So ugly

cheesevixen_staci
cheesevixen_staci Posts: 153 Member
in Motivation and Support
I just feel so ugly today. Do you ever have one of those days that no matter how many good pictures you take you feel so unworthy? Im starting to wish I was worthy. What do you do to get out of your funk?
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  • rickysticky305
    rickysticky305 Posts: 36
    Not ugly at all!
  • cheesevixen_staci
    cheesevixen_staci Posts: 153 Member
    Thank you
  • Cycle4Life99
    Cycle4Life99 Posts: 86
    First off, you're not ugly. Secondly, be kind to yourself :-) It makes this entire journey called life a whole lot easier.
  • healthygreek
    healthygreek Posts: 2,137 Member
    I think about all the people I love and all the good things in my life and I feel grateful.
  • PinkCupcakes84
    PinkCupcakes84 Posts: 235 Member
    I have days where I feel ugly yes. Unworthy, no. When I'm in one of these moods I use it as motivation to change what I don't like. The way I see it I can either sit around and feel sorry for myself or I can get up and do something about it.
  • logicman69
    logicman69 Posts: 1,034 Member
    I creeped your pics and yeah... Ugly is the LAST word I would use to describe you. Hot, sexy, beautiful are a few of the more accurate words that come to mind.
  • piedpiper95
    piedpiper95 Posts: 5
    I like to think about (sometimes even write a list of) all the things I've done that I'm proud of, all the reasons I am an awesome person, all the people who would be the first to step up and correct my negative thinking. For example, I think "I'm so ugly" .... my boyfriend would be the first to tell me I'm beautiful. I think "I'm lazy" .... remember that you're juggling straight As in college and a job? I think "I'm worthless" and I remind myself of all I've accomplished and all I can still do and will do. When all else fails, I call someone to talk to, like my mom or a friend. It's really easy to get down on yourself, and we are all our own greatest critic, but it often helps to look at yourself through someone else's eyes and realize "hey, I'm pretty awesome." Because you are!
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    I just feel so ugly today. Do you ever have one of those days that no matter how many good pictures you take you feel so unworthy? Im starting to wish I was worthy. What do you do to get out of your funk?

    Every day.
  • cheesevixen_staci
    cheesevixen_staci Posts: 153 Member
    Thank you to everyone. I do appreciate it. I just think maybe my expectations are too high when it comes to my diet. You all have been helpful. :-) Maybe I do just need to kick the pity party out of the door.
  • moya_rargh
    moya_rargh Posts: 1,473 Member
    I just feel so ugly today. Do you ever have one of those days that no matter how many good pictures you take you feel so unworthy? Im starting to wish I was worthy. What do you do to get out of your funk?

    You are not ugly in the slightest, and you've always been worthy. Please believe what the replies on here are telling you. I know where you are coming from (read my profile description) and nobody should have to feel like they're unworthy.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I feel ugly quite often and yea I understand how you feel

    I am not sure I will ever live up to my own standards for myself ...sooo I think I need to change them standards & practice more self love . Maybe you should too
  • cheesevixen_staci
    cheesevixen_staci Posts: 153 Member
    I don't think I'ld be so insecure if after awhile every guy I ever was with wouldn't get so tired of me.
  • Cycle4Life99
    Cycle4Life99 Posts: 86
    Relative to many on here, you've got less to lose. Why not leave encouragement for others that struggle? It'll make you feel like a beautiful, kind person on the inside. Even though I've recently restarted my weight loss journey after a significant medical setback and my ticker hasn't progressed much, I love cheering others on.
  • GreenIceFloes
    GreenIceFloes Posts: 1,491 Member
    Like yourself, then everyone will like you.
    Those who still don't? Eh, fu*k 'em.
  • cheesevixen_staci
    cheesevixen_staci Posts: 153 Member
    I've always said **** everyone else. This is between me and me.
  • lambchristie
    lambchristie Posts: 552 Member
    I just feel so ugly today. Do you ever have one of those days that no matter how many good pictures you take you feel so unworthy? Im starting to wish I was worthy. What do you do to get out of your funk?

    I know that God don't make junk, so therefore I tell myself that I am beautiful in God's eyes; and try to see myself through them.
  • AglaeaC
    AglaeaC Posts: 1,974 Member
    I don't think I'ld be so insecure if after awhile every guy I ever was with wouldn't get so tired of me.
    Is there a pattern to these guys? Maybe look in a different box altogether? There are fantastic specimens out there.
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    Get dressed up in one of your favorite outfits, go out and do something you like. Smile, visit with folks. Young women worry too much about how they look. Let the inner you shine. At your age the world is your oyster!
  • mfp2014mfp
    mfp2014mfp Posts: 689 Member
    If you feel ugly go out of your way to help someone who needs it, do something kind, volunteer.
    The feeling of gratitude that you will receive back will remind you that the only beauty that really matters a damn in this world is what comes from within.
  • cheesevixen_staci
    cheesevixen_staci Posts: 153 Member
    Get dressed up in one of your favorite outfits, go out and do something you like. Smile, visit with folks. Young women worry too much about how they look. Let the inner you shine. At your age the world is your oyster!

    I think this is the best advice I have gotten. I haven't seen my friends a month. Maybe I do just need some girl time. <3 thank you !
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    I don't think I'ld be so insecure if after awhile every guy I ever was with wouldn't get so tired of me.
    Is there a pattern to these guys? Maybe look in a different box altogether? There are fantastic specimens out there.

    I agree here^^^^
  • rileamoyer
    rileamoyer Posts: 2,412 Member
    Get dressed up in one of your favorite outfits, go out and do something you like. Smile, visit with folks. Young women worry too much about how they look. Let the inner you shine. At your age the world is your oyster!

    I think this is the best advice I have gotten. I haven't seen my friends a month. Maybe I do just need some girl time. <3 thank you !

    Have a great time (but don't drink and drive) ;)
  • Jarahal
    Jarahal Posts: 36 Member
    Gone fishin'
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    Yes I still have days like that, but I have to tell myself it simply isnt true. You have to do the same.
  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
    I always feel ugly. It's been worse in the last few months since I've been out of work. It's hard to feel attractive when I rarely have the opportunity to put on "real" clothes and do my hair and makeup.
  • AglaeaC
    AglaeaC Posts: 1,974 Member
    I always feel ugly. It's been worse in the last few months since I've been out of work. It's hard to feel attractive when I rarely have the opportunity to put on "real" clothes and do my hair and makeup.
    If it is important to you, why not make yourself look nice for yourself? I'd do those things every day, if I'd care enough about my appearance, should it mean that my day was a much better one. While it's nice to get recognition from others I suppose, mainly it's about how you feel. Right?
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
    We all have those days. Luckily, those thoughts are not true.
  • kbmnurse
    kbmnurse Posts: 2,484 Member
    I don't feel good about me today either. But, I don't feel unworthy. My problem have not exercised since last Thursday. Over ate and drank way too many beers since then.
  • running4thehigh
    running4thehigh Posts: 144 Member
    I don't think I'ld be so insecure if after awhile every guy I ever was with wouldn't get so tired of me.
    Is there a pattern to these guys? Maybe look in a different box altogether? There are fantastic specimens out there.

    I accidentally read 'there's fantastic sperm out there.'

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:


    To the OP: GO WORK OUT! Makes you feel pretty bad-*kitten* and about five pounds lighter afterwards ;D
    Then again. I love getting all sweaty, so maybe that's just a personal opinion.
  • AglaeaC
    AglaeaC Posts: 1,974 Member
    I don't think I'ld be so insecure if after awhile every guy I ever was with wouldn't get so tired of me.
    Is there a pattern to these guys? Maybe look in a different box altogether? There are fantastic specimens out there.

    I accidentally read 'there's fantastic sperm out there.'

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:


    To the OP: GO WORK OUT! Makes you feel pretty bad-*kitten* and about five pounds lighter afterwards ;D
    Then again. I love getting all sweaty, so maybe that's just a personal opinion.
    Well, it's not entirely wrong. Fab sperm > Fab specimen.

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