What is keeping YOU from reaching your goal?

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  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,268 Member
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    ribs
    and my scale -_- maybe i should just update my goal to be happier with how i look rather than a set #

    yes this is what you should do....94lbs is too little for a grown woman to weigh.

    ETA: nothing is keeping me from reaching my goal. 1lb away...(actually 1/2lb)...and after this summer I may re-evaluate and at that point nothing wil stop me either...
  • knitapeace
    knitapeace Posts: 1,013 Member
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    Lying to myself. My body doesn't get on board with the "this tiny handful of peanut butter M&Ms won't count if I don't log it" technique. Also, dinner portions.

    I've been much, much more precise with weighing and measuring this week AND I bought a set of portion control kitchen utensils off Amazon that will help me gauge my dinner portions better. I still have no idea what a cup of spaghetti looks like.
  • perseverance14
    perseverance14 Posts: 1,364 Member
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    So far nothing, but I know myself and that is why I plan to keep logging at least a few years, probably longer. Until I have lost all my weight and maintained it at least a few years, I am logging.

    Since I have gone over to managing my own diet, weighing all solids in grams is working out much better for me, I mean it is eaiser to just weigh them, tare the plate, weigh the next one, and I am not so focused on 1 cup of this or 4 oz. of that, although mindful of my portion sizes, I eat a little (but not too much) more now that I started lifting.
  • TLwineguzzler
    TLwineguzzler Posts: 289 Member
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    Weekends!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,529 Member
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    For most it's going to be: Lack of consistency and lack of commitment. Keep those 2 and one WILL reach goal.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
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    Been in fitness industry for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
  • sadiebea25
    sadiebea25 Posts: 72
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    Social activities. I have a hard time sticking to my goals when everyone else is eating and drinking. Poor willpower, I guess.
  • caramel1920
    caramel1920 Posts: 271
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    Confession: Last night I had a fat girl moment! I binged on organic blue corn chips and roasted red pepper hummus!!!! It sounds funny to type it/say it out loud given where I've come from (foodwise) but still, I binged! That is what keeps me from reaching my goals! I self-sabotage. It's like the minute I'm making progress (I noticed I had slimmed down a bit yesterday) I do something to sabotage that progress. It's not even something I'm aware of until it's done and I'm sitting there, bloated and miserable wondering why in the hell I did that!! I don't know why I do that, because I certainly don't want to be stuck in this fat suit for the rest of my life, I just really need to figure it out so I can release the weight and get to the healthiest/best version of me I can be!!!!! Whew, thanks for letting me vent!!!!:smokin:
  • cherow123
    cherow123 Posts: 13
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    Wine
  • mom2kpr
    mom2kpr Posts: 348 Member
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    Too much food and not enough movement. I'm losing, but MUCH slower then I would like. I'm still struggling with portion control - I still want to eat even if I'm not hungry. And even though I workout 5 days a week, when I'm not exercising, I'm very lazy. Like now, instead of cleaning (which really needs to get done), I'm playing on the computer.
  • TdaniT
    TdaniT Posts: 331 Member
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    I let my eating get bad again. Kept making excuses to why it was okay. Then I started slacking on exercising. I am trying very hard to get back at it now. I have gained some weight back and that is upsetting me so much. Luckily I have not had to get a bigger size clothes to wear. I am still in a size 8....for now.
  • TdaniT
    TdaniT Posts: 331 Member
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    I refuse to focus on negative aspects.

    I chose to focus on what works. What works for me is simple: accurately count all my calories in, and stay within my calorie cap.

    For me, I keep my calories set at maintenance and I just eat around 250 to 500 below that to lose. As long as I do that consistently, including weekends, then I hit my goals.

    The reason I do it this way is that if I go over, I don't want that to be negative. I can eat up to maintenance and still not gain. So, it's ok with me.

    That's how I succeed. And, I just try to generally be active.

    That sounds like a very good approach. I may have to try that out if I can't get myself back into the swing of things. I feel horrible when I go over my calories.
  • mymodernbabylon
    mymodernbabylon Posts: 1,038 Member
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    ribs
    and my scale -_- maybe i should just update my goal to be happier with how i look rather than a set #

    I like that goal. I determined a number will never determine my worth or happiness. Being fit and doing good things, though, make me happy.
  • thatjosiegirl
    thatjosiegirl Posts: 362 Member
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    Wine, Weekends and the people in my life who constantly encourage me to snack on crappy foods with them (and my willpower to say "NO!")
  • gmcoulombe
    gmcoulombe Posts: 14 Member
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    Booze and Lifestyle!
    I can keep my willpower in check until I have a drink. Than everything is out the window and I don't care.
    I need to change my lifestyle to facilitate weight lose. Meaning putting eating and working out first on the priority list.
  • ShibaEars
    ShibaEars Posts: 3,928 Member
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    Snacking, lack of ambition, being lazy, overeating?

    all of the above.

    I am 29 and have been working on "fixing" these for years. Obviously I haven't yet. I just like junk food. I don't have any excuses. I realize it's something I will always have to deal with, so I just try to workout regularly and eat healthily most of the time.
  • Teamdhb120
    Teamdhb120 Posts: 25 Member
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    Wine. I exercise almost every day and eat right. I should be at my goal by now, but wine has me maintaining.