Gastric Sleeve Patients?????

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  • julie4543
    julie4543 Posts: 2
    :love: this site!!
  • julie4543
    julie4543 Posts: 2
    Hello everyone, my name is Julie. I am scheduled for my surgery on May 20. I am super excited.......and scared.......and nervous......and anxious. I am so excited to be talking to people going through the same things!!
  • raschlosser
    raschlosser Posts: 3 Member
    HI everyone, my name is Rachel. I am not scheduled yet. I was in the process of getting approved for my surgery in Kansas and then I had to move. So now I have transferred all my files to my new Dr. here in PA and hopefully won't have to go through to many hoops to get approved and get this surgery on the road.
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  • Hey y'all - My name is Jenna, I am new to this group and I am an RN who decided to take the plunge and have the gastric sleeve surgery done. I have no other conditions other than obesity (I hate that word)...

    I had the sleeve done on May 5th, and I am now post-op day 9.

    I feel great, just low energy. I have very minimal pain (only when I over do it), no more gas, no nothing. My incisions are healing well and I don't have cravings or anything. However, I notice when my husband eats I really want the food he's having (steak, burger etc) but I have no physical desire to eat it. This is what all the doctors talk about in regards to making those mental changes. I can already tell that this will be the hard part of recovery and my new lifestyle.

    To be brutally honest, the hardest thing I am finding about being post-op is not doing my normal daily tasks, household chores etc. I even find I push too much when I try to pick my 6lb chihuahua off the floor. My family keeps reminding me to take it easy. It's way harder than I thought and I forget I have these major incisions and staples along my stomach - but the pain or discomfort reminds me!

    FYI: My starting weight pre-op was 386lbs and I am currently 343lbs. I am on my last day of clear fluids and get to move to full fluids tonight! Please note: I lost 20lbs prior to surgery and the rest since my surgery day.

    I would be more than happy to answer any questions any of you up-coming patients have about the experience or give you the confidence you need to feel good about your decision.

    I am so proud of y'all for taking these steps to a healthier you! I am glad I did and you will be too :)



    Jenna - I can't wait to be a success story just like the rest of you!
  • raghav3101
    raghav3101 Posts: 18
    Hi I m from india, got my sleeves surgery done in india only, its not as famous as in us or uk..... I got it done on jan 10, 2014 and I was 137 and today im 103 lost 34 kgs in nearly 5 months and didnt go to gym, only thing I do is keep myself hydrate walk in morning lill bit stretching and yoga for 30 mins and believ me no womiting feeling no pain and best part no loosing skin problem, it is in starting but its fine now........im 40 years n this surgery is tool, u need to be dedicated for not to eat high kcal food no sweet n no beer ;) do it for an year n yiu will be perfect :)
  • raghav3101
    raghav3101 Posts: 18
    May 15, 2014 8:18 AMHi I m from india, got my sleeves surgery done in india only, its not as famous as in us or uk..... I got it done on jan 10, 2014 and I was 137kgs and today im 103kgs lost 34 kgs in nearly 5 months and didnt go to gym, only thing I do is keep myself hydrate walk in morning lill bit stretching and yoga for 30 mins and believ me no womiting feeling no pain and best part no loosing skin problem, it is in starting but its fine now........im 40 years n this surgery is tool, u need to be dedicated for not to eat high kcal food no sweet n no beer ;) do it for an year n yiu will be perfect :)
  • wonderwoman234
    wonderwoman234 Posts: 551 Member
    My friend had the gastric bypass, had a horrible and dangerous recovery that required more surgery, and lost weight for a little while. She has regained all of the weight she lost and then some.

    She has always used food to cope with her painful emotions and until she can find other ways of coping, she will remain obese. It is understandable why people in pain seek relief any way they can - food in her case.

    For this reason, I am dubious about this type of surgery.
  • gizzmo20
    gizzmo20 Posts: 1
    Hello. My name is Pam. Im a 30 year old from NJ and sitting at 272lbs at 5ft 3in. I have an appointment to get a sleeve sept 16th 2014. I have read so much on here and am totally ready for this life change. I am going to have my procedure done by Dr. abkin in norther New Jersey. My insurance (federal bcbs) requires me to have a medically monitored weight lose period of three months prior to my surgery and I have to have a psych evaluation and talk to a nutritionist and a letter of medical recommendation from my regular doctor and EKG, CBC. And EGD prior as well. So far I have all the appointments set up for next week except the EGD and the CBC. I also have to get put back on birth control because I have to wait 12 months or longer till I am fully healed to try and conceive.

    I am scared and excited at the same time. It is a surgery that can not be reversed and I hope I can stay true to myself with having to eat the proper nutritious foods afterwards. I'm looking for good recipes to try after my surgery. Anyone can friend me and we can help each other out!

    Thank you!
  • Hi Pam,

    I'm Shelly, I'm 30 and had my surgery Dec. 12th 2013. I was 267 the day of my surgery and I am 173 right now, and still losing : )
    My goal weight is 140. I'm 5'4
    The surgery is scary but it's worth it. It's far from the easy way out, or being an easy fix. When people tell me that I ask them to tell me how that's true. I diet like everyone else, I exercise like everyone else. Only I had a painful surgery on top of it. Yes, it's easier to eat less, and eat better when your stomach is small, and you can't tolerate bad food... But just like everyone else, we stumble, and we fall, and we make mistakes... You just need to get up and move past it. It's a struggle every day... Eating is almost entirely a mental/visual activity done for pleasure. If people were eating for survival they wouldn't be spending all their money on mcdonalds and filet Mignon. It's hard to train yourself to eat for survival when the world eats for pleasure, but when you struggle with your weight its a constant decision every day to choose your health and your sanity, over the pleasures of eating. When I think I want something I shouldn't have I try to remember how I felt about myself when I was heavy..I keep my old clothes around to remind me of how far I've come, and I look at myself in the mirror to remind myself of how far I still want to go. I think my biggest struggle has been the difference in the way people treat me. I feel like my female friends who were predominately thin don't treat me the same. I'm not invited out anymore, they don't share in my excitement for my progress, and they seem to completely disregard the life changing event that occurred for me. It's also hard to deal with the difference in the way men treat me. Where once I was never noticed.. Never looked at, never paid attention to.. The sexual advances of men are something that's hard to adjust to. I often find myself wondering when I decide to date, if I'll be able to get passed the thought that no one will want me for me. I would do it all over again if I had to, and I'm slowly starting to feel good about myself, learning to celebrate my achievements on my own, and realizing I don't need anyone to validate my success. I wish you luck!
  • mommyjamie76
    mommyjamie76 Posts: 2 Member
    I need help!!! I am 4 weeks out today and am not sure what to eat anymore. I am on a regular diet and have been trying everything. I haven't vomited anything back up but have had that feeling of something in my esophagus. I'm sick of eggs and cheese for breakfast so today I had a bowl of kix. It measured about a cup and a half with a cup of added milk. Being that it's puffy I chewed and had no problem eating it. I know carbs are generally a no-no but I wanted something quick that wasn't an egg. I feel like I am failing my sleeve. I was sleeved on 4/21 and am down 35 lbs. however the past few days I have been up... Am I sabotaging myself? Please help!
  • Pkf644
    Pkf644 Posts: 2
    So glad to hear everyone's honesty. I am sorry that things are not what you thought that they would be. I am in the 3rd month of waiting period and I am so frightened of failure. If I can't diet now, how can I after the surgery? I also am so disappointed in myself for not being able to lose weigh on my own. I feel like lifechanges aren't realistic in my home. I am so scared. I quit smoking and thought that was the hardest thing to do, but trying to lose the 75 lbs that I gained seems impossible. I hate to sound so pessimistic, but the fear is triggering bad eating habits. I
  • mommyjamie76
    mommyjamie76 Posts: 2 Member
    Just to let you know, the cereal was a BAD idea. I ended up with diarrhea all day! Ugh...Shrimp is the only meat that stays down well.
  • Kbiliti
    Kbiliti Posts: 1
    I had my sleeve gastrectomy in 2007 at that time weighing 400 pounds. I now seven years later am struggling to maintain weight I am currently at 97 pounds. I still can only eat 2 to 3 spoonfuls of food before I could come at all. I have tried eating multiple smaller meals during the day with no success. 2 years after my sleeve I had my excess skin removed. People ask me you today if I regret having the procedure and I emphatically answer yes ...it has left me a shell of the woman I once was. The best advice that I can give anyone facing the decision to have gastric bypass is to get educated. Don't let the words you'll be thin one day blind you
  • padilla511
    padilla511 Posts: 2
    @mommyjamie76 - I was sleeved on 4/21 as well. My doc has a much stricter plan than most - I'm still supposed to be on full liquids for another 1 1/2 weeks. Couldn't take it and yesterday started some soft foods. I totally get what you are saying about needing something, anything, different. I think it's a balancing act - get what you are supposed to the vast majority of the time, but have a treat or a cheat once in a while. I keep reading that what doesn't work now, may work in the future so you should be able to move past shrimp after a while.

    For me, I'm in the "what did I do to myself" phase. I'm grieving food and my old eating habits. My rational mind knows that it's all for the best and I will be glad one day, but for now - *sigh*.

    Great job on your weight loss - congratulations! I'm down about 25 lbs.

    Happy one month anniversary to us both!!
  • crodrigu73
    crodrigu73 Posts: 134 Member
    I had the sleeve 12/13/13. I love it I am down almost 92 pound including pre op. I have 110 pounds left to goal. I am always looking for supportive sleevers!
  • jackiem1111
    jackiem1111 Posts: 4 Member
    First, I don't know why you would come on a positive website, go to a section where most of the people have had the sleeve surgery and post negative comments! Second, I went to your link and it consists of all kinds of bariatric procedures not just the sleeve. I was also surprised that so many people went to Tijuana for their surgery, that's a little risky. Any way I think this should be a positive site and supportive of all people regardless of the methods they are using to become healthy.

    PS. No I didn't have the surgery but many of my friends have and they are doing perfectly well. One had it in January and has lost over 100 lbs, one had it last July and has lost 110 lbs and one had it in October and has lost 70 lbs. None of them have had any issues.
  • Good-evening everyone! Wow! I am so happy to have found all of of you. I am getting my gastric sleeve here in Quebec, next week (May29th) Right now I am on my 2 week liquid diet and for those who don't like the taste here is what I do : shake with my Magic bullet, cold water a a few ice cubes. the colder it is the better it taste :)

    I am soon to be 53 years old and I have been trying all my life to loose weight. Coming from a family where all the others are *skinny* was never easy. Three years agao I lost a whooping 100 pounds and went to to 104! I felt so good and decided to take control of my life. I left my husband of 24 years and made other big changes with all resulted in a big depression... Now I have gained 90 pounds!! I am sure that having Gastric sleeve will help me. I am aware that it will not *fix* all my problems but will surely help me to go in the right direction. My boyfriend is supportive but would rather I don't get it, my daughter is definetely NOT in favor... I have to keep reminding myself that I am doing this for myself and nobody else.! Thank-you all for sharing your thoughts, etc. it makes me feel less alone in this. I will keep you all posted as I go along
    Hugs to all from Canada XXX
  • Hello My name is Jennifer and I am 37 I was sleeved on March 25 of this year in Juarez Mexico, I was 288 two weeks before I started the pre-op diet. I was 264 the day before I was sleeved. I am now at 240 so that is a total of 48 lbs so far.

    I have not had any trouble so far , I have been sticking to post-op instructions the best I can. I am starting to have a few problems now, I have been at about 4 ounces for a few weeks with no trouble. But the last week I have been getting the foamies regularly. Everyone says its caused from either eating to much or eating to fast. I was just wondering if anyone else has had this problem starting off eating more and then your tummy changing its mind a few weeks later. Also are there foods that you ate before you were sleeved that you now can't eat.

    Mine are Pineapple,beef,lettuce. I also graze but it is on sf pudding,blackberries,almonds,etc. I have removed all processed/junk food from my house. Can't deal with the temptation. Which makes me feel weak. I just don't see any progress I mean I know what the scale says and what my huge clothes say. Of course everyone else also . But I just don't see it. I can't seem to get out of my own head.

    Have any one felt this way.
  • I had my VGS on May 5th, 2014. On April 21 when I started my pre-op diet, I weighed 224. I joined My Fitness Pal today weighing 207. I wish the ticker showed how much I have lost since 4/21. I am 68 years old and am so glad I had my sleeve done.
  • Hmmmm..... my ticker doesn't show at all!!!
  • Hello to all you lovely people.
    I'm 3 days post op today.
    I am so glad I found this discussion too. I one saw a discussion about hunger after the sleeve. Most people said that was nonsense. I woke up from surgery with that knawing hunger pangs. I still can't keep much water down but I managed some pumpkin soup laat night which was really good.

    I am one of the lucky ones who's supported by my loved ones. I know some who are less lucky

    I read one comment about the "foamy" feeling and can concur. It's really unpleasant and takes a lot of self control not to vomit when that happens. Whenever I drink water the pain intensifies.

    I don't have much to offer at this stage but I can say that as happy as i was that the day had finally come, equally so for two days following it. I did not expect that much pain. I thought it would be a breeze.
    I was perfectly healthy going in and all of a sudden I had to practice breathing deeply and can't manage the stairs.

    BUT as I said. It's only day 3 and everything is getting easier.
    I don't regret my decision.

    I have also come to the realization, the pre op diet is a perfect test to see if you are committed to the process. The first week was hell but by the second it was second nature.

    Good luck to all of you out there.

    Any kiwi sleevers out there?
  • shell_83
    shell_83 Posts: 16
    Hello all,
    I am 4 days out now post-op. Things are getting easier everyday. I also had to have my gallbladder removed too, so the recovery is a little different.

    I have lost 8lbs so far and I will be keeping track on MFP, I do not regret my decision to have the surgery. I am looking forward to changing my life for good. Friend Request me if you would like to keep each other motivated. Good Luck to everyone!
  • jobiejames
    jobiejames Posts: 1 Member
    My husband has it almost 1 yr ago and has lost 165 lbs.... He eats Dannon light and fit Greek yogurt a few times a day with fresh fruit to make sure he is getting enough protien.... Hey will add low at cottage cheese to it to increase the protein... We have also found that natures own has granola with 10 grams if protein per serving that goes good with his yogurt. I am scheduled for a consultation mid June. He usually only eats regular food with us at supper. Just thought I would share what is working for him... He says he really doesn't desire regular food any more. I hope tht is the case with me
  • MyMalfunction7
    MyMalfunction7 Posts: 61 Member
    I got the sleeve gastrectomy 12/28/2008, so I am coming up on my 7 year visit (6 and a half now, I suppose). I've lost just under half my starting weight, 152 pounds, since surgery - feel free to ask me anything!
  • chanely5
    chanely5 Posts: 3 Member
    HI everyone...
    My name is Chanel..
    I started my 2 week pre-op diet yesterday.. I have a VSG date of 6/10/14

    Im scared.. and excited;.... like most I'm sure...

    PS this pre-op diet really sucks,
    I clean for a living and am up on my feet doing physical activity every night...
    I get shaky sometimes


    I don't have much support from my family
    but my new boyfriend has been great about it.
    what I'm happy about is we met before surgery, so he likes me for me, no matter what I weigh..:smile:


    PLEASE add me as a friend, I'm willing to talk anytime, and need some support and want to be there for others..

    good luck to everyone
    :wink:
  • hoosiersec
    hoosiersec Posts: 7
    My surgery is scheduled for June 6. I am so scared. I will be honest right now I do not exercise. Food is all I think about. I am so depressed. My feet and legs hurt all the time. So needless to say I am lazy. Very stressed. Its been nice reading all the stories on here. And confusing.
  • hoosiersec
    hoosiersec Posts: 7
    Thanks for sharing. I have my surgery June 6 and I am so scared!!
  • IndoMarty
    IndoMarty Posts: 1
    God bless you all.
  • I was so scared too, but in the end it's so worth it. It really is. Good luck with everything!!
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