Girls Only: What makes the perfect boyfriend?

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  • maz504
    maz504 Posts: 450
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    A big truck and a 401K.
  • lavidaloca713
    lavidaloca713 Posts: 169 Member
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    who doesn't like them but i dont depend on someone else to give them to me, and i dont think most women do unelss you're dating out side your league...
  • gmthisfeller
    gmthisfeller Posts: 779 Member
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    Being bisexual/a lesbian. Especially since it only took one page for the Nice Guys(tm) to show up.

    "Nice Guys" abound on MFP.

    Fortunately, so do "Nice Women".
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
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    Ladies, how do you do
  • lavidaloca713
    lavidaloca713 Posts: 169 Member
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    A big truck and a 401K.

    lol perfect
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
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    Agree...women don't know what they want. And when they do, they throw it away for a "bad boy" who ruins their heart :)

    That may be your experience, but it's certainly not mine!!! :grumble:

    That's the experience 9/10 times.

    **girl complains about not having a good guy who's stable and treats her well**
    **good guy comes along, gets rejected**
    **girl goes out with bad boy, gets her heart broken...again**
    **girl starts buying into the myth that all guys are the same**
    **girl doesn't realize she's just making bad choices**
    **girl repeats process over and over and over and over expecting different results**
  • pinkledoodledoo
    pinkledoodledoo Posts: 290 Member
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    The perfect boyfriend usually ends up being gay. Perfection is overrated. Go for the guy who doesn't need to call someone else to fix things around the house or on the car. He'll be useful long after he's worn out his welcome or gotten old.
  • srv524
    srv524 Posts: 1,363 Member
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    Agree...women don't know what they want. And when they do, they throw it away for a "bad boy" who ruins their heart :)

    That may be your experience, but it's certainly not mine!!! :grumble:

    That's the experience 9/10 times.

    **girl complains about not having a good guy who's stable and treats her well**
    **good guy comes along, gets rejected**
    **girl goes out with bad boy, gets her heart broken...again**
    **girl starts buying into the myth that all guys are the same**
    **girl doesn't realize she's just making bad choices**
    **girl repeats process over and over and over and over expecting different results**


    +1 all the way
  • boehle
    boehle Posts: 5,062 Member
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    unfortunately women are never happy with what theyhave. you can have this sweet, loyal, funny almost perfect guy but the way her chews you want to punch him. or you can have this *kitten* badass cheating *kitten* of a bf but hes soooo hot its worth it?? umm.. yeah for be there is no perfect guy just like there is no perfect gf.. its a trade off, keep what you love and put up with what you hate... and i think this applies to both females and males.

    Strong post #69

    Agree...women don't know what they want. And when they do, they throw it away for a "bad boy" who ruins their heart :)

    Not true Brandon!
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
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    Agree...women don't know what they want. And when they do, they throw it away for a "bad boy" who ruins their heart :)

    That may be your experience, but it's certainly not mine!!! :grumble:

    That's the experience 9/10 times.

    **girl complains about not having a good guy who's stable and treats her well**
    **good guy comes along, gets rejected**
    **girl goes out with bad boy, gets her heart broken...again**
    **girl starts buying into the myth that all guys are the same**
    **girl doesn't realize she's just making bad choices**
    **girl repeats process over and over and over and over expecting different results**

    well... not all women are like this. I'm not gonna argue w/you and tell you MY life story, but just know that there are good girls that are taken advantage of by men and the good guys you refer to have NOT come along. But I'm not in any rush.

    There is this one guy who seems super nice but he's taking his sweet *kitten* time getting to know me! we first met the end of March and have only seen each other three times! What is up with that???? rhetorical question - no need to respond.
  • boehle
    boehle Posts: 5,062 Member
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    I dont want or need a perfect boyfriend.
    No one is perfect.
    I need him to be there for me
    I need him to support my goals.
    I need him to be my best friend.
    I want him to be romantic.

    I don't think that's too complicated.
  • sweetcurlz67
    sweetcurlz67 Posts: 1,168 Member
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    I dont want or need a perfect boyfriend.
    No one is perfect.
    I need him to be there for me
    I need him to support my goals.
    I need him to be my best friend.
    I want him to be romantic.

    I don't think that's too complicated.

    +1

    I'll add:
    be sexy
    be financially stable
    love me for me
    put up with my quirks
    have fun with me
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
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    Secure but not Cocky
    Doesnt Cheat
    Trustworthy
    Mans man
    ambition
    independent
    likes to try new things, adventurous
    Sexy :P
  • Ant___
    Ant___ Posts: 38 Member
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    I've an irish accent, so while i'm inevitably talking ****e or annoying you, i'll at least sound ok ;)

    (this doesn't work on Irish women mind...i should really move to another country)
  • sportyredhead01
    sportyredhead01 Posts: 482 Member
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    Nice person.
    Nice butt.
    Nice front.

    My husband had it all. :drinker:
  • digitalbill
    digitalbill Posts: 1,410 Member
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    To me? Someone that's funny, sweet, smart, nice, caring, kind, nerdy, kind of a smart a**, likes to get muddy, and is bald with a lovely smile. That would be the perfect boyfriend. Or husband.
    And I am already taken.......
  • Beautiful_Pain
    Beautiful_Pain Posts: 102 Member
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    Sexy with big bank. :tongue:
  • MysteriousLdy
    MysteriousLdy Posts: 306 Member
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    I definitely want him to be
    1) As companion
    2) I trust my secrets and my life to him
    3) Best friend in physical as well as mentally
    4) Intimate partner emotionally
    5) Sweet,Thoughtful and understand my emotions,if my mood swings
    6) Share ideas,laughter as well as compete with each other in certain places.
    7) Tough and sexy in my eyes

    I don't really bother how other look at him as long as in my eyes, he is what I love to see everyday and night,just to make my days better ^_^
  • boehle
    boehle Posts: 5,062 Member
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    I've an irish accent, so while i'm inevitably talking ****e or annoying you, i'll at least sound ok ;)

    (this doesn't work on Irish women mind...i should really move to another country)

    Accents are a major plus haha
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,708 Member
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    Loving, understanding, a devout listener, emotional, uplifting, empathetic, cuddler, manly, protector, monogamous, healthy, faithful and makes good money to support the family.

    Good luck with finding someone that's all that.:laugh:

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