I went from morbidly obese to 6 pack abs! Ask me Anything

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  • Swest01
    Swest01 Posts: 5 Member
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    Thanks for taking the time to answer questions.
  • looseseal
    looseseal Posts: 216 Member
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    Quite, quite inspiring! Thanks for sharing your story and for taking the time to answer questions. :glasses:
  • pbc130
    pbc130 Posts: 2 Member
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    I also work in healthcare as an ICU RN doing 12 hour shifts. I went from nights to days a while ago thinking "Oh, I'll lose weight so easily with all of the energy I'll have." How wrong I was :-).

    1. Any advice on how you get your meals in when working 12 hr shifts? I want to eat when hungry but rarely can - I have to go when I can go, when my roommate can cover my patients, whenever that is. I know you'll understand this. I often go way too long without eating in the afternoons and then am starving when I get home (which leads to overeating a bunch of sugar).
    2. I also find that with an hour commute I am dead tired on my work days. I cant even imagine working out on work days. Do you?
    3. Do you really truly get more energy from exercising? I have never exercised consistently enough to notice that positive change. It usually gives me temp energy, and then I need a nap. I almost dont even care if I lose the @ 30 lbs I need to lose, I just want more ENERGY!

    Fyi 42, female, 2 kids, always tired

    Thanks in advance! :-) You're very inspiring.
  • CraigG75
    CraigG75 Posts: 177 Member
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    You are the man! Great work, dude! An inspiration for sure.
  • vismal
    vismal Posts: 2,463 Member
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    Must be nice to be able to sit down and not have your pants digging into your fat stomach underneath.

    I sometimes have that problem and I'm not even that fat lol
    Never really had that problem. My *kitten* was so fat I had to buy size 44 pants and wear a belt with them!
    So do you not put in any exercise at all? I'm curious, because my fitness class doesn't fit anything specific, I just took an average of what machines I used in cardio for the time period I'm on them.. added them together to get a decent estimate.
    No, I don't log any exercise at all. It isn't necessary. I lift 3 days a week do yoga once a week, and almost never do formal cardio. I go on walks and hikes frequently but rarely do things like biking, jogging, etc. I couldn't tell you how many calories any of that stuff burns but it doesn't matter. Because I am consistent, whatever the number is, it doesn't change much from week to week. Because of that I only need to worry about my intake. I'm losing roughly 1 lb a week eating 2500 calories. If I stall I will simply reduce calories. This way, even though I have no idea how much my body is burning from exercise or how much it burns from simply functioning, I still lose weight.
    I also work in healthcare as an ICU RN doing 12 hour shifts. I went from nights to days a while ago thinking "Oh, I'll lose weight so easily with all of the energy I'll have." How wrong I was :-).

    1. Any advice on how you get your meals in when working 12 hr shifts? I want to eat when hungry but rarely can - I have to go when I can go, when my roommate can cover my patients, whenever that is. I know you'll understand this. I often go way too long without eating in the afternoons and then am starving when I get home (which leads to overeating a bunch of sugar).
    2. I also find that with an hour commute I am dead tired on my work days. I cant even imagine working out on work days. Do you?
    3. Do you really truly get more energy from exercising? I have never exercised consistently enough to notice that positive change. It usually gives me temp energy, and then I need a nap. I almost dont even care if I lose the @ 30 lbs I need to lose, I just want more ENERGY!

    Fyi 42, female, 2 kids, always tired

    Thanks in advance! :-) You're very inspiring.
    Because I work nights I usually eat one meal before I go in and one meal at work. I pack my lunch and only eat what I pack. So even if I go several hours of being hungry from not getting a chance for a break (all too common an occurrence in our profession) I still will only eat what I've packed. So no matter what, what I consume will be the same. The only thing that varies is when I consume it and that doesn't make a difference. I am physically unable to workout effectively after a shift. I usually get home at 8am, sleep until 2pm, go directly to the gym, then eat and prepare for a shift. I do not have children though so I probably have more free time then you. You really only need to hit the gym 3 days a week for an hour each day to get a decent lift in. If you can only do it on days off that should be fine. Exercise doesn't give you immediate energy. You don't all of a sudden go "Hey! I've got tons of energy". It's a subtle change over time. But now in comparison to when I was obese, my energy level is WAY HIGHER! Coffee helps with all this! I drink too much coffee! I drink it before and during shifts, before the gym, when I wake up, literally all the time. I would fear for my patients if they took our french press away!
  • swarcher
    swarcher Posts: 17 Member
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    great results! i started out at 367 ish and now am at your starting weight. I am excited to be where you are down the road! I believe lifting is the key to my success so far, but after reading some of the answers you have given I may need to change my workout to ICF 5X5. thanks for the inspiration!
  • Mrsbeale11
    Mrsbeale11 Posts: 126 Member
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    In for answers.

    You have done amazing btw!!
  • Cortelli
    Cortelli Posts: 1,369 Member
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    In. Was lurking before, but now in. Great job, great transformation, and very inspiring. Just all around great job at creating a new you.

    But really I am in beacuse I want to call out and praise (as others have) your attitude and approach to forum conversations -- freaking awesome! Honest; sincere; not taking bait offered up here and there; not being drawn into side discussions; encouraging to others; polite; gracious.

    Your physical transformation is wonderful and inspiring; your online demeanor and presence is even more inspiring, and certainly more unusual. Thank you!
  • shmerek
    shmerek Posts: 963 Member
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    Dude, I just want to say holy crap that is beyond awesome! That is amazing work my hat goes off to you.
  • JaneyB311
    JaneyB311 Posts: 80 Member
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    You look great!


    How has getting down to this weight and building up muscle impacting your life? The good and bad of it.
    The good: Feel better physically and emotionally by a degree I cannot put into words. Look better. More confidence. I can climb stairs with feeling like death. I work in health care and no long feel like a hypocrite when I tell my patience about the risk factors associated with obesity. I love being able to pull out old fat picture when someone says something to the effect of "You don't understand because your in shape" or "you don't get it, you've never been fat". I could go on and on in this category.

    The bad: I'm kind of a pain about going out to eat certain places. I don't much like eating food I didn't prepare unless its on my very few and far between free days. Don't get me wrong I eat treats and snacks all the time but I weigh/prepare them myself so I can account for it. I will always feel the need to better myself. When I was fat I didn't care. Sometimes this can be mentally exhausting. But the bads don't even begin to compare to all the goods.

    WOW! You are such an inspiration. And pretty hot too, if you don't mind me saying! Well done you :)
  • Missymouse75
    Missymouse75 Posts: 15 Member
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    Hi you look fantastic!!!! Well done on such an amazing transformation and thanks for spending so much time sharing all your secrets!!!

    Can I ask, did you find to lose 1lb of weight you need a calories deficit of 3500 - did you find this true in practice? Was your weight loss as steady as that or did it vary more? I find it disheartening as being 5ft3 and on 1200 kcal a day the max I can lose according to Mfp is 0.9lb a week and to lose 2lb a week I would need a 1000 kcal day deficit which seems impossible!

    Any advice?
  • aisha786
    aisha786 Posts: 87 Member
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    [/quote]I have tried several in the past (Hydroxycut, ephedrine, VPX meltdown, etc). Here's my theory on them. They don't actually burn fat. They blunt appetite and give you energy. If taking the pill allows you to eat less then I guess it "works". I have reached a point where hunger is no longer relevant to me. Hunger does not sway me or cause me to break. It's just a feeling, it's temporary, and if your goals are big, its sometimes necessary. Because these pills are mostly unregulated by the fda I will not recommend any of them, and I'd speak with a doctor before taking one.
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    Regarding ...... I have reached a point where hunger is no longer relevant to me. Hunger does not sway me or cause me to break. It's just a feeling, it's temporary..... ETC ETC"

    I just wanted to comment that this is the attitude to make us succeed.....in so many areas of life where we all struggle.
  • 3laine75
    3laine75 Posts: 3,070 Member
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    Amazing work, transformation and advice - go you!

    .....and your diary's open for pinching food :) also, can't see your loose skin - looking great!
  • runnergirl0419
    runnergirl0419 Posts: 17 Member
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    Hello! Question-- I drink a LOT of water on a daily basis. As in, probably around 12-16 glasses of water a day. I do not do this consciously I just am always thirsty. Is this inhibiting weight loss?
  • RoseTears143
    RoseTears143 Posts: 1,121 Member
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    You look friggin incredible!!!! Congrats on your success. Hard work will always pay off. :)
  • Topsking2010
    Topsking2010 Posts: 2,245 Member
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    One very impressive transformation!!!!
  • BigVeggieDream
    BigVeggieDream Posts: 1,101 Member
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    What kind of exercise would you recommend for someone who doesn't have equipment. I can neither afford equipment or pay for a gym membership at this time. I walk 4 miles 3x a week and 8 miles 3x a week with one day off on Wednesdays. I would like to do strength training, but don't know what to do. I want to possibly tighten up the loose skin that is hanging around my belly.
  • looseseal
    looseseal Posts: 216 Member
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    Questions:

    You don't log exercise, don't know cals burned from it, basically create your cal deficit via food, any extra you may burn from exercise is just a boost. So ... net calories are not relevant? (net calories continue to confuse me, as I've never considered them before reading about them at mfp).

    How did you determine your calorie deficit number?

    Do you always eat the exact same number of cals/day? Don't you ever have days where you're less hungry or more hungry? Wouldn't eating within a range (zig-zagging cals), as long as your average for the week was your cal deficit #, also work for losing weight?

    I've been focusing on cardio the past 7 weeks, mostly because I was a lead weight (see my profile page for why). I am ready and able to move beyond this. As a female, 53, with 30 lbs to lose ... where/how do I start with weights? I have 5, 8, 10, 15 lb dumbbells, 10 lb kettlebell, have no problem adding to this. Hubs has a Total Gym that is collecting dust. Any advice is appreciated.

    I watched some of your youtube vids ... you write exactly as you speak! Lots of great info, looking forward to learning a lot from your experience. Thanks for this thread!
  • chelleymae1105
    chelleymae1105 Posts: 36 Member
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    OK...so based on your answer to my last question, could you confirm the following:

    1. Do you think eating below your BMR could cause your metabolism to slow down?
    2. Do you believe in metabolism resets?
    3. Did you ever eat under your BMR?

    Thanks!
  • chelleymae1105
    chelleymae1105 Posts: 36 Member
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    Sorry, a few more questions:

    1. How long do you suggest eating at a certain cal level before determining that you are losing weight at this cal level or not and it's time to switch it up?
    2. Do you think taking a break from a deficit every 6 to 8 weeks, for say, a week, is a good idea? Does it help your body to NOT adjust metabolism down to your deficit cals and cause plateau?

    Thanks!
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