So ugly

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  • RunnerStephe
    RunnerStephe Posts: 2,195
    I just feel so ugly today. Do you ever have one of those days that no matter how many good pictures you take you feel so unworthy? Im starting to wish I was worthy. What do you do to get out of your funk?

    You are a cutie!! Lift your spirit up, spend time with friends, or something you enjoy!
  • oChristyo
    oChristyo Posts: 61 Member
    I feel like this daily. This whole weight loss journey has been a huge battle in my mind. Trying to convince myself that I look as good as I feel. Also that I am worthy of feeling good.
  • feedmedonuts
    feedmedonuts Posts: 241 Member
    I have those days too. Especially now that I'm preggers and at that awkward stage where I just look fat & bloated, zitty, & too tired to wear makeup or care how I look. And then someone has to take pics and tag me in them, holy eff. You however my dear, you are not ugly :-)
  • Derpes
    Derpes Posts: 2,033 Member
    I don't think I'ld be so insecure if after awhile every guy I ever was with wouldn't get so tired of me.

    Your sense of self worth should not be based on external factors; it has to come from within....easier said than done though.
  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
    I don't think I'ld be so insecure if after awhile every guy I ever was with wouldn't get so tired of me.

    Your sense of self worth should not be based on external factors; it has to come from within....easier said than done though.

    There is a lot of truth here.

    Something I struggle with daily.
  • WLG1974
    WLG1974 Posts: 90
    You are NOT UGLY! STOP IT!! Just stop it right now!!
  • MissFlab2Fab2014
    MissFlab2Fab2014 Posts: 109
    I do have those days a lot! I usually sulk. and eat chocolate. BUT THAT IS A BAD IDEA, do NOT DO THAT! You aren't ugly BTW, we all have those days. our hair doesn't lay right, part right comb straight etc. Our face is dry, oily or just flushed or swollen... Our clothes fit funny.... our skin is irritated by the sun, or the cold... ugh.

    I usually on a positive note take a hot shower... avoid mirrors. and watch awesome inspirational weight loss vlogs on YOUTUBE
  • hush404
    hush404 Posts: 95 Member
    Girl, you are SO far from ugly. Everyone has these days though, just try to let it sink in that those feelings aren't even remotely justified and ride it out the best you can. Tomorrow is another day.
  • aliwhalen
    aliwhalen Posts: 150 Member
    I have a condition that makes me feel like not only am I ugly, but everything around me is too. My life is in the crapper, I'm fat, I have horrible skin, I'm raising my kids the wrong way, etc. The only thing that helps me is starting my period. If you start to notice a pattern that corresponds with your cycle, you might have PMDD too. (I know I sound like one of those silly pharmacist commercials!)

    Anyway, the other thing that helps me is reading a book, watching a good movie, having a drink and sitting outside enjoying the weather, taking a walk, painting my nails, taking a long shower, etc. Spend some time doting on yourself and reassuring yourself that you are worthy.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Yeah. We all have those days. You'll look better tomorrow after sleeping.
  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    i go fishing when i feel ugly
  • FitWithWit44
    FitWithWit44 Posts: 412 Member
    You look great
  • Talia6288
    Talia6288 Posts: 3
    I feel like this a lot of the time. What I do to help is try to distract myself. I play with my corgi, or go do a workout at the gym, or go spend time with someone who will make me smile : ) People can compliment all they want but that never helps me. So I do something that will make me feel good about myself...even if it's only for like a hour that I feel the benefit after.
  • sugarkissprincess
    sugarkissprincess Posts: 2,595 Member
    I'm sorry... have you looked in the mirror.. Girl you are gorgeous. .. never a ugly day.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    i go fishing when i feel ugly

    I go when i feel...well...anything.
  • Adc7225
    Adc7225 Posts: 1,318 Member
    I have to admit that yes, I have moments and even days like that!

    When I realize it, because sometimes you just feel like you are in a funk and not realize why, so when I realize that is what it is I try and do something I am really good at! Even something as mundane as organizing a drawer or doing a deep clean of my bathroom - cleaning seems to calm me!

    We have to realize that the reality is that no one is completely happy with their appearance - not matter what we may look at as perfect that person has some issue that they battle. Since there is only so much we can do for the physical appearance sometimes we need to focus on the characteristics and talents that we possess.
  • AlisonML6
    AlisonML6 Posts: 14 Member
    I have always felt like I am not worth anything. I am trying to change me (mind and body). It's VERY difficult but as long as I try I feel better about myself for a little while. Real changes happen over time. :)
  • sparkly187
    sparkly187 Posts: 40 Member
    hmm yes, just lt the day go and think that it can only improve from now :)
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    Yeah. We all have those days. You'll look better tomorrow after sleeping.
    Werd.

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