Can't do anything for more than two minutes!
Kittni
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Hello everyone.
21/F here and a bit of a challenge. I am already a healthy weight and I look it. Since moving in with my boyfriend I have put on a little weight and am feeling a bit blobby but it isn't a health concern. I'm about 5'5" and on the tighter side of a UK10.
I would like to lose a bit of the jigglyness, but my bigger concerns are my fitness and health. I used to be a competitive swimmer and horseback rider. Later, I enjoyed running and yoga. Last year, I left education and started the job from hell. My boss constantly put me down (actually called me fat at one point), my self esteem plummeted and I started smoking. Last month I walked out and am slowly feeling more like a human being with actual worth. I no longer wake up in the middle of the night and cry, so yay haha!
I tossed the *kitten* the day after I left and haven't touched them since. I want my old, healthy self back! But how?
My dietary goals are to drink more water and eat smaller portions, as my diet is already quite healthy and I cook fresh every night. But exercising makes me want to cry. I can do about two minutes on an exercise bike before I feel like I am going to collapse. I'm scared that smoking has ruined my lungs forever, which is probably extremely irrational and dramatic.
Please forgive the rant. I just want to know, how can I possibly improve my fitness when I can't seem to cope for more than a few minutes? I feel like I've hit a wall before I've even started. I guess I mostly want some encouragement that it will get better. Anyone else got any victories they can share to encourage me?
21/F here and a bit of a challenge. I am already a healthy weight and I look it. Since moving in with my boyfriend I have put on a little weight and am feeling a bit blobby but it isn't a health concern. I'm about 5'5" and on the tighter side of a UK10.
I would like to lose a bit of the jigglyness, but my bigger concerns are my fitness and health. I used to be a competitive swimmer and horseback rider. Later, I enjoyed running and yoga. Last year, I left education and started the job from hell. My boss constantly put me down (actually called me fat at one point), my self esteem plummeted and I started smoking. Last month I walked out and am slowly feeling more like a human being with actual worth. I no longer wake up in the middle of the night and cry, so yay haha!
I tossed the *kitten* the day after I left and haven't touched them since. I want my old, healthy self back! But how?
My dietary goals are to drink more water and eat smaller portions, as my diet is already quite healthy and I cook fresh every night. But exercising makes me want to cry. I can do about two minutes on an exercise bike before I feel like I am going to collapse. I'm scared that smoking has ruined my lungs forever, which is probably extremely irrational and dramatic.
Please forgive the rant. I just want to know, how can I possibly improve my fitness when I can't seem to cope for more than a few minutes? I feel like I've hit a wall before I've even started. I guess I mostly want some encouragement that it will get better. Anyone else got any victories they can share to encourage me?
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You've just lost your stamina/endurance.. Keep at it and slowly increase and you will improve! Don't give up :flowerforyou:0
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Do a few minutes, than next time add a minute more, keep building yourself up.
When I started my biking I could do 5 minutes before I was needing another breathing treatment, so I did 5 minutes, the next week I tried to do it 2 times a day for 5 minutes each, and slowly kept pushing myself to do a little more, now 16 months later I can ride for 2 1/2- 3 hours.0 -
How long were you smoking for? Chances are, you haven't done too much damage to prevent future health and fitness improvements. I keep slipping into the smoking trap, and am a runner.
Just remember, it's a slow process, baby steps to start with. Just do the couple of minutes as your body allows, and slowly you will discover you are doing much more. Make sure your body is suitably fuelled and hydrated beforehand, but don't drink too much water as exercising. Carrying too much water in your belly can be quite uncomfortable, and doesn't actually hydrate as you workout.
Good luck, you're onto a good thing
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Hi!
Well done for making huge positive changes to your life!
My suggestion for the exercise is start a bit slower, and build up.
I love hiking, but used to be hopeless going up hills (for years I was like this) - I'd be really sweaty and breathless and it sapped all the enjoyment out of it. And it just dawned on me one day - I slowed down. There's nothing wrong with working up a sweat and being out of breath, but when it got uncomfortable and my heart was pounding in my ears, I just dialled it back a bit and paced myself. And then I learned to pace myself from the outset to keep my heart rate and breathing at a manageable level.
When I started running I used to feel ready to fall on the floor after a couple of minutes. I slowed down, I went further, I built up the distances and I built up the speed over time.
You can do this, just not all at once in the first week! There's no point doing something that always makes you want to cry, because it's unlikely to be sustainable. Adapt. :flowerforyou:0 -
I smoked cigarettes for over thirty years and quit seven years ago. Joined MFP about three months ago and I can do steep mountainous hikes now without getting out of breath. Walking is what did it for me. I started with just a mile a day and gradually pushed that to longer distances. I think your lungs will clear out soon!
If you can do two minutes on the bike, do it. Then two and a quarter. Then two and a half, et cetera. You'll get back to your old self in no time. We're pullin' for ya!0 -
Do a few minutes, than next time add a minute more, keep building yourself up.
When I started my biking I could do 5 minutes before I was needing another breathing treatment, so I did 5 minutes, the next week I tried to do it 2 times a day for 5 minutes each, and slowly kept pushing myself to do a little more, now 16 months later I can ride for 2 1/2- 3 hours.
This! Just work up to it. The damage from smoking will improve. I smoked for 23 years and have been smoke free now for almost 6. It will take a little bit, but eventually it's almost like you never started. Good for you for taking control of your health! It's so much easier when you're young and still in reasonable shape 0 -
Hugs hon. Never mind, having been a competitive swimmer and horse back rider, you already know Rome was not built in a day.Hello everyone.
21/F here and a bit of a challenge. I am already a healthy weight and I look it. Since moving in with my boyfriend I have put on a little weight and am feeling a bit blobby but it isn't a health concern. I'm about 5'5" and on the tighter side of a UK10.
I would like to lose a bit of the jigglyness, but my bigger concerns are my fitness and health. I used to be a competitive swimmer and horseback rider. Later, I enjoyed running and yoga. Last year, I left education and started the job from hell. My boss constantly put me down (actually called me fat at one point), my self esteem plummeted and I started smoking. Last month I walked out and am slowly feeling more like a human being with actual worth. I no longer wake up in the middle of the night and cry, so yay haha!
I tossed the *kitten* the day after I left and haven't touched them since. I want my old, healthy self back! But how?
My dietary goals are to drink more water and eat smaller portions, as my diet is already quite healthy and I cook fresh every night. But exercising makes me want to cry. I can do about two minutes on an exercise bike before I feel like I am going to collapse. I'm scared that smoking has ruined my lungs forever, which is probably extremely irrational and dramatic.
Please forgive the rant. I just want to know, how can I possibly improve my fitness when I can't seem to cope for more than a few minutes? I feel like I've hit a wall before I've even started. I guess I mostly want some encouragement that it will get better. Anyone else got any victories they can share to encourage me?
If you can only do one second, keep at it, it will eventually evolve to 2 then 10.etc .KWIM.
I walk 10miles daily, a year ago when I started, I could only go from one bus stop to the next one, and then go home, as if that was not bad enough, all the Pensioners would whiz past me, I was that slow and out of condition.
Today I marvel at what I can do.
Weekends, I walk 16-20 miles in a National Park near me and have energy to spare.
Take it at your own pace, listen to your body.
I evolved at my own pace, I worked with what my body could do at any given time and it paid off.0 -
Thank you everyone for your kind replies. I think I will like this community very much if you are anything to go by
I smoked less than two years. Granted I smoked a LOT when I had an office job where I sat on my butt all day, but in hindsight that really isn't that long, right?
jwhited71, good idea doing my tiny slog several times a day. Impressive progress! Gives me hope, honestly.
otter090812, you are right I think I am going too fast. I am just so used to being fit, maybe my expectations are too high. I need to be kinder to myself and just take a deep breath.
andylowry and koldnomore, amazing that you have been smoke free after such a long time with them! I am determined not to touch them again. They are so satisfying but I just try to do something to take my mind off it when I do fancy one. Maybe I could hop on the bike next time :P
Thank you so much for the encouragement. I kind of got wrapped up in thinking I was the only person to ever be unfit, haha! There are so many inspirational people here. Being fit before, I had no idea how difficult it was getting there as I started from childhood. Major props to people who are unfit like me and struggle with their weight... Whole new respect for them now. I think it's just a shock when you realise you don't really know your body anymore.
ETA: IcanIwill1, I guess I'm spoiled because I did that from childhood so in my memory it was always that way, and so easy pushing all the time! You must be very proud if your achievements, I can't wait until I have a similar story.0 -
Building back endurance is a long haul game. It took me about eighteen months to go from "three flights of stairs is hard" to "hauling a 18kg pack for four miles is moderate".
Keep adding distance and speed as you can and it'll get there.0 -
Do a few minutes, than next time add a minute more, keep building yourself up.
When I started my biking I could do 5 minutes before I was needing another breathing treatment, so I did 5 minutes, the next week I tried to do it 2 times a day for 5 minutes each, and slowly kept pushing myself to do a little more, now 16 months later I can ride for 2 1/2- 3 hours.
Yep! This is how fitness works.0 -
Go slow! Don't over do it. Increase your work out a few minutes each day. You'll find it getting easier and easier. It was hard for me to be able to run a mile again. So, one week I would power walk. The next, I would run 1/4 of a mile, the next i would run half of a mile and so on until I could run the whole mile. Set realistic goals for yourself too and set short term goals. It'll motivate you when you reach them. Setting things "too high" can cause you to feel like you "can't do it" and often people will give up or get unmotivated. You know your limits.0
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I think it's just stamina/endurance, like someone already said.
We start crawling, than walking and only after we run, do the same with going back to exercising, since you were stopped for some time.
I would recommend you 30 Day Shred from Jillian.
I'm on Day 3, and in D1 I almost die...I though I was stop breathing... 2 years ago I ran a half Marathon and now I were unable to do a 25min workout...
But today I did it all, the easy version, from start to end. I will start doing some of the harder options after D5.
Kisses,
Tatyanne0 -
So you last for 120 seconds??
Then next time out go for 130 seconds
Then 140
then 150
Keep shooting for increasing times0 -
Ex smoker here and I understand your fear but don't worry you will get better with time! All it takes is baby steps; and trust me you're heading in the right direction just by being here! :happy:
I'm a hardcore road cyclist now and not so long ago I would've never dreamed I could ride for so long or so hard; now I race competitively and ride at every opportunity! :happy:0 -
You did not get out of shape in a few days, you will not get in shape in a few days. Maybe start by slowly walking to build up your stamina. Increase your walking and other exercise slowly. You can do this, you will do this, you are so worth this!
I started walking and eventually turned it into doing 5k's. Good for you keep it up0 -
Go to your doctors for a checkup- you're probably fine but mainly just to rule any lung issues out if you're worried about this, but even if you do have a lung problem then it's usually treatable- I'm asthmatic and I've found that the more I exercise the better controlled my asthma is. I just take a couple of puffs of my preventor inhaler before and strenuous working out.
If you hate the exercise bike then you might prefer something a bit more fun like dance classes or even a spin class on the bike where you feel as if you're in it together with other people. Work it up gradually even if you're just starting out doing 15-20 minutes for the first week or so and you'll get there eventually x0 -
i used to smoke to, and for a lot longer than you did. i've just done my second half marathon this weekend, and have completed a lot more races.
you'll be fine. just like others say, increase your distance little by little. if you get out of breath relax and slow down. when you've recovered, pick up the pace.
you are also probably going much faster/stronger than you should be. most work outs should be done at a conversational pace, unless you are specifically going for speed.0 -
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Can't do anything for more than two minutes!
Neither can I. And boy is my wife pissed.
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I like what people are suggesting about doing a few extra seconds/minutes each workout. How about alternating days with a less intense exercise that you can do for longer periods? Like walking, or yoga, or swimming?
For me the key to getting fitter was finding exercise that I couldn't wait to do. If it's fun, you'll make sure you get it in. You can do this!
PS I'm an ex-smoker, too. Don't worry about what you've done to your lungs already, just start taking care of them now (exercise is great for your lungs). :flowerforyou:0 -
i've smoked for about 23 years (yeah i know i should stop but one thing at a time) i manage just fine, is it at all possible that your having a sort of panic attack? obviously not a full blown one, and thats why you can't last more than a couple of minutes. like others have said just try and add a minute on at a time, or even 30 seconds
hope you get it sorted and good luck x0 -
Another round of hugs from here. The place you have been in and the courage it took to leave will have taken it out of you. If you don't have another job at the moment, this too will be having an impact. Please give yourself space to come back to the calmer, usual you before demanding too much of yourself.
Well done you, for doing what needed to be done. Take stock and move on with pride.0 -
Thank you everyone for your kind replies. I think I will like this community very much if you are anything to go by
I smoked less than two years. Granted I smoked a LOT when I had an office job where I sat on my butt all day, but in hindsight that really isn't that long, right?
jwhited71, good idea doing my tiny slog several times a day. Impressive progress! Gives me hope, honestly.
otter090812, you are right I think I am going too fast. I am just so used to being fit, maybe my expectations are too high. I need to be kinder to myself and just take a deep breath.
andylowry and koldnomore, amazing that you have been smoke free after such a long time with them! I am determined not to touch them again. They are so satisfying but I just try to do something to take my mind off it when I do fancy one. Maybe I could hop on the bike next time :P
Thank you so much for the encouragement. I kind of got wrapped up in thinking I was the only person to ever be unfit, haha! There are so many inspirational people here. Being fit before, I had no idea how difficult it was getting there as I started from childhood. Major props to people who are unfit like me and struggle with their weight... Whole new respect for them now. I think it's just a shock when you realise you don't really know your body anymore.
ETA: IcanIwill1, I guess I'm spoiled because I did that from childhood so in my memory it was always that way, and so easy pushing all the time! You must be very proud if your achievements, I can't wait until I have a similar story.
hey! you sound super motivated, and you sound like this is all about you.. so +1 & +1!!0 -
My husband quit smoking nearly 3 years ago, after being a habitual smoker for 25 years. He can now run faster & longer than me - which doesn't mean a lot since I'm SLOW. But his endurance as a former smoker is awesome. Maybe even compared so some 5'9" 205 pound guys. (He is working to lose weight also.)
My point being that keep at it, and you'll get there. Perhaps you just don't like the bike. Try different cardio and find what you do like. I hated the elliptical. I can tolerate the bike. I enjoy walking/running. And if a few minutes is what you can do, then push yourself to go an extra minute. Then take a break and repeat.0 -
I agree its a stamina thing, and you will have to work to build it back up.....but also for me I have noticed that I fatigue really quickly when starting into something, and then as I have been in the motions for a while the fatigue goes away and then I have the energy to carry on (ie: 60 minute zumba class, I drag for about the first 5 minutes and have to MAKE myself not stop, but once that 5 minutes passes I am good to go!) So I have learned to keep the starting intensity light, and kind of build up until I get over that peak....if its just fatigue and not full on pain, I would recommend fighting through it a little longer each day and soon you will be on your way to your goals!0
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Hello everyone.
21/F here and a bit of a challenge. I am already a healthy weight and I look it. Since moving in with my boyfriend I have put on a little weight and am feeling a bit blobby but it isn't a health concern. I'm about 5'5" and on the tighter side of a UK10.
I would like to lose a bit of the jigglyness, but my bigger concerns are my fitness and health. I used to be a competitive swimmer and horseback rider. Later, I enjoyed running and yoga. Last year, I left education and started the job from hell. My boss constantly put me down (actually called me fat at one point), my self esteem plummeted and I started smoking. Last month I walked out and am slowly feeling more like a human being with actual worth. I no longer wake up in the middle of the night and cry, so yay haha!
I tossed the *kitten* the day after I left and haven't touched them since. I want my old, healthy self back! But how?
My dietary goals are to drink more water and eat smaller portions, as my diet is already quite healthy and I cook fresh every night. But exercising makes me want to cry. I can do about two minutes on an exercise bike before I feel like I am going to collapse. I'm scared that smoking has ruined my lungs forever, which is probably extremely irrational and dramatic.
Please forgive the rant. I just want to know, how can I possibly improve my fitness when I can't seem to cope for more than a few minutes? I feel like I've hit a wall before I've even started. I guess I mostly want some encouragement that it will get better. Anyone else got any victories they can share to encourage me?
Two minutes is better than no minutes! Just keep at it.
It took me a long time to be able to run just a half mile non stop. Then I stopped, but I was able to push myself through a one hour Zumba class no problem. Set small goals for yourself. Do two minutes one time. Then three minutes. Then four minutes. Keep gradually building up, and you'll be there in no time!0 -
The Couch to 5 K app is really great for rebuilding your running endurance. The first week you only jog for 60 sec intervals and walk the rest. You can also repeat weeks if you are still struggling too much to move on.0
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Start out slow...you can't go from 0 - 100 and expect anything good to happen. As a former athlete myself, I had to put my ego to the side when I got back into fitness. I couldn't do much with any intensity and it was very frustrating...so I just started out walking for 30 minutes per day...then I bumped that up to 45...then 60....after several weeks I started throwing in a couple days of run/walk stints. Next thing you know I was running 3 miles 3x weekly and walking on the other days...a bit more time passed and I through weight training into the mix.
A year and a half later and I cycle about 100 miles per week and lift 2-3 times per week and do some swimming here and there for cross training. I ultimately determined that running wasn't my thing, but fell in love with cycling and swimming is a great way to cross train. If you would have told me I'd be doing this a year and a half ago I would have spit out my water laughing at you...but her I am kicking *kitten*.
Just take it slow...it takes awhile to regain your fitness.0
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