Male Selfies, Gay or Ok?

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  • LazyBearGrrr
    LazyBearGrrr Posts: 35 Member
    I think you pretty much summed it up here...
    if you're taking a selfie to put up on grindr - gay AND ok

    if you're taking a selfie to put up on tindr - not gay, STILL ok

    if you're taking a selfie for any other reason - could be gay, could not be gay depending on sexual preference of the person taking the selfie and would STILL be ok.

    judging sexuality on behaviors that have nothing to do with sexuality - NOT OK

    acting as though any one sexuality is not ok - also NOT OK.


    i hope this cleared a few things up for you.
  • Onderwoman
    Onderwoman Posts: 130
    On a fitness site or fitness profile, OK.

    Anywhere else....please don't.

    Why not elsewhere? And why are you aspiring to be a condom by your username if you are the determinant of what is not "gay"?
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
    There dun need to be no holiday for that, amigo.

    I like the cut of your jib.

    should you be staring at her jib like that?
  • boontarkas
    boontarkas Posts: 11
    We work on our outside so we feel better on the inside. The inside is paramount, and as long as you remember that ...its all good.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
    There dun need to be no holiday for that, amiga.
    Edit: (I sees you female, I edits).

    Me neither, but you know.
  • EvanKeel
    EvanKeel Posts: 1,903 Member
    As to the question stated in the thread title, I'm going to go with...both. At least when it comes to the selfie I took of my husband kissing me over a package of oreos.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    I thought people were born that way??
    Never knew it was the camera all along!
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  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    The silly things males care about.

    No, just "alphas"
    Oh.. I see. Maybe he needs to do that whole "No homo" tag.. That should clear things right up! Because obviously, according to this thread, being gay is totes out :\
    Where does that leave us bi girls.. -tsk tsk tsk- lol

    It's Cinco de Mayo, it leaves you eating tacos.
    There dun need to be no holiday for that, amigo.

    I like the cut of your jib.

    should you be staring at her jib like that?

    Oh I'm sorry, I thought this was AMERICA!
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    I only like selfies where the guys are flexing so hard it looks like their poop face...
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    As to the question stated in the thread title, I'm going to go with...both. At least when it comes to the selfie I took of my husband kissing me over a package of oreos.

    That's some serious self restraint. Oreos are the ****.
  • trojan_bb
    trojan_bb Posts: 699 Member
    On a fitness site or fitness profile, OK.

    Anywhere else....please don't.

    Why not elsewhere? And why are you aspiring to be a condom by your username if you are the determinant of what is not "gay"?

    Trojan. USC Trojans. Football mascot. got it?
  • EvanKeel
    EvanKeel Posts: 1,903 Member
    As to the question stated in the thread title, I'm going to go with...both. At least when it comes to the selfie I took of my husband kissing me over a package of oreos.

    That's some serious self restraint. Oreos are the ****.

    They were messily devoured later. Along with...oh nevermind.
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    On a fitness site or fitness profile, OK.

    Anywhere else....please don't.

    Why not elsewhere? And why are you aspiring to be a condom by your username if you are the determinant of what is not "gay"?

    Trojan. USC Trojans. Football mascot. got it?

    dang, thought you were from MSU...
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    It is nice when straight guys are comfortable enough with their sexuality to not let silly things threaten it. You get awesome bro love that way.
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    As to the question stated in the thread title, I'm going to go with...both. At least when it comes to the selfie I took of my husband kissing me over a package of oreos.

    That's some serious self restraint. Oreos are the ****.

    They were messily devoured later. Along with...oh nevermind.

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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    On a fitness site or fitness profile, OK.

    Anywhere else....please don't.

    Why not elsewhere? And why are you aspiring to be a condom by your username if you are the determinant of what is not "gay"?

    Trojan. USC Trojans. Football mascot. got it?

    dang, thought you were from MSU...

    Those would be Spartans.
  • gamesandgains
    gamesandgains Posts: 640 Member
    lol @ the thread title. Not gay, but when dudes post "selfies" with the duck face.... I just can't.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I love gay male selfies :blushing:

    i love the bisexual ones :love:
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    I definitely think the context is different on a fitness site versus Facebook or the Tweeter whatever you kids do these days. The picture I have on here is literally the second picture that has ever been taken of me without a shirt on, and the first taken by myself. I plan on doing monthly progress photos so I can provide some positive encouragement for myself. There's no way I'd ever even allow myself to do something like that on Facebook (if I had one).

    It's not a question of gay or not, but it's a question of "self-absorbed *kitten*" or not.

    Now, seeing a shirtless LinkedIn selfie would be hilarious.

    Bahahaha.. That part made me laugh.
    Not saying why though. Nuuup.
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