Men, don't try this at home...

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  • JBfoodforlife
    JBfoodforlife Posts: 1,371 Member
    Some men, no matter how good their intentions may be, just come across as creepy... Of course I would say if he continued to follow you after it was clear he was being rebutted, that is the time for a 911 call... Better safe than sorry... :)
    Have I ever pulled up to a traffic light and saw an absolutely beautiful woman next to me? Definitely... Will I tell her she is beautiful? All depends on her body language... If she looks and smiles, she will get a smile back and a huge compliment... From there the conversation is in her court and she decides if it continues or not... Now on the other hand if she looks and has a scowl of annoyance... Well, she will still get a smile, but she wont get the compliment... Reading body language is the most important thing you can learn... It can be a life saver to some...
  • crohnsfighter
    crohnsfighter Posts: 689 Member
    He should have just got right to the point... "I have candy/nutella/starbucks in my car! Come and get it!"
  • Slacker16
    Slacker16 Posts: 1,184 Member
    I like your sunglasses, OP.
  • Tiki1978
    Tiki1978 Posts: 364
    IMO this world would be dull without weirdos, lol
  • SweeDecadence92
    SweeDecadence92 Posts: 218 Member
    That's absolutely horrifying. I don't drive yet but I have been followed on several occasions in a similar manner. I really don't think some guys know or care how predatory it looks to follow some complete stranger to get a date/digits. It's one of the reasons I wish it was legal to carry some kind of self defense weapon here in the UK.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    women do this frequently, isn't it equally creepy?

    I'm thinking you know some odd people ...
  • Swilla_Swole
    Swilla_Swole Posts: 333 Member
    WARNING ALTERNATIVE OPINION!!!!

    Was what he did weird? Probably. But, you have to give the guy some credit for going out of his way to take a chance. It's the effort that I applaud. Perhaps he was a hopeless romantic in search of his fair lady.
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    Decades ago, this used ot be much more common, but then people kind of figured out it didn't always end well.
    Does not mean this guy is weirdo.
    If you see him again, consider meeting him in a public place like a bar with friends of yours and don't leave with him for like two months.
  • wfrazjr
    wfrazjr Posts: 43 Member
    HMMM, HMMM, HMMM, nice work form him but bad timing. He saw something that he liked and was going after it. I wonder what he will do next.
  • SuperstarDJ
    SuperstarDJ Posts: 443 Member
    I was chatted up in a restaurant when I was 9 months pregnant. Now that was extremely creepy.
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    I was chatted up in a restaurant when I was 9 months pregnant. Now that was extremely creepy.


    Hey, I figured that - since you were pregnant - you probably weren't averse to sex. And I figured I couldn't get you any more pregnant. It was worth a shot. :bigsmile:
  • SuperstarDJ
    SuperstarDJ Posts: 443 Member
    I was chatted up in a restaurant when I was 9 months pregnant. Now that was extremely creepy.


    Hey, I figured that - since you were pregnant - you probably weren't averse to sex. And I figured I couldn't get you any more pregnant. It was worth a shot. :bigsmile:
    Hahaha!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • gmthisfeller
    gmthisfeller Posts: 779 Member
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  • bethlaf
    bethlaf Posts: 954 Member
    pray he doesnt have a job that allows him access to your dmv info based on your plate car make and model...
  • GetSoda
    GetSoda Posts: 1,267 Member
    pray he doesnt have a job that allows him access to your dmv info based on your plate car make and model...

    don't give her ideas for her next story.
  • EmGetsFit
    EmGetsFit Posts: 151 Member
    Ew. Just ew. Always grab your mace, in case.
  • Snow3y
    Snow3y Posts: 1,412 Member
    This is something I'd do, but not to try be a creeper. I'd do it more to try make a person's day... This is however, to put myself in an awkward spot, because it's something I want to challenge myself to so I become less shy lol