 calories in almost one sitting. And couldn't seem to stop myself so to me, it was a binge no matter how little it may seem to anyone else.